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About Me

To my stalking exes...Yup...I HAVE moved on, no problems, here. Now, maybe you should try it...a dating site is just a LAME way to talk to me after we have broken up....Just sayin'. ;) PLUS, the fact that I have to see you again make me vominous....First thing you should know is I'm NOT into the one night stands or flings...if that is what you're looking for...here is where you make your grand EXIT. I'm looking for REAL...not for RIGHT NOW. I've found this site to be pretty damn full of right now's...and sorry, I'm not interested. If you are looking for more, feel free to read on....It's hard to be yourself and be able to put out here what you know as truth. Too many people want things sugar coated...and I tell them to get a donut. Anyway, I have three children - they are my everything...BUT being in relationships with people that ALSO have children (that foget you exist when they are with them), I will treat you just as well as my children. I don't have the time for the drama of 'my kids come first'. Right - they should, and at times they will...but my partner also comes first...and deserves my time equally. For those that don't believe this - I'm probably not one for you. I don't believe children should 'run your life'. Be part of it, yes - run it, no. The more I look at people's relationships about 'my kids are my world and the best thing that have ever happened to me and life has to revolve around them...' the more I wanna puke. That is SO NOT FAIR to someone that is trying to be part of your life....Love to camp, fish, ride dirt bikes and four-wheelers, go boating, go for rides to the mountains and sip on a beer, fires in the backyard with the family...a pretty simple girl, that many find complicated.Anyway, I've had to 'change' my profile because so many read something, and take it for words rather than actually knowing what I'm meaning. I WILL tell you I"m a 'no bullshit' kinda girl...if I want you to know something, you will know it...good, bad, indifferent. I also think communication is key - don't discount my feelings - I won't yours.Looking forward to good friends...and to see where it goes from there! By the way...if you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Not that I'm shallow; however, there are weirdos out there...and I'd like to see who I'm chatting with. Thanks! First dates are tricky.... Meeting and seeing if there is a spark is the best way to go about a first date.Give me a bonfire, mountains, and pickup truck...and you have already given me a little bit of heaven. ;)The perfect song that would describe my PERFECT date....;That's My Kinda Night"...not the first couple - but, ya know... ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Caron

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I OWN A DOG AND CAT MOBILE GROOMING BUSINESS. I HAVE TWO BOATS, JET SKI,AND THREE GROOMING VANS. I'M AQUARIOUS AND I LOVE THE OUTDOORS AND THE WATER. I LOVE MOVIES AND I'M VERY AMBITIOUS. I'M A TOMBOY BUT, I LIKE TO DRESS UP ONCE AND A WHILE. I'M NOT REAL NEEDY KIND OF A LONER. I TREAT MY MEN VERY WELL BUT, I WON'T BABYSIT. I LOOKING FOR A STRONG AND INDEPENTANT MAN. NO DRAMA. MY GOAL IS TO BUILD UP MY BUSINESS AND LIVE COMFORTABLE NOT RICH. IT'S ALL ABOUT THE BUILDING FOR ME. MY PASSION IS HEALING. I HEAL WITH HOLISTIC HEALING AND VITAMINS AND MINERALS. INTO THE HEALTH FIELD WEATHER IT BE ANIMALS OR HUMANS. I'M AND HUMANITARIAN AND LOVE DIANOSING AND HEALING. I'M VERY CLOSE TO GOD AND TRYING TO BE A BETTER PERSON. I DON'T WANT A DRINKER OR A DRUG ADD ICt AND WILL NOT deal with an ADDICT. I DON'T DRINK OR DO DRUGS. I'M CONSTANTLY TRYING TO BETTER MYSELF AND MY BUSINESS AND MASTER MY WORK. MY BUSINESS IS BASED ON QUALITY NOT QUANITY. I'M VERY STRAIGHT FORWARD AND HONEST EVEN WHEN IT HURTS. I DON'T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH. OUT SPOKEN AND FUNNY. I LIKE TO WORK HARD AND HAVE FUN. I LOVE TO TRAVEL. I'M GOOD LOOKING 5"4 ABOUT ***POUNDS NICE FIGURE AND BLUE GREEN EYES. I DON'T HAVE TROUBLE FINDING MEN JUST GOOD ONES ARE HARD TO COME BYE. I LOVE THE WIND IN MY HAIR AND WATER AT MY FEET. FISHING,BOATING,HIKING,TRAVELING,HORSEBACK RIDING,AND ANIMALS ARE MY PASSIONS. I WILL NOT BE WITH SOMEONE IF THEY ARE ARROGANT, JELLIous,CONTROLLING,PUSHY,OR A LIER. HONESTY AND INTEGRITY ARE MOST IMPORTANT TO ME. I BELIEVE THAT I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO SUPPORT A MAN. THAT IT'S A PARTNERSHIP. YOU MUST BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE. I HAVE GOT EVERYTHING I OWN ON MY OWN AND I TAKE FROM NO ONE. I'M VERY PASSIONATE AND TRUSTWORTHY. I HAVE A BIG GENERIOUS HEART. I'M ROMANTIC TOO. A christian man would be a plus. I will I LIKE DOING COOL ADVENTUREOUS THINGS LIKE PICNICS,NATURE WALKS,WALKING ALONG THE BEACH. HANGIN OUT LEARNING WHAT MAKES PEOPLE PASSIONATE. NICE RESTURANTS AND GOOD FOOD. I LIKE SOMEONE THAT IS OPEN MINDED AND TAKES THE TIME TO THINK OF A EXCITING DATE. STAND OUT AND BE PASSIONATE. A GOOD MOVIE OR DIVE IN WOULD BE NICE TOO. I LOVE WIDE OPEN SPACES. HORSEBACK RIDEING. COOKING DINNER TOGETHER. BUILDING SOMETHING.

