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Lavern, 42

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About Me

I enjoy walking and exploring cities, art, museums, as well as the outdoors. I love photography, live music, theater, the movies. I listen to mostly classic rock and Jazz and enjoy listening and learning new music that I haven’t heard before. I like trying various types of food and wine as well as beer. I’m always up to trying new things. With all that said, really what matters most is the company. If it’s good, then the activity is secondary. I am social, open minded, caring and honest (but tactful). I’m comfortable with who I am, even though my opinions and points of view can be unique and not always follow the crowd. Not in a weird embarrassing way, but more in a creative problem solving way. I tend to see the glass half full and have a positive laid back attitude.I think that a good relationship is about being best friends who share love and respect while keeping an open mind and continuing to develop with each other. Remembering not to take one another and our time together for granted. Enjoying to do things separately too and looking forward to seeing each other.I really believe that neither you or I can be described through a few pictures and an essay. A real conversation or at least an IM can give us a better idea. A comfortable atmosphere for good conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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