• Kennett Square
• Pennsylvania
• United States

Online

Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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• Kennett Square
• Pennsylvania
• United States

Online

Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

Hi boys! I'm a hard-working, educated and loyal girl looking for similar qualities in a guy. Is that you? I'm in my early 40s, but think I could pass to be in my 30s. I'm not a gigantic girl, but I have my share of curves. I'm no stick figure or even "average." If that's what you prefer, move on, your loss. At 5'2" - well, I'm short; though I've never really known that to be a deal breaker, right? I have a genuine smile and big pretty blue eyes. I like to look my best (makeup, jewelry, fix my hair, etc***but don't take that to mean "high maintenance."I like to keep busy, though down time once in a while is nice. I've been divorced for more than five years and have no children, nor do I want any. I've got no crazy ex's and I avoid drama like the plague. I hate that crap. I have my head on straight, have goals and priorities in life, and my emotions are in check. I have a positive outlook and still hope to find my someone special. I'm college educated and have worked at the same place for about 18 years. I have a great job that I enjoy. I'm self-sufficient both financially and around my house. Do not read that as I'm rich - I'm not - haha - but neither am I looking for a sugar daddy or handy man to take care of me. I'm looking for a good guy to spend time with and share fun times and experiences. Someone who is loyal and will treat me well and make me feel special. Someone I could take home some day to meet my parents and be proud to introduce to my family. Someone who is looking for those same qualities in a girl. As far as hobbies, I'm a bit of a conundrum so don't do any judging until you meet me. 1. I'm pretty musically involved. I see it as my creative outlet with some really great friends. I love music in general, really. Going to live gigs at local venues is great fun. 2. I have a nice little sport bike. I like to ride. Either on my bike or the back of yours if you are a good rider...lol. 3. I like to tinker in my garage. Mostly cleaning and shining my car/bike or fixing things that went boom at the house. [#2 and #3 do not make me a biker chic or a butch. I just spent a lot of time with my Dad in the garage as a kid and I'm comfy there.] 4. This could be a deal breaker for some of you boys out there....I hate to cook. haha. Sorry! Sooooo, if you DO enjoy cooking - immediate bonus points. Lol5. I like to work around my house and keep things in order and nice. I especially enjoy things like DIY projects and yard work and the satisfaction and pride they bring when I'm done for the day. I think my best asset is my personality. I'm easy going and happy. I have a great sense of humor (dry, sarcastic, twisted at times - not my fault! I worked with a bunch of engineers for years) and I love to have fun. I have always been one to abide by the work hard/play hard adage - so far, so good. I try hard not to let little things bother me. Maybe that comes from the maturity of being in my 40s? Maybe it comes from lessons learned from divorce? I don't know for sure. But I do know life is short - we have to choose to make the best of each and every day! A positive attitude is a must! As far as age? It doesn't really matter to me as long as you don't just sit around and watch tv all day! I like to go and see and do! I suppose what's most important is if we click. That's what I'm looking for. The spark. Could we go on a road trip and get along the whole way there AND back?? And still want to see each other the next day? If you've made it this far and still think "me too!" then you are someone I'm interested in getting to know! So, that was probably too long, but if it sounded interesting to you, get at me (and please have a picture or two so I know you have more than three teeth and your hair isn't longer than mine.) Tell me why you think we'd click. And if we don't click on a dating level - oh well, maybe we'll make a new friend along the way. Two of my best buddies resulted from dates that were great but just didn't have that romantic spark.First dates are usually nerve racking, so let's just call it meeting up for a bit to see if there's that ever elusive spark I mentioned. No movies or loud concerts - my only request. How can you get to know someone if you can't talk and interact!?Ok, your turn. GO!!!

• Kennett Square
• Pennsylvania
• United States

Online

Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

June ***: Basically I am just me. I don't like or want to pretend to be something I'm not. Yes, I can be shy. Yes, I am a private person. And yes, I can be guarded with my feelings and emotions until I trust someone or feel comfortable. I know how I feel about things and apparently I may not express that well sometimes. At times I will remain silent because I don't really know what to say or how to respond to something...also if I don't want to just give a response and not be truthful. Please if you're assuming something about me or not sure my opinion or views on something ask for clarification. Also if I give you an answer, please listen to what I'm saying. If you've made your mind up without asking me or believing what I tell you, what is the point? I've tried to go into this looking at the present and not jumping too far ahead. If you're feeling a connection and you start talking about a future, I'm fine with that. However, if you're feeling that kind of connection, please communicate concerns with me. Don't let it get to the point of ending based on assumptions. I know a lot of guys do not like to communicate but I've never seen a successful relationship without communication. I also do not want to be in a relationship with poor communication. If you have made it through this current rant, thank you and please continue reading. :)One more thing...I don't know exactly how the "meet me" function works but if you've clicked that please send me a message also. I never know if someone has actually clicked that or meetville decided to list that like they do the matches, etc. Thanks.I tend to be a homebody. I do like to go do things but don't feel the need to be at a party or social event all the time. I watch tv/movies alot. I like to read and play games online. My main passion is animals. I like pretty much anything related to animals/nature and the beauty they bring to the world. My wish would be to have more time/energy to give volunteering with animals. I like alot of different types of music. I listen mainly to rock, pop, top 40, and country. I think the morals that people have these days are at an all time low. I don't think everything is black and white but I definitely think some things are just right or wrong.Ok..I thought I would update this. I understand that guys like to make that physical connection first. I, however, am a shy person. Yes, I want to talk on the phone more than a few times for 10 minutes before I meet up with someone. I have alot going on during the week so the only time I can really make that happen is sometime on the weekend. So I want to know that I'm at least interested in knowing someone better before I rearrange everything to meet them. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I just thought I'd let everyone know my expectations too. I like nice things but I'm a pretty simple down to earth person. Also, I love cats! I only have one that I adopted a couple years ago but I want more than one someday so just a warning if you are allergic to cats. I've negotiated alot in the past but I know this is one thing I won't spend the rest of my life without. Sorry.And a second update....I know every guy is looking for someone fun and no drama (whatever that means to them) I like to laugh like everyone but I am more introverted until you get to know me. I've had some pretty harsh blows the past couple years (who hasn't) but I do tend to be pretty serious and based in reality. To me a conversation is both people contributing...not listening to someone go on and on oblivious that I haven't said one word or vice versa me talking non-stop because he won't say anything or elaborate when I ask him questions. Also, if you want kids put that on your profile. Don't put undecided and then start asking rather personal questions about whether I'm capable of having kids in the first or second conversation. Awkward! For the record, not aware of any issues but for those unaware age is a factor for women in getting pregnant. I'm also not going to give every person I talk to my medical history. It's like you guys are looking to buy a brood mare or something. LOL I do have some joint/nerve issues......sucks all around but can't be changed. If you're trying to meet someone probably not the best idea to go on and on about some other woman that's absolutely wonderful that you're friends with. Are you trying to meet someone until she becomes available...c'mon. I tend to fall for someone the more I get to know them so this is a hard way to try to meet someone. I know that it won't happen immediately upon talking...it would just be nice if it felt like the possibility was there with someone. If you made it to the end of this, I appreciate you taking the time to read it. Please if you are remotely interested drop me a line. I read some profiles and don't respond...not because I might not be interested but figure I'm not their type. So go ahead, I might surprise you. :) Well when it comes to this I'm not very creative. I like casual things and a relaxed atmosphere. I like zoos or walking through a nice park. Unfortunately, I'm not a huge fan of the extreme heat in summer. Someplace where we can talk some but also just hang out. I just want both of us to feel comfortable. P.S. I don't drink coffee.