  • Aisha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Please take a moment and read my profile... We can save a lot of time if someone would take the time to do so.... First this is where I lose most of ya.... Okay so now that thats out there if your sincere, keep reading if not I understand.... I am a very affectionate, loving, caring, kind hearted woman. I know what I am looking for in a man/partner and in life. I have been divorced for over 10 years, and I am quite over that.. I am not so set in my ways that I do not share the remote nor does everything need to be my way. I could not be more of an open book, I am not aggressive in nature, I do not like to argue. ***I am not easily offended however I am easily hurt.*** I can talk trash just as much as anyone else, and yet still carry on an intelligent conversation. I enjoy my comfy clothes, dollar menu, and vegging out. I work a full week and yep I am quite tired some days and just need to chill and relax without drama. I am not a booty call kind of girl there are plenty of them on here so please step on if thats what you are looking for. I am seeking my future partner my best friend and I want it all the whole deal. Did I mention I am affectionate....lolWhat am I looking for???? Well lets see, a man has to be caucasian (ish) my dads still alive, self supportive, with his own vehicle. I prefer an old fashioned type of man, yet not a caveman, a bit kinky is cool, and you cannot be past your prime... You do not have to have the perfect body, however your back boobs cannot be bigger than the ones on my chest. I can handle some extra pounds hey we are in our forties, but beyond your typical beer gut well we will have to wait and see. I am attracted to a well groomed man with teeth. You would have to be able to kill a spider for me, and if not at least help me come up with a good plan to do so. I can bait my own hook, but catfish scare me your going to have to take it off the hook... You have to know what you want and be able to make a decision.... You have to be honest (even if brutally), ***be able to keep any promise or don't make them,*** and faithfully devoted. I want to find that someone that can make me smile from the inside out and be my best friend... I get the occasional wandering eye, but make it quick and don't look back... I am not attracted to heavy men, long hair, or old men. If you get to know me you will realize I can be the most understanding, undemanding, giving person you will have ever met. When the right guy finds me he will realize that I am just happy with him, and I have no need to change him. I am a good soul and relationships do not scare me, being hurt does. I am not a desperate woman by any means. I require a man to be a man and please no cross dressers, married men, separated, or re-bounders wanted... Hope this was not to harsh, kinda not how I come across in real life, but just had to put some stuff out there. Coffee, lunch or dinner (dutch is fine). Its a mans responsibility to make the first date decision.

  • Meaghan

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I would love to find the perfect guy on here, first my friend then my lover. I am not into drama or playing games. I am a single parent of twin boys that are 14 years old. Hanging out and going to movies or just watching movies at home, going to dinner, or going away on a weekend trip is always fun... I like all types of music. Let's talk and decide together.

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