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Shala, 41

Offline, last seen Thu, 21 May 2026 01:38:58

About Me

Hello. Thanks for reading! I would first like to share that I am a smart, fun and well rounded woman. I have 3 great kids and I love being a family and a mother. I like to get out when I can, love being active, the arts, music and all things outside! I have my own home, am quite independent and enjoy my life. I have a strong Christian faith, so, it's important to find someone who also shares at least a basic belief and principals. I have and live daily a sincere and stable life, I am grounded, responsible and am pretty clear where I stand on things in life. Honesty is not a thing to be compromised...I am at square one in the dating world...one day one step at a time and therefore would like to find someone who is in the same place. Please do not message me if your deepest capacity in life is a one night stand or fwb...leave the dysfunction elsewhere it won't fly here!...I am worthy of decency and respect...I have a lot to offer and a lot to give... so if you care to know more please ask...otherwise I wish you well!..a comfortable place to talk and share a coffee and just enjoy each other's company

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Karisa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    This is my first time on a dating site but my neighbor is tired of hearing me complain that I'm lonely and looking for my Mr. Wonderful ... so here I am trying this out. I guess it can't hurt, right :) I'm a pretty unique person - or at least that's what I've been told. I work hard so I can give my kids a great life but they're getting older now and it's time for me to spend some time on myself. About me ... I enjoy a great glass of wine with a good book or great movie. I like being outdoors, especially camping. I am a self proclaimed great cook and enjoy cooking for that special person. I've been told I'm quite organized .. a.k.a. OCD!!! LOL I consider myself adventurous so I'm always up for new experiences.My goals are easy ... to be healthy, happy, and emotionally fulfilled. I guess that might be too much to ask since I'm batting 2 outta 3 right now ... guessing you can figure out which one I'm missing ... hint hint ... on a dating site.If any of this has sparked an interest ..... shoot me a message. I would love to tell you more :) Grabbing dinner and/or drinks somewhere where we can get to know each other better ... the weather is getting warmer so maybe a stroll on the beach after ... who knows ... up for suggestions!

  • Wen

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Please be for real and really want to be with me and want long lasting love/life is too short............... please get me off of here!!!! lol OMG why is it sooo hard to meet the right one ? It's too much work and I am exhausted. I dont want to be with someone who will keep bringing up past mistakes and not be able to move forward and look beyond the past. If I know nothing else I know that if a man loves/wants to be with a woman they will do anything to be with her so if you dont want to be with me please move on. The future is what counts b/c life is too short.I AM NOT PERFECT but have alot to offer that lucky special someone and hopefully you will have alot to offer me too :) Take a chance, too many people dont take the chance when its right in front of them and may not get a second chance. I just want someone to love me, who wants to be loved right back...... I know there is someone out there who feels the same:) I want to meet someone to spend holidays and special times with,and look forward to seeing you or just hearing your voice during the day and want you to feel the same.I will always be loyal to you and have your back, and that is my truth, if I am with someone its b/c I want to be w/ you !! If you are on this site I am going to assume you want to meet/date someone to eventually be in a be in relationship with. I would like to meet someone who I can build a past, present and future with and to share simple and not so simple experiences with. I want to meet my best friend and partner in crime. Someone I can just glance across the room at and know what he is thinking and vise versa. Please be over your ex and be ready to meet me because u want to---and be in a relationship. Once we communicate I will answer any questions you would like and we can get to know each other then. Can't wait to meet u ....Thx, I look forward to hearing from you.........XOXO P.S. please have pix to share...........caio xoxo :***If I am not what you are interested in/looking for thats ok then good luck to you, I will be fine and move on but if so lets work on getting each other off of here!!! I could be making dinner for you right now... Lets not waste any more time. Are you with me?.............. xoxo Nice romantic dinner,the beach, lunch at an outdoor cafe,A picnic in a park, meet at an out of the way place in the city.................moonlit walk,dinner by candle light, cozy cafe, it all depends on how we feel and take it from there :)

  • Quinn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I have fun doing just about anything with the right person. The beach, sporting event, concerts, movies or a quiet night at home are just some of my interests. Family is a major part of my life and enjoy spending time with all of them. I have an 18 year old son who will be graduating High School this year ***! I love the Yankees and the Giants but will go to any sporting event and have a blast. I love to laugh and love to make others laugh. I eat healthy and have found a new love for the gym and go 5 times a week. Life is too short n0t to have fun. I don't sweat the small stuff. I am looking to move forward in my life with that special someone. I know you're out there, maybe it's you! I am not trying to sound modest or conceited but I don't feel photos show the true me, much better in person!Again, thx for stopping by and feel free to contact me and ask anything you want. Good luck in your journey in finding that special someone and being able to write that next chapter. Somewhere we can both feel comfortable and get to know each other!

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