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Shantell, 43

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About Me

Starting over after a long relationship. I have 3 kids who are my life!!! I'm looking to get out and have some fun :) I love to laugh, joke around, I hate drama, fake people, and selfish people need not apply! Lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ferne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hmmm.. me:Elegant at times. Earthy. Simple. Feminine, sensual, intuitive, warm.I can also be pretty driven and ambitious. I'm a solopreneur, love my work and how it brings out my strengths, and challenges me, and transforms me every day.I can be pretty laid back, don't like drama, and realize there are few certain things worth getting worked up over. I have a sense of humor, though I think it's pretty subtle.I love being a momma. I'm protective, gentle, nurturing, a bit of a softie. Raising a kid has been a phenomenally life-changing visit to crazy land and back. Parenting can break your heart and make you melt every minute of every day. Kinda cracks you open, which I'm grateful for.Love being outdoors, attempting gardening (though it looks easier than it is - like how the hell am I supposed to know what to do about vine bores?), a book reader. A decent cook--mostly simple and healthy.I'm drawn to men who have a strong sense of humor. Who know how to love, how to be a man - Are honest and kind. Like to read. Value communication. Aren't strangers to personal development.Look for someone interested in mutual respect, getting to really know one another (as in, let your guard down - willing to be vulnerable), shared sensibilities and values, who wants to share a sexy, delicious, fun life together. Short and sweet. Coffee preferably.

  • Dotty

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m a person with many interests in movies, music and arts. I love watching visiting events. I would like to meet someone who actually sees me. Not someone who judges a book by its cover.

  • Davida

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun, free spirited individual who knows what I want and what I don't. I am honest, nearly to a fault. Part of that honesty is letting you know that I am looking for someone who believes in God, themselves and the power of love. I know that kinda sounds like a song lyric! LOL! I love my little dog and spending time with him outdoors. I love my state and have traveled it extensively. I enjoy reading, often more than one book at a time. love good food, laughs and spending time with friends. I am beyond the drama in my life and don't care to deal with any in my relationships. I think chemistry is important, but might be willing to see if it develops...(not because I am willing to settle, I'm not, but because settling for mostly chemistry or all chemistry generally leads to short lived & less meaningful relationships). I am financially, spiritually & emotionally secure and looking for the same in a man. A work ethic is important to me in a mate, but you need to know that doesn't mean being a workaholic. Do you have a job or a career? If you don't enjoy your work, do you have good coping skills that allow you to have balance in other areas of your life? If life is enjoyable, you might be who I am looking for.For those scared off by my widow status, here's some reasons not to be. It's been a little over a year and a half;; I am not trying to replace him or compare; I am only human and miss the stability, companionship, fun and friendship that being in a committed relationship brings! I enjoy many activities and appreciate effort (and it doesn't have to be extraordinary or expensive!). It should include the atmosphere & time to chat and get to know each other. Coffee or ice cream is always yummy! Fun...is obviously fun!

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