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Bethney, 44

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About Me

I am looking for a man that has strong character, confidence, great moral fiber, and a love for family. I come from a huge family and my children are my world. I also work with children teaching confidence, with long, crazy hours, so patience and understanding is also a must have quality. My taste in appearance is varied, but there definately must be a spark, and usually am attracted to a great smile and eyes I can get lost in.I have said in the past that I would not return to this site as I was not happy with the ages of men that were interested in me, so...Let me say if you are under 35, or over 60, please do not contact me. I wish you all luck, but there has to be a real connection for us, and part of that is that we are both in the same part of our lives. And for the older gentlemen, I have found lots that would be great to meet, but with my children still being at home, our lives are just too different. I am very active with my children, and I am sure you have done a great job raising yours...feel that we just would not mesh as its like back peddling for you, and not able to pack up and travel as most older gentlemen are able to.I like to take things slow getting to know someone before meeting them and words are like windows into a person...want to wake up and be excited to receive a message from you! And Flowers are always a great surprise...favorites are star gazer lillies! Depends on the other person's interests...spontaneous, fun, dancing, live music...wow me...would leave it up to the gentleman to choose, as long as public venue, I am game for MOST anything...lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Olevia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Nice outgoing loveable. .loyal.trustworthy.fun seeking the same.love all kinds of music except country.I am seriously looking for a soul mate.I am not a serial daterIf some turn out to be friendships all the betterBest part about getting to know each other is communicating face to face. I am not very good at *** am better at verbal communication . No drama or players life is too short to waste on others who don not know what they want out of life. I am a positive person and I love to laugh and joke around. Going out to dinner..and going out to a place to listen to a live band. walks or just a simple picnic will do..that wld be an awesome time. Out or at home

  • Ethelyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I do not date out of my race, thank you to those who have messages me but I have to be true to who I am and that's just not for me. Please don't send me hate mail and tell me I'm narrow minded or a racist, I'm not I just don't have an affinity for black men as they do for white women. Please for the love of GOD when you write me have something more to say than Hi, that will surely get your message deleted it shows no imagination and means you don't know what to talk about so what would you talk about in person? I've been told my profile sounds angry or is mean.......I'm neither of the two but I will say this, I am not here to blow smoke up anyone's..., It won't impress me to see pictures with your shirt off or lifting weights what will impress me is if you can hold a real intelligent conversation without using slangs and talking like a thug, I am real and not superficial, I don't give a crap if you make 200K or 60K a year it's not about the money, I'm not looking for my sugar daddy, I wasn't brought up that way so it truly wouldn't phase me if I had it. It's more about building a relationship with someone who understand me and doesn't try to change me, loves that I am the way I am because maybe just maybe you guys need someone to challenge you also, it's no fun if someone is always giving in, There sometimes has to be a little banter back and forth. I could say anything I wanted about myself but you will have to figure it all out when we speak on the phone, I am not a person who believe an entire conversation should be had through a text message. This is the problem with society today no one wants to speak to each, I will say this if you have anger issues or *** drop of a hat please do not contact me. I am a happy go lucky person, I do what ever I want when ever I want, I have not answered to anyone in 10 years, if you want to go with me by all means come along but please do not tell me I'm white trash or my friends are or the town I live in is, I surround myself with decent honest people who work as hard as I do and they have my back in every situation! We get together often because they are my family. We love to build fire pits and laugh and get silly or sometimes over serve ourselves but we are a great group and thick as thieves.I am considered full figured, thick etc what ever society labels me, if you can't look past my curves into my heart shame on you, I guess you will be very cold this winter! I'm pretty easy going and can be opinionated usually because I'm fairly certain of what I speak of but I have been known to be wrong from time to time and lately my judgement in people has been a little off but I'm back on track now and will not settle for anything less than what I give of myself, I guess you will have to get to know me to find out what that is..... I hope you are strong enough to message me, I have a strong personality in need of a strong man, don't be intimidated be intrigued! Ciao for now! Here are some things I enjoy doing so I will leave it up to you to be imaginative, again that is if you are strong enough to ask me out..... I love going to the beach even in October when the weather is warm walking the beach in jeans and sweaters and no shoes on holding hands and talking about anything and everything and sitting on the beach watching the sun go down. I enjoy fireplaces, making smores and feeding each other with candles lit all over the room, no TV just talking learning about each other. I enjoy going to quaint bars and listening to really good bar bands, I follow two because they are all friends of mine, Under a Ton and Who Wants What, so that's pretty much it, I am a very easy going person and would love to meet someone who is not interested in overbearing me or intimidating me or trying to change me, I am very content with the person I am, I am loved by allot of people because of the person I am but I am only looking to love one person and show him the person I can be and will be with him. Enjoy your day, I will look forward to hearing from you. D

  • Beryl

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    i love to walk, dance,be with family,hang out with friends,my goals in life is to be happy with the one i'm with i love to make friends laugh and i love to joke aroundi love all types of music no rap (80's yes ) going to dinner and talking about each other if it's the summer i like the beach walk and talk winter go out to dinner and talk

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