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United States, Oklahoma, Tahlequah

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About Me

If I were creating a character based on you, what kinds of things would you want me to know?As a writer, I think about life in terms of the written word. How would I write the colors in a sunset, or how would I write the feeling I get when I see a handsome man smile at me? How would that translate onto the page? This, writing about myself, should be the easy part right? I wake up every day at the crack of dawn, pour myself a cup of coffee, and start writing. That, is much easier than this. The one thing you should know about me, I love to write, it’s who I am. Other things you should know, I like early morning, when it’s quiet, before the world starts waking up, but I can stay up late as well, if I have the right motivation. I’m confident, funny and sarcastic, but always with a smile on my face. I think flirting is an art, so if you’re with me, I’ll smile a lot, touch your arm and laugh at all your jokes. I’m also a mom to the most beautiful twin boys and yes they look just like me. I love my boys and I spend a ton of time with them, but there is so much more to me than being a mom. I’m passionate about living life, about really enjoying these days that seem to pass by so quickly. I’m incredibly passionate about staying healthy and working out. I love to run, it keeps me sane, and I’ve recently gotten into CrossFit. If you love the gym, you can be my Yoda, I hate it, to me there’s nothing like lacing up those running shoes and hitting the pavement. I love to travel. I love the water, the beach is probably my favorite place, but hanging on the hook at the lake is a close second. I love trying new restaurants, patios are my favorite, especially if there's live music and great conversation. I’m easy, in the sense that I’m happy, I have a great life, I’m just looking for someone to share it with, maybe friends, maybe more, I suppose that depends on our chemistry.So, enough about me, let’s talk about you. You’re tall, not very tall, but taller than me and really how hard is that? You’re funny, you smell good, you love your job, whatever it may be, you’re not afraid to pick the restaurant and you think kissing is a conversation. If you're reading this and think, damn that’s me, shoot me a message, send up a smoke signal, just get my attention and we’ll go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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