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I enjoy cooking, the outdoors, watching movies, football, and baseball, and just hanging around at home and/or with friends. I like to dress up and go out, but there is just something about hanging out at home in sweats and a t-shirt that I love. I like to laugh and well if you are funny you will automatically get my attention. I'm a normal girl without the drama. I am a single mom and my boys mean the world to me, but I'm not looking for a father for them and if we date you won't meet them unless we move past the just dating phase. I don't have the ex-husband drama. We are divorced for a reason, but we maintain a friendly relationship for the boys. I'm currently in school working towards my bachelors degree. I love my job and actually look forward to going to work:) My life can be kinda hectic at times, but I find/make time for me and dating, and I'm looking for someone who can do the same. I'm interested in knowing your past, but I'm more interested in knowing your present and being a part of your future (either as friends or more). I do want a relationship but I'm not rushing into marriage again. I am happy just to meet, date, and see where it goes with no pressure. The best relationships are built on friendship. Turn ons for me are:You're funnyYou're honestYou're outgoingYou're competitive, but you're ok with being with someone who is competitive tooTurn offs for me:You have the dreaded picture on your profile of you shirtless in front of your bathroom mirrorYou start the *** me with "hey baby" If you're interested in chatting and getting to know more send me an ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ivvah

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    If I were creating a character based on you, what kinds of things would you want me to know?As a writer, I think about life in terms of the written word. How would I write the colors in a sunset, or how would I write the feeling I get when I see a handsome man smile at me? How would that translate onto the page? This, writing about myself, should be the easy part right? I wake up every day at the crack of dawn, pour myself a cup of coffee, and start writing. That, is much easier than this. The one thing you should know about me, I love to write, it’s who I am. Other things you should know, I like early morning, when it’s quiet, before the world starts waking up, but I can stay up late as well, if I have the right motivation. I’m confident, funny and sarcastic, but always with a smile on my face. I think flirting is an art, so if you’re with me, I’ll smile a lot, touch your arm and laugh at all your jokes. I’m also a mom to the most beautiful twin boys and yes they look just like me. I love my boys and I spend a ton of time with them, but there is so much more to me than being a mom. I’m passionate about living life, about really enjoying these days that seem to pass by so quickly. I’m incredibly passionate about staying healthy and working out. I love to run, it keeps me sane, and I’ve recently gotten into CrossFit. If you love the gym, you can be my Yoda, I hate it, to me there’s nothing like lacing up those running shoes and hitting the pavement. I love to travel. I love the water, the beach is probably my favorite place, but hanging on the hook at the lake is a close second. I love trying new restaurants, patios are my favorite, especially if there's live music and great conversation. I’m easy, in the sense that I’m happy, I have a great life, I’m just looking for someone to share it with, maybe friends, maybe more, I suppose that depends on our chemistry.So, enough about me, let’s talk about you. You’re tall, not very tall, but taller than me and really how hard is that? You’re funny, you smell good, you love your job, whatever it may be, you’re not afraid to pick the restaurant and you think kissing is a conversation. If you're reading this and think, damn that’s me, shoot me a message, send up a smoke signal, just get my attention and we’ll go from there.

