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About Me

It is close to impossible to write this part since you want to make yourself sound like the most interesting and fun person ever but there is a fine line between coming off who you really are and trying to be someone who is fake.Here's the low down on me. I love my kids. I have two who are elementary school aged but I do share custody with their dad. I have a job that I love and I am independent financially so not looking for a 'sugar daddy' but I am could never be your 'sugar momma' either. I love watching sports, football and baseball, in particular, but love most sports. I actually prefer a guy who likes sports, but if you don't that is not a deal breaker but I will continue to watch football and baseball, with or without you. I am a talker and love having good cerebral conversations about anything and everything. I am a very down to earth, born and raised in the mid-west and can relate and talk to anyone. I am quite sarcastic at times and appreciate a guy who can give the sarcasm right back. Basically, I want to meet a guy who is comfortable in their own skin. Someone who I can be myself with and gets me and I get them. I love to go out and have a good time but also love being able to hang out at home and watch a movie or play cards and have good conversation. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck!! Before a 'real' first date I like to try and get to know someone by chatting on the phone or meeting for a drink to see if there is a connection and then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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