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Lilyana, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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About Me

I am the girl next door...or so I've been told. You decide - after we meet...I can be silly, scared, or serious. I am rational, irrational, or occasionally confused. I love to laugh, to cry, or to cry laughing.I can observe, be outspoken, or be outgoing.I expect better for myself & wish the same for others.I am well versed, cultured, & prepared to travel.I am traditional, vintage, with a spoonful of modern.I am driven passionately & compassionately.I find beauty from within & dismiss the ugliness.I taste, eat, & cook tasty meals.I am snobby or a very best friend. I am calm, enthusiastic, & eventually exhausted.I whisper, speak, or my silence can speak volumes.I toe tap, whistle, hum, sing along, dance, or belt out a tune when moved.I'm a lil bit country, opera, li'l more alternative, & a whole mess of bluesy rock-n-roll....But there's nothing like melting into a worthy partner's embrace after a long day at work.Seeking my companion (as God intended):An intelligent, respectful, sincere man with a great sense of humor; A guy's guy - only intended for one woman - just me. A man who communicates well, understands the significance of a home life, works smart, and is authentic. I find smoking, laziness, ***, anger, and jealousy to be unattractive. Definitely NOT seeking:-egos (bullies, controlling, self centered)-addicts (smoking, drug users, alcohol required), -Type A behavior (control freaks), -baggage carriers (relinquishing excess junk is for yard sales).Since this is a screening process, my standards are high so I am selective. No photo, No reply. Something mutually agreed upon...where we can talk and begin connecting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Canadian Portuguese Thai Comedy Martial Arts Sport
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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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