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Tatum, 41

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About Me

I am a florist by day and an aspiring artist/photographer by night.- no I am not Canadian. I fully enjoyed my time there but I longed for the sun and the sea -..- just not sure exactly where yet.... maybe you could help me figure out the right place.I'm not looking for someone who has to party all the time. I am looking for someone who is educated or if not at least someone who has drive and is motivated.These are my photos - they are current & I do look young for my age, it's what happens when you live in cloudy conditions for years, plus I have good genes!I prefer dogs to cats and I am known for being rather cheeky and sarcastic. My friends would say I'm spontaneous, fun-loving and forthright - but not rude, I'm just not afraid to speak my mind. I've been described as a bit of a free-spirit & I can be terribly clumsy. I'm incredibly independent but I think a man that opens the door for me is charming & for the right person I am willing to let you into my life as long as you are willing to let me into yours.As for the 'I want a relationship' - yes, in the long term I do but only for the right person and the right reasons, it just has to happen naturally and I'm certainly not expecting it to happen overnight.; has integrity. I have been on here before & have met some lovely people but obviously I haven't found the one that stuck, so I find myself here again.if you want to know more just ask but don't ask me to add you to ***, I won't. I prefer getting to know someone in person and not online - I think this is a great place for a starting point but I believe the only way to get to know someone is to actually spend time with them. if you are married or in a relationship - don't bother, it's just wrong & if you are going to send me a link to your porn site - I will block you. However, if you are good at lifting heavy objects that's a bonus as long as you don't ask why. something predictable like coffee or a drink & let's just see how we get along & go from there... or better yet, paddle boarding or kayaking....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dennis

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a kind hearted giving women. I love to hang out. I enjoy being with my boys. My husband passed away, but first we were very good friends. That is how I would like to start another relationship. Friends is the most important part, so that you can tell each other every thing, even when it is going to hurt. It is a great place to live. I worked at a local bank and loved it, but after my husband passed away it became very clear that I needed to go back to school. I think this career will fit my personality well. I love to cook, enjoy watching a movie and snuggling, love to stay in bed on a cold day, and I enjoy thunder storms. Things I am going to do before I die..... Hope to hear from you soon.P SPlease, if you are not ready to start a relationship, don't contact me. I am looking for the real deal, not just to have a good time. Thank you

  • Tamra

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    43 years old, fun-loving, down to earth, and ready to find my one and only. I like camping, bon fires, snuggling, watching movies, get togethers with family and friends. lol ... Anything's possible!

  • Linette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love art, anything unusual, tats, (although I currently have none), piercings. I work hard, like to play hard, but I am selective. I enjoy the uniqueness that is each person individually. I consider myself a libertarian, although I mostly dislike politics because of what it has become. Im very open minded, non judgmental. I believe in equality. Please be open minded. You are not required to like everything that I like. I listen to a variety of music, but typically land on the Buzz, alternative rock. I am not really a drinker unless I go out. On these occasions, I can throw em back with the best of them. I RARELY go out..if that gives any indication of my alcohol consumption.I like a man who knows what is what and can take care of his own stuff. This type of man knows who he is and what he wants..and can make me want those same things. Intelligence is sexy. I prefer men who have a little meat on their bones as opposed to someone ultra thin. However, its mostly attitude and personality that i am attracted to. A sense of humor doesnt hurt either. Smoking is my deal breaker. I love to kiss and i dont want to taste cigarettes.What Im NOT looking for: A sex partner, an affair, a 20-year-old. If you are looking for sex only, please move on and do not message me. Sex is very important to me, but it isnt the only thing that is important. True connection comes from two people who know each other and care about each other. If you arent willing to share of yourself, move on. If you are religious..looking for a christian mate..please look elsewhere, that isnt me. My profile states 'non religious'. Im not judgmental at all..but I want to be straightforward about who I am. I do not want to get remarried..ever. I dont want more children although if you have kids and we hit it off..I will love them as my own. Please dont let my "separated" status scare you. Its been a long time. My ideal first date is one that involves laughter, fun, nonstressful, a drink or 5 whichever we decide. We can go pretty much anywhere.. a bar or just a restaurant. OR none of the above..and we can meet at some random place and do something very random.

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