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Ira, 41

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About Me

Looking for a connection! Life is short and I believe most people want and need to have meaningful connections to other people. ...I don't believe a self summary can do anyone justice...there are too many layers to a person to summarize. I can tell you that I enjoy life and I love to smile. Life can get a bit stressful at times but hey, that is life! I love music, I love learning to play musical *** believe we should learn at least one thing new everyday. I am health conscious, I enjoy cooking, I value my connections with people, and I believe in kindness... I will tell you more if you are interested enough to ask.I am looking for a man who is driven to succeed and enjoys his professional life as much as he enjoys his personal life. I am attracted to men who are health conscious and take care of themselves. Attraction begins with a vision of a person, but quickly goes beyond the physical attraction. I know physical attraction is important to me, but after the initial attraction there must be more! Hmmm. Couples mani / pedi perhaps?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Rocio

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm not a newbie to this online meeting people.I've met a lot of nice people here, but not "the one". I'm a down to earth, unique t-shirt and jeans type of girl, but when occasion calls for a black tie function; I can leave a taco stand and be ready in just under 3.5 seconds. Not bad!I've been told I could sale ice to eskimo's...lol...I love people and people usually love me back...I fit in just about anywhere, with anyone. I love adventure. I'm a big risk taker and there's not too many things I will not do! So if your into jumping out of airplanes, I'm all for it!I love shopping, shopping and shopping. Did I mention shopping; lol... Most of all, I like buying for others. It always brings a smile to my face. I like most all types of music. Rock, R&B, Rap, Country, most anything will do. I enjoy dancing and especially like dancing to Latin music like reggaeton, Bachata, Merengue & Salsa. Music has a way of bringing out the best in me. Especially while I get my workout on at the gym. God is very important in my life. However, I don't judge a person on their beliefs. I love early morning walks and watching the sun rise. I like to hang out at the lake, swim, jet ski, water ski, rollarblade, go to a movie once in a while,or just stay home and enjoy the company of friends. Which I'm never at a shortage of. Laughter is a must so if you're too serious about yourself we probably wouldn't get along.I believe VARIETY is the spice of life. I think without variety we would all be the same and life would be,"oh,so boring". I also enjoy studing other cultures. They always come first before anything else in my life. My son Dezmond just turned 19 and my daughter Annalise is just turning 9. They have a great father and there is no drama in my life.I've been separated for 8 years and have been dating for for a while now. During that time, I've met some great guys and have made some really good friends. If there's anything you would like to know, just hit me up and I'll be glad to answer most questions. Coffee shops are a great place to meet and talk. Dinner and drinks are fun. Music in the park is nice. Any type of sporting activity is always a plus. Communication is the key during a first date. It's good to get to know each others likes and dislikes. I'm sure not to take anything too serious on the first date, just enjoying each others company is a plus. I'm open to any idea's....I'm not a hard to please kinda girl!

  • Therese

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im a sicilian italian first generation looking for a awesome person who is in great shape ,has a good personality,stable loving,romantic and is faithful! NO PIC NO CHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!PLEASE NO ONE OVER 50 ! No one under 35Have a few clear pics thxPlease have a CAR!Be Fit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Leone

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    June ***: Basically I am just me. I don't like or want to pretend to be something I'm not. Yes, I can be shy. Yes, I am a private person. And yes, I can be guarded with my feelings and emotions until I trust someone or feel comfortable. I know how I feel about things and apparently I may not express that well sometimes. At times I will remain silent because I don't really know what to say or how to respond to something...also if I don't want to just give a response and not be truthful. Please if you're assuming something about me or not sure my opinion or views on something ask for clarification. Also if I give you an answer, please listen to what I'm saying. If you've made your mind up without asking me or believing what I tell you, what is the point? I've tried to go into this looking at the present and not jumping too far ahead. If you're feeling a connection and you start talking about a future, I'm fine with that. However, if you're feeling that kind of connection, please communicate concerns with me. Don't let it get to the point of ending based on assumptions. I know a lot of guys do not like to communicate but I've never seen a successful relationship without communication. I also do not want to be in a relationship with poor communication. If you have made it through this current rant, thank you and please continue reading. :)One more thing...I don't know exactly how the "meet me" function works but if you've clicked that please send me a message also. I never know if someone has actually clicked that or meetville decided to list that like they do the matches, etc. Thanks.I tend to be a homebody. I do like to go do things but don't feel the need to be at a party or social event all the time. I watch tv/movies alot. I like to read and play games online. My main passion is animals. I like pretty much anything related to animals/nature and the beauty they bring to the world. My wish would be to have more time/energy to give volunteering with animals. I like alot of different types of music. I listen mainly to rock, pop, top 40, and country. I think the morals that people have these days are at an all time low. I don't think everything is black and white but I definitely think some things are just right or wrong.Ok..I thought I would update this. I understand that guys like to make that physical connection first. I, however, am a shy person. Yes, I want to talk on the phone more than a few times for 10 minutes before I meet up with someone. I have alot going on during the week so the only time I can really make that happen is sometime on the weekend. So I want to know that I'm at least interested in knowing someone better before I rearrange everything to meet them. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I just thought I'd let everyone know my expectations too. I like nice things but I'm a pretty simple down to earth person. Also, I love cats! I only have one that I adopted a couple years ago but I want more than one someday so just a warning if you are allergic to cats. I've negotiated alot in the past but I know this is one thing I won't spend the rest of my life without. Sorry.And a second update....I know every guy is looking for someone fun and no drama (whatever that means to them) I like to laugh like everyone but I am more introverted until you get to know me. I've had some pretty harsh blows the past couple years (who hasn't) but I do tend to be pretty serious and based in reality. To me a conversation is both people contributing...not listening to someone go on and on oblivious that I haven't said one word or vice versa me talking non-stop because he won't say anything or elaborate when I ask him questions. Also, if you want kids put that on your profile. Don't put undecided and then start asking rather personal questions about whether I'm capable of having kids in the first or second conversation. Awkward! For the record, not aware of any issues but for those unaware age is a factor for women in getting pregnant. I'm also not going to give every person I talk to my medical history. It's like you guys are looking to buy a brood mare or something. LOL I do have some joint/nerve issues......sucks all around but can't be changed. If you're trying to meet someone probably not the best idea to go on and on about some other woman that's absolutely wonderful that you're friends with. Are you trying to meet someone until she becomes available...c'mon. I tend to fall for someone the more I get to know them so this is a hard way to try to meet someone. I know that it won't happen immediately upon talking...it would just be nice if it felt like the possibility was there with someone. If you made it to the end of this, I appreciate you taking the time to read it. Please if you are remotely interested drop me a line. I read some profiles and don't respond...not because I might not be interested but figure I'm not their type. So go ahead, I might surprise you. :) Well when it comes to this I'm not very creative. I like casual things and a relaxed atmosphere. I like zoos or walking through a nice park. Unfortunately, I'm not a huge fan of the extreme heat in summer. Someplace where we can talk some but also just hang out. I just want both of us to feel comfortable. P.S. I don't drink coffee.

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