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Kendall, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Tahlequah

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About Me

I am 40 years old. I was married for almost 20 years.I lost my husband 3 years ago to cancer. I am experiencing the empty nest syndrome alittle early considering I had my children early, and they are now 19 and 23. I miss having day to day companionship and having someone to come home to. I'm ready to start the next chapter in my life and just want to find someone to share it with.I am a very independent person. But at the same time , I have old fashioned values, and still believe in taking care of the person I'm with. I believe a relationship is a two way street and you have to give as much as you get.I consider myself to be a very honest,thoughtful and caring person. I always put others feelings into consideration. I think sometimes I can be too nice to a fault. But I am not naive. I have been through a lot, and now I basically just live for today , and realize that we aren't guaranteed tomorrow. I don't sweat the small things in life, I've seen that things can be much worse. I really have no room in my life for drama or games. If you're looking for someone with a perfect little body, then I'm not your girl. But if you're looking for a genuine, loyal, honest woman (like most of you claim to be), who knows how to treat a man, then maybe you can look past a couple of extra pounds.You might be surprised. I have a great personality, so I've been told,and I have to admit, I think I can be pretty hilarious,lol. I also recently discovered a fitness bootcamp, and started working out on a regular basis, and really enjoying getting fit,so if you like me with a few extra pounds, it can only get better. I'm totally new to this dating thing, but since I'm not into the bar scene, I thought I'd give this a shot. Doesn't look too hopeful so far, but only time will tell. Coffee, lunch or dinner

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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