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Lashay, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Media

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About Me

I am a dreamer! This doesn't mean I am not firmly grounded in reality, it means I am always thinking and creative. I see potential in people and in life! I believe humans are made to love and to seek love and that things are made to be used...not the other way around. I have a sweet life and I'm hoping to share it-everyone should have it so good!I am competitive and compassionate at the same time...if we were running a race and you fell down, after I stopped laughing, I'd make sure you were ok, I'd kiss your owie better, then run away to win the race (although I find running and laughing very difficult).I love my job, but I LOVE being on vacation and travelling! I have amazing friends in far off places and as much as I want everyone who is special to me to be living on my street, I feel lucky to be able to travel to see them in all the glory of where they live! I've been in a 5 year love affair with Puerto Vallarta, it is an amazing spot in this world!..I love to be outside. Pure and simple, doing whatever... I love to cross country ski but since breaking myself in a non-gracefull fling down some stairs I have been unable to for a few winters...maybe this year I will be brave!I like all kinds of music, I love a few types of music and I adore the Beastie Boys...gotta get up to get down!I have a dog, he's a little love and fully dedicated to missing me when I'm gone and celebrating when I get home! I've managed to teach him his right and left and have made him hopelessly addicted to treats, I am the treat pusher! I like strong earthy guys who aren't trying to be prettier than me and are comfortable having a conversation or just relaxing in the peace and calm. Sometimes, I secretly feel like a princess (being purely honest) and want exactly what I want, but I'm really easy going and very realistic. I don't pout (or stamp my feet when anyone is looking!)Mostly I feel like fabulous little me and just want to find that certain soul to fit with mine, the rest is just fluff... a picnic, coffee, dinner, dancing, rollerskating... who really knows but when the time comes I'll have a plan made!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Rap Traveling German South American Documentary Music Dance
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