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Ember, 41

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About Me

With much debate, I have decided to try to date... BUT with rules. No pressure for sex please... I can't deal with that pressure along with trying to meet new people... I would rather just go out and have fun... I am a single mom with very little time away from my kids. I also don't talk about my kids for there safety so pls don't ask. I use my cell to go online so be aware that it sometimes says I'm online... but I'm not. Looking to make new friends to help my journey through life. Not looking to commit at the moment as I'm working on myself physically & emotionally so I'm not ready to mess anyone else's life. Friendship is composed to smiles , laughs and comradery. Intimate relationships are confusing, sad and require work... A good friendship is more treasured than an intimate relationship especially at this time in my life.I have posted simple pictures of me. No make-up and exactly how I would look when we hang out, although I have recently discovered minimal makeup can enhance. :) Please understand that I'm not looking for a partner. I'm not interested in getting hurt. I'm not available for sex so don't waste your time. All I want is someone to hang with and re-discover living. We can either grab a beverage & go for a walk... or grab a bite to eat and talk...Break the ice and see if we have anything in common What I do NOT want... Someone that wants to have sex with me on the first date !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Bubbly, british blonde (yes I have the accent) who loves to sing, dance and wear heels (the higher the better) but is also comfortable in flip flops walking the beach, interested in meeting a nice man to share my life with! Although I have a very busy life with children, work, friends and theatre I'm looking for that special someone to brighten my days.I direct and perform in community theater, so that's the only drama you'll get from me! But I am a classy girl - so please - if you are looking for a random hook up or late night smutty ***/ IM s or similar - don't contact me - just not my scene...! I'm a romantic at heart! I still hope those fairytales do happen!I have been separated for 3 years and only not divorced yet for financial reasons - although I get on well with my ex - I want him to stay my ex!Judging by all the profiles on here I am not spending nearly enough time at the gym, surfing, diving, rock climbing or walking on the beach at night!!!! Message me if you would like to know more - and I would love to have a proper 'chat' on the phone and take it from there...... Coffee - I love my Starbucks! Martinis - or similar - to see if we connect.

  • Anjanette

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Marlys

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I’m a good catch ;-) a great friend, a world traveler, an avid tennis player, and love teaching young kids. I have a positive outlook on life. I try to live in the present and create experiences now rather than think about the past or the future. I want to appreciate each day, and surround myself with people who make me laugh. I'm pretty easily entertained. My only fault is that I often misplace my keys, but I always find them eventually;-)Activities I enjoy are playing tennis ***times a week year round, cross-country skiing at the lakefront in winter, running, biking, hiking, and kayaking. I love all different kinds of live music from a concert at a street fair or Wrigley field, a picnic at Ravinia or Millennium Park,a salsa band at Summer Dance in the park, or even making my own live music singing karaoke to 80s tunes. I have a passion for international travel. I enjoy road trips, cultural immersion experiences, trying new restaurants, and meeting new people. There is a freedom and excitement in traveling that I crave and keeps me exploring the world every year. I’m not afraid to travel alone. It would be great to find a man who also loves travel who would like to come with me on my adventures. I'm looking for a man who I can laugh with every day. He has a kind heart, he will challenge me and grow with me throughout life, and he has good relationships with friends and family. He is active and affectionate, has liberal viewpoints, and is easy going. Maybe we can play a game of tennis, go for a hike, or try a new restaurant. Would you like to take a dance class with me, or stay home cook dinner together, watch a movie, and sing a duet on my karaoke machine? I'm always looking to learn new things and would like to find someone who shares similar interests and introduces me to new ones. Say hello and let’s meet to see if we are a good match! A great first date is all about great conversation, laughs, and chemistry. If all of those things are present it doesn't matter where we are or what we do. Let's meet so we can talk and see if we have a connection and then take it from there.

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