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Bethney, 44

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About Me

I am looking for a man that has strong character, confidence, great moral fiber, and a love for family. I come from a huge family and my children are my world. I also work with children teaching confidence, with long, crazy hours, so patience and understanding is also a must have quality. My taste in appearance is varied, but there definately must be a spark, and usually am attracted to a great smile and eyes I can get lost in.I have said in the past that I would not return to this site as I was not happy with the ages of men that were interested in me, so...Let me say if you are under 35, or over 60, please do not contact me. I wish you all luck, but there has to be a real connection for us, and part of that is that we are both in the same part of our lives. And for the older gentlemen, I have found lots that would be great to meet, but with my children still being at home, our lives are just too different. I am very active with my children, and I am sure you have done a great job raising yours...feel that we just would not mesh as its like back peddling for you, and not able to pack up and travel as most older gentlemen are able to.I like to take things slow getting to know someone before meeting them and words are like windows into a person...want to wake up and be excited to receive a message from you! And Flowers are always a great surprise...favorites are star gazer lillies! Depends on the other person's interests...spontaneous, fun, dancing, live music...wow me...would leave it up to the gentleman to choose, as long as public venue, I am game for MOST anything...lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Opal

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a fun loving, affectionate, genuine, compassionate girl, nothing fake about me. Laughing with family and friends is always good for my soul. Outdoors is where I'd rather be if you ask me. Walking, biking, gardening, picnicing, time at the beach... I love feeling the warmth of the sun on my face. The simple things in life work for me. After all, the best things in life are not things ;-). I'm waiting for a genuine,honest, loving, compassionate, kind hearted guy with integrity (first and foremost) to share a life. I don't think we're are meant to be only one, why then would there be man and woman, two? I am different, I admit, but, aren't we all? I'm looking for a best friend, someone who cares enough to take the time to really know who I am. Not someone to take care of me, but to care about me. I have two beautiful teen age daughters who have kept me busy for the past 18 years. They are growing up quickly and are beginning to have their own lives, and will soon be on the way to taking off on their own. Now, I get to start a life too. I'm looking for someone who is willing to share themselves entirely with me. ...Everyone we meet will have some kind of baggage. I'm looking for someone who is willing to allow me to unpack, listen and understand, as I will do the same for them.I have to be honest, I'm not into motor cycles, or mustaches :-/ If your looking to hop right into bed, please don't message me. ...Something special is worth the wait. And, Honestly, I have a very low tolerance for games.Best Wishes! Not sure what's best really... perhaps first to meet for, tea/coffee/drinks to see if there is a connection, or a walk in the park. To chat, and see if there are things we may have in common, ...or maybe we are from two totally different universes? Who knows. It's all good!

  • Katharine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey! Thanks for stopping by....Im excited to try this new dating scene and hope to connect with a lot of great, fun men. I love being close with people, connecting and having true real relationships. Im the type of girl who loves wearing jeans & t-shirts and am equally as happy in dresses and heels....I really love clothes! :)My favorite sport is singles tennis and I have recently started running again (and when I say started, I mean, started from zero! but who cares, because Im doing it). I love hiking, biking, being outside and being light hearted and free. I love laying on the beach on a warm sunny day and standing on a balcony in the mountains feeling the fresh, crisp air all around me. Love to travel and try new things....Life is good!I am an Agent for an International Corporate Furniture company who is expanding into the United States. This is a great challenge and I enjoy my work very much. Im fortunate to be able to write my own schedule and work from my home. If you want to hang out and have fun, then Im up for it, but you must love kids, I have two under the age of 7 and they are a huge part of my world. We are a package deal.AND PLEASE NO CRAZIES! IVE HAD ENOUGH! xx First dates are always exciting for me. I love to go out and meet new people. My attitude toward them is they should be seen as a fun experience...if the chemistry is not there, then Ive made a new friend and look forward to another first date with someone else hoping for the right fit. Im pretty easy going and am up for many different things...I love going to dinner, movies, hiking, visiting museums....there are tons of experiences to share and grow from, especially in the DC area. What I really want is a man who is a gentleman, who is attentive and loyal and puts forth the effort to think about a good first date. I want someone who will take charge and plan and prepare to make the date special in some way. Chemistry is critical and if that is there, then hopefully, the first date will lead to another! I love men who are leaders and outgoing and fun and respectful...Driven men are a huge + for me!No flakes please!! and after being on this site for a few weeks, lets skip the drama please and bootie calls...Im not a mean person so relax and dont freak out-thats a HUGE turn off:) And I reiterate, NO CRAZIES please! Im a normal girl who is looking for some happiness for myself and children.x

  • Stormie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am easy going enjoy most things and trying something new. Fun loving like to laugh smile and do often. I have an awesome family that makes that sparkle in my eye every time I look at them or think of them :-) I have 4 great kids they dont live at home anymore but we all get together at times and have one heck of a great time. They are awesome and yes sorry I am not just saying that lol they are just that great. My two oldest are girls married and 17 and 11 year old sons that go to school at their dads and visit. Its been life changing of course and we learn not to take each other for granted. I do believe if your with that right person you can enjoy yourself Just knowing that they are happy. I enjoy the quiet evening at home or an evening out dancing. Swimming, walks along the beach, music, music & cooking together awesome, wineries, bike rides, going to the gym, a picnic in the park or just go for a ride and see where it takes us see something new. HAVE fun laugh and smile! I went skydiving once, LOVED it, lol. I dont like heights but love to try everything so if your afraid try to get past it because it was absolutely an experience to remember and go tandem they will just push you out, lol. I do like my job and our reason for doing what we do. I work with a lot of great people, but I will have to continue working for many years sorry I am not a rich girl. Just a hard working family girl thats a lot of fun and Im not stuck on myself so I am not looking for someone like that if you are move on and thank you very much, but my pictures are me and this is how I am and yes I expect only the same as I offer recent pictures chat a little and see if theres that awesome spark. Theres a lot of things to try or experiences that get better when you are able to share them with the right person that's what I want so if your looking for a weekend hookup keep looking your not for me. No games and met enough players on here really lol ur not all that when your old and alone and im making memories I will still wish you happiness but I will be enjoying it. What I want and what I have to share money can't buy it's much more.Good luck finding that special someone... don't forget to live life to its fullest it goes by too fast not to share it with someone special. BTW I only want one honest real guy so if you're not him pass me by. I dont deceive anyone this is me what i look like and although im always moving up and not where i want to be yet where i want to stop in my career i like being me and move ahead always. Im not a hoochie mama looking for a ride i have responsibilities that are mine to deal with but as things arent yet there if this isnt something you can understand thats fine. If you arent over your past relationship you arent ready to start new. I know what I want do you?Ty for taking the time to read about me. Good luck in finding your happiness. Meet for coffee or a drink and talk

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