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Cassiah, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

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About Me

I am a spirited, spontaneous and intelligent. No one has ever described me as shy.... I have always been a one man type gal. I have had several serious long relationships and now I have determined I must be a "bad picker". I am loyal to a fault and have high standards, I expect as much out of the person I am with as I give. If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship... On the lighter side...I love horses, music (although I can't really sing) and a good mental sparring match.If you want a pen pal, don't bother or waste my time.....I have great friends and do not want a "virtual relationship"...it irks me...If I don't respond it means I am not interested, I don't like to hurt someone's feelings...there are no good words for rejection....emailing me a second time will only get you blocked.If you only write the word Hi in your first ***, it doesn't matter how much of a match we may be, I will not respond...effort given = effort received.If your from another country please do not write me and try to convince me that a long distance relationship could work...it will never happen..just saying. I want the man to blow my mind. I am the type of girl that believes it doesn't matter what you do, it matters who you are with. I love to try new things..as opposed to revisitng the same thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I love reading books and writing them also. I'm a professional in the oil and gas industry so work takes up a lot of my time so wanting to see what's out there and possibly try dating again. I've kept to myself for awhile now and focused on work and professional goals.I have two children and they're older so I do get some free time and would like to just find someone to go out and have a good time with and not put pressure or expectations out there.I'm a little crazy and love to joke around and laugh, I can be very sarcastic at times and love dry humor. Like to go out to eat or have a couple of drinks, just get to know someone and see if we can be friends. Chivalry is not dead. Going out and getting to know each other over coffee or one drink to keep it short at first is good. But please be respectable and a good guy! You'd be surprised how many aren't out there. :)

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I see I have caught your curiosity...Hello Gentlemen. I am going to be me and say it like it is. yes, I have 3 kids, They are pretty self sufficient now, so I can have alot more free time for, ME. If you would like more of your own children, regrettably I cannot have more. Even more will stop reading here. Its unfortunate because those of you who stuck with me will find out I was worth the chance you gave me. Thank you. you will see I am an all around good caring person. We all have areas for improvement. It doesnt change who we are on the inside. I am an active person. I recently have joined the gym. I would love a work out buddy. I love the outdoors, camping, the beach, boating, or just sitting by the fire, listening to the night sounds, enjoying a drink. I enjoy alot of sports(baseball being my fave). I play on a summer softball league. I am definitely motivated by music, the type depends on my mood at that moment. Who doesnt enjoy a good ole festival every now and then. I enjoy watching MMA fights, yes its true. Where are all my Harley riders?? I am perfectly content just chilling with my man. I am secure by myself, but would love someone to share my daily life with. I am a sassy one and need a like man beside me. I can be one of the guys, watching the game or getting dirty or be the woman I am and bestow my womanly wiles upon you.I am up for adventure and consider myself pretty open minded to new situations. I put i want a long term relationship well, coz I do...but i know we need to start as friends and build from there. I need a strong , assertive man, yet soft and gentle. One who knows how to treat a lady, so a bit old-fashioned with a modern twist. A sense of humor is very sexy. No stick in the mudds... This is just a tease of who I am. If I have sparked your interest please leave me a message. This could be the moment we are waiting for...Thank you I would like to keep it simple. See if the initial chemistry is there. If yes, we start of with... No pressures, let's just relax and have some fun getting to know each other. Somewhere we can have a great conversation, Maybe a baseball game A nice picnic on the lake or beach, a few drinks. I am pretty open to just about anything.

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