SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Joaquina
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I am recently divorced and slowly re-entering the dating scene. It's a bit trickier than I remembered it! I am a bartender. I fancy myself a writer but, let's face it, a gals gotta eat! I have two English Bulldogs that rule with an iron paw! I value humor over almost all else and have a fairly wicked sense myself. I've tried standup before and intend to do so again. I like to write, paint, sing karaoke (but only if everyone listening is plastered.) I am kind to everyone and really can't tolerate hateful or overly morose people. I'm cheerful and would prefer to be around other cheerful folks! I am an avid reader and digest information well. I'm intelligent, witty, friendly and I seem to put people at ease. I'm trying to break out of my social scene "rut" to meet new people and it's been pretty fun so far. I want to finish a book I started and stalled on. I want to get more editing experience. I want to take up boxing and I want to know where I put my damned keys! I am extremely lucky to have a great number of friends. If we meet, they are likely to give me the third degree about you so, just be prepared to answer a few questions! One of my friends was freaked that I'd try the online dating thing. We were sitting at a bar and she was getting pretty blustery saying " but they could be a serial killer!" I pointed to a dude a few seats down and said "so could he. What difference does it make where I met them?" I'm fairly certain the guy wasn't a serial killer. At least not at this point in his life. I would very much appreciate if you weren't either! ;) Not to sound like a barfly but my first encounter with you will likely be in that setting. It's a comfort issue. There are people around but they will generally leave you alone and it's less intimate, which for a first meeting takes the pressure off! Now if we like each other and want to go on a real date, I enjoy long dinners with good wine, easy conversation and laughing. As for destinations, I'm pretty much game for anything. I like the zoo, for example! That being said, I don't handle excessive heat too well, so the next few months of summer agony should probably be spent in a pool or central air condition.
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Krysta
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Ok the Zombie thing a little lame, I know. Here's the thing... Everyday I listen to how bitter and cruel people have become. Always in such a hurry they can't even smile at the person they pass on the street. They've had their hearts broken and given up on the joys of life. So maybe they aren't going around eating brains, but are they not Zombies in some fashion by choosing not to feel. So have you given up on humanity? Are you living in the past or living for Today?So now the fun part (not really)... I have literally had the worst year of my life!!! I am slowly rebuilding and taking each day as a victory. Even so, I make time for several charities each year and put my heart and soul into the weeks/months of preparation to pull them off. I do take time to smile or say hello to complete strangers in hopes that maybe it was the very thing someone needed to make it through the day. Deal breaker for some... Legally I am married. Yes I do plan on a divorce as soon as he is finished with his Chemo and surgeries. I believe his energy is best spent fighting for his life.Are you still here?I'm somewhat of a chameleon. I can fit into almost any crowd and handle most situations. Among my friends I'm the one who is always being picked on!!! Just have to keep telling myself it's because they love me.If you have made it this far you know I'm not a writer. Thank you for your time and I look forward to hearing from you.Cardinals win!!! I'm World Series bound!!! Did I mention I love my job?!?! I think it would be a really nice change if someone actually put some thought into the first date. Effort without the expectation of "woo-hoo" after. What can you do that will make me remember you?One more thing... I want to laugh!!! If you can make me smile to the point my cheeks hurt the next day chances are I will let you have a second date.
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Kerstin
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I love being outside, listening to music & going to concerts, watching movies and TV, and spending time with family and friends. My favorite things to do these days are trail runs, bowling & playing kickball, and going to the beach. I also love to travel both by plane and by taking road trips in my car. I'm a foodie, funny, free-spirited and fashionable.