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United States, Oklahoma, Tahlequah

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Update. ***I'm no longer looking. So, it's pointless trying to meet someone who I'm just going to have to leave next year. And for as friendly as "y'all" profess to be... In 5 years, I still feel like an alien from another planet. My attitude and self confidence is misunderstood and/or looked down on. It's really beautiful out here, but so many of you are too angry to enjoy it. I'm leaving my profile up only because I like what I've written here. I'll occasionally check my messages but unless you've obviously read my profile and have something of substance to say, I probably won't be responding. With that said, I hope you all find the happiness you deserve. I've been here 5 years. I am one of the most genuinely happy people you'll ever meet. I create my own happiness. I learned long ago that no one else is responsible for making me happy. I own my mistakes, I'm learning from them so as not to repeat them. I am Loving, caring and affectionate. In a relationship, I am very hands on. Touch is as important as communication. I passionately support and defend those that I love. I don't need a shadow, I have two dogs for that. I don't need you to complete me. I am already whole. I am Awesome. I want an Awesome guy who wants a partner, a complement to his awesomeness. While my ego is a healthy size, I have no misconceptions about my flaws. We all have them and should strive to be better. Many days I succeed. I'm very laid back. Quite comfortable in a blouse and jeans but enjoy getting dolled up and pretty too. I'm chubby,fat, BBW, whatever term you want to use. If this immediately turns you off, it's cool babe. You just click on back. I realize it's my eyes, face, boobs, whatever that caught your eye. That's all aesthetics. Yes, I look at that too. But I'm more concerned with your personality and habits than whether you could do a cover of a magazine. I find sexiness in the way you hold yourself. The way you joke or laugh.. That lust at first sight stuff is cool... but then what have you got after that wears off? I believe a relationship is essentially all about mutual happiness. Give and Take. A partnership in every respect. So physical, intellectual and emotional attraction have to be there. I give as good as I get. Do you? I love old houses, old cars and old souls. I sing in the shower, the car, even the grocery store if the right song comes on.. except I'm not quite that good... I love a sunny day just as much as I love a cloudy one. I dig a good storm. Musically, I'm feeling very old school 70s lately.. My taste runs all across the board though....I love animals and animals love me. Dogs, cats, rats, horses, birds, snakes and lizards... They are often drawn to me. Maybe it's my magnetic personality, who knows. I'm goofy. I make bad puns. I giggle. I love to laugh. I'm klutzy, but super careful. I have a really weird laugh that comes out of me when I ride roller coasters due to the combination of terror and excitement. I get nervous climbing ladders. But I'm completely comfortable holding a 20' python or riding a motorcycle. go fig.I have an excellent comprehension of the english language and am able to thoroughly verbalize my thoughts, feelings and opinions at any time. I dig guys that can talk too... What am I looking for?.. I'm not a little girl. I'm looking for a Man. How about a King? Metaphorically speaking of course. I can't emphasize enough how sexy confidence is. Believe in yourself. If you don't, no one else will. I'm not a rocket scientist, I'm a caregiver. With a degree in graphic design... But, I am the best damn caregiver I can be. I am loving and helpful and very strong when necessary. I make the most of what I've got and who I am. I am a grown woman who takes care of herself. I'd just like a man who does the same. I'd like him to be confident, funny, charming, smart, sexy, Passionate and Compassionate. He rocks his world. He knows the value of a job done well. Basically, I'd like to find the male version of me. My partner in crime. My best friend... with a penis. So, Who are You? Show me. Unfortunately, if you can't use your words to show me first, we won't work. If I'm not attracted to your mind and how you communicate, I really won't feel a better connection in person. The older my son gets, the less inclined I am to want more kids, which is why I checked "no" to wants kids. It would take a really exceptional man to change my mind there. I haven't found him yet, but I am open to that possibility. It seems smart to start with coffee or lunch. Something light and easy. We can get to know each other a bit and see if there's a spark then we can worry about what we want to do next.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Italian Korean Mexican Animation Crime Documentary Ice Hockey Volleyball
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