  • Lizabeth

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    This just in! *** keep up with demand. Poverty and hunger have become pandemic...Read on at the movie's website. Someone's thinking!If facts and truth bother you, don't read on.I enjoy keeping fit and eat a vegetarian diet, but with seafood (a "pescatarian"). I avoid any and all foods produced by factory farms (Animal concentration camps). I can't believe it's legal to cut the tails of cows and pigs off without anesthetic! Other body parts are ripped out as well. I have boycotted product from the torture industry for 26 years and continue to do so. So evil. Likes: an active guy that enjoys keeping fit as well and cares about being healthy, foreign music, learning, improving myself, horsemanship.I got rid of a crappy marriage and am now enjoying travel to new countries. The world is too big to just stay in the U.S. all the time. There is too much to learn and there are too many new experiences outside the U.S.! Only 25% of Americans even have passports!I am growing my company and read a lot of business books. I achieved my Paralegal Certification in ***. I worked in law for 14 years and needed more freedom, so I started a business. I do not want kids. The world’s 7,000,000,000th baby was born October 30, ***. Seems to be the world will be getting crowded soon. How are 10,000,000,***people all going to have a house, a car and a healthy dinner? Where will there be room left for the great cats, elephants, etc. to survive? Humans pushed the eastern mountain lion to extinction. Lions and cheetahs are becoming more and more scarce in Africa and humans continue to have 8 kids. Humans are so selfish. In the end, this careless behavior will upset the food chain to the point of no return and there will be no more clean water or organic food (biotech companies like Monsanto will control our food with their GMO crops), just the over-processed junk in the American diet that is causing so much cancer in Americans.The saddest thing is that the majority of people don't think; life just happens to them. There is a lesson to be learned from every failure, but to most, that lesson just bonks uselessly off their head. It's like their life is like a football game and they're constantly on defense. My colleague saw me reading and asked "Are you going to school?" I answered "Yes. My own school of studies." He asked "When will you be finished?" My answer was "Never."I am somewhat of a trailblazer and am not interested in being tied down and burdened with extra domestic work when I could continue studying and going on exciting adventures ***, does vomiting every day, getting fat and squeezing a watermelon through a straw sound like a good time? Asking someone to be vulnerable? That would be QUITE a request! I worked in family law and most divorces are caused by the man cheating. Cheating has never and will never be my thing. That's a lowly thing to do for someone who has no discipline and too lazy to spice things up in a relationship. Cheaters are weak. If you want to sleep with someone else, then break up first. I have never cheated in my life. Personally, I know 3 wives that allowed themselves to be doormats by allowing their husband to cheat. Why allow that? At any rate, a child nowadays is $235,000.00, so that's $117,500.00 each. I also do not believe in burdening taxpayers to support children that the parents fail to support. ***census. % of single mothers=84% % of single fathers=16% Well, ladies, the odds are against us! Facts are unbiased and tell the truth.Also, genetically modified (GMO) foods are being produced more and more to feed the 7,000,000,***people. Food companies are panicking RIGHT NOW, trying to figure out how to feed the exploding human population. Senselessly, humans refuse to control their numbers. GMOs cause early death and tumors. The more the food demand, the lower the quality of food. GMO food needs to be labeled in the U.S. In Europe, it's the law to label GMOs so consumers are aware. *** It is truly awful and a tantamount violation of human rights that babies are getting thrown in dumpsters and children are starving. So quality of life to me is better than quantity. In India, the Indian culture is to have large families. Cultures need to change in response to the present condition. Why are they still having large families when they are living on the streets, wearing rags and eating out of dumpsters??? Hopefully, this information will reach the developing world -hopefully some sense will evolve and cause people to start thinking and have one or no children if they can give them the love and nourishment these young people deserve.Pet Peeves: common nonsense, "phones"Hitler took Austria using the red herring strategy. This is a warning. America is truly is the greatest country in the world. Don’t let freedom slip away.I am interested in MEETING men to see if there is chemistry. A quick meeting over a drink, etc. makes sense. I don't drink afternoon or evening coffee. A glass of wine at a nice place where we can get to know eachother is enjoyable. If you can't meet a week or two after contacting me, it won't be necessary to contact me. It is a senseless waste of time for both parties to text/email each other back and forth *** meeting. I don't chat.Show me you are a good guy by your actions. Talk is still the cheapest commodity on earth.It's not ladylike to chase a man, so even if I like a guy, I won't chase him; it's demeaning.I am blessed to have a vast network of friends and enjoy lots of fun events and activities, so if I don't meet a respectable gentlemen, it's not a big deal. If you are not looking for a relationship, I am not looking to meet you.To sum up, I am concerned about the future and the quality of life (and survival) for animals as well people.Thank you! I would like to date an intelligent, educated, sophisticated, thoughtful gentlemen who knows how to treat a lady. I would like a date that includes conversation so we can get to know eachother. I will not go on a first date to a sports bar. If I really like the gentlemen, I am open to a relationship. I like to go to new places and do new activities - variety is the spice of life!I am single and will only date a single man. I do not see people casually and only am interested in a gentleman who wants one lady in his life that is his equal. I view Plenty of Fish once every 2 weeks. If I wish to meet with someone, I would need a few days notice. Asking me to your home on the first date is a real turnoff!

  • Louvenia

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I love to be outdoors fishing, boating, and having fun with friends. I love to rock climb, rollerblade, and swim ect, and play a few games of volleyball! I am fun and very outgoing. I love to laugh be around people who just love life, and share in interest in night life. I was currently in a movie, and would like to find someone who isnt shy and could keep up with me as I am the social butterfly and never stop having fun lol:) I love all music except hard rock and hard rap ...but love to dance as much as a day will allow. I love to cook, and have social get togethers, and I love POKER, yes i love to gamble, so be ready to hit the town on friday nights! I am looking for "the one", so hopefully I can find someone to share my life with. If your ready for love, please send me a message:) I am looking to settle down and be serious, so do not apply if you are not looking to find the love of your life:) Definetly dinner first, with maybe a wine bar) I believe atmosphere is important, having a quite place with no distractions, so that you are focused on just the two of us. If the night is young, and weather is right...taking a walk and maybe finding a quaint place to get a drink either of us has been to.

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