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Cathi, 40

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About Me

Hello everