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Aniyah, 42

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About Me

I'm looking to get to know someone first, not rush right into a serious relationship. I really hope to meet someone with an infectious smile and who is happy in general that sees the glass half full.I enjoy the movies, cars, motorcycles/ ATVs, dining, watching some sports, cooking, volunteer work, and gathering with friends. Music.. I'll just break that down because I love it and it varies from 80s hair bands & 90s alternative to the modern stuff, some classical, celtic, and classic rock; I don't do rap at all, it depends on which punk era, and country is ok for you but hasn't grown on me yet. Tattoos...so many to love but none of my own, yet, simply because I can't choose. Piercings..some are ok, everywhere=not. I have an honest & faithful heart, free spirit personality and I like to steer clear of the foofoo drama crowds. I'm casual and comfortable, prefer beer over wine, and know how to take care of myself but it's great to share life with others ;) I'm a work in progress at the gym with coming off a complicated shoulder injury.First impression of me might be a bit shy or reserved but when I crack, you'll find someone that loves to laugh and have a good time, with a twist of sarcasm (who, me? never). I'm not into the bar and dancing scenes anymore; I’m just a casual lady with a laid back life looking for someone to spend it with. I'm a West Coast transplant so distance isn't a major concern of mine-I'm used to commutes...lol. Why limit yourself to a zone when your soul mate cold be anywhere? My kids are grown but yours are fine; not interested in physically having more myself. Honesty is a must; if that’s not your style then please pass on by. Guys-I'm not into the games & drama, serial daters, or those desiring to have an online/texting relationships-I expect to see & know the real you. And if you like to hunt animals, I’m sorry but it’s not for me-so that’s up to you to decide, but I personally won't partake in it. I think attraction is a big part of chemistry, BUT it is not limited to just appearance; it has to come from within as much as it does from the surface. Things in common are great, but I believe everyone needs their differences too. I have my tried & trues, but I'm also open to exploring & learning new experiences.My ideal man knows what he wants and is comfortable with whom he is and where he's headed. He can talk openly with me about anything (later on) but also enjoys quiet time together and/or apart. He is gracious, yet fun and knows when to be which; comfortable in his own skin, but can dress it up on occasion; compassionate with others; loves animals & nature; cares about himself, but doesn’t obsess about it. He is open to continual growth and can commit to a transparent relationship; takes responsibility for his choices, but learns from them as well (we all make mistakes).Questions, want to know more, chat & see where it goes? Then you have to make that step to let me know ;) Good luck in your search! Open for discussion-too many choices. Somewhere comfortable for both to meet, grab a coffee or drink & then take it from there

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abagale

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love baking, inviting friends and having game night or cooking weird desserts and food for them. I’m attracted to people with nice smile. It must be someone who keeps up with family traditions.

  • Ethelyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I do not date out of my race, thank you to those who have messages me but I have to be true to who I am and that's just not for me. Please don't send me hate mail and tell me I'm narrow minded or a racist, I'm not I just don't have an affinity for black men as they do for white women. Please for the love of GOD when you write me have something more to say than Hi, that will surely get your message deleted it shows no imagination and means you don't know what to talk about so what would you talk about in person? I've been told my profile sounds angry or is mean.......I'm neither of the two but I will say this, I am not here to blow smoke up anyone's..., It won't impress me to see pictures with your shirt off or lifting weights what will impress me is if you can hold a real intelligent conversation without using slangs and talking like a thug, I am real and not superficial, I don't give a crap if you make 200K or 60K a year it's not about the money, I'm not looking for my sugar daddy, I wasn't brought up that way so it truly wouldn't phase me if I had it. It's more about building a relationship with someone who understand me and doesn't try to change me, loves that I am the way I am because maybe just maybe you guys need someone to challenge you also, it's no fun if someone is always giving in, There sometimes has to be a little banter back and forth. I could say anything I wanted about myself but you will have to figure it all out when we speak on the phone, I am not a person who believe an entire conversation should be had through a text message. This is the problem with society today no one wants to speak to each, I will say this if you have anger issues or *** drop of a hat please do not contact me. I am a happy go lucky person, I do what ever I want when ever I want, I have not answered to anyone in 10 years, if you want to go with me by all means come along but please do not tell me I'm white trash or my friends are or the town I live in is, I surround myself with decent honest people who work as hard as I do and they have my back in every situation! We get together often because they are my family. We love to build fire pits and laugh and get silly or sometimes over serve ourselves but we are a great group and thick as thieves.I am considered full figured, thick etc what ever society labels me, if you can't look past my curves into my heart shame on you, I guess you will be very cold this winter! I'm pretty easy going and can be opinionated usually because I'm fairly certain of what I speak of but I have been known to be wrong from time to time and lately my judgement in people has been a little off but I'm back on track now and will not settle for anything less than what I give of myself, I guess you will have to get to know me to find out what that is..... I hope you are strong enough to message me, I have a strong personality in need of a strong man, don't be intimidated be intrigued! Ciao for now! Here are some things I enjoy doing so I will leave it up to you to be imaginative, again that is if you are strong enough to ask me out..... I love going to the beach even in October when the weather is warm walking the beach in jeans and sweaters and no shoes on holding hands and talking about anything and everything and sitting on the beach watching the sun go down. I enjoy fireplaces, making smores and feeding each other with candles lit all over the room, no TV just talking learning about each other. I enjoy going to quaint bars and listening to really good bar bands, I follow two because they are all friends of mine, Under a Ton and Who Wants What, so that's pretty much it, I am a very easy going person and would love to meet someone who is not interested in overbearing me or intimidating me or trying to change me, I am very content with the person I am, I am loved by allot of people because of the person I am but I am only looking to love one person and show him the person I can be and will be with him. Enjoy your day, I will look forward to hearing from you. D

  • Madilynn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Thanks for looking. I am a 44 single female. I love hanging with friends, but I am looking for that special person. I have been single for a while now so I am ready to try this to find a friend and even my Country Man. I am looking for someone who enjoys the outdoors, camping, fishing, boating, beach, you get the picture. Thanks for viewing my profile. We both can decide.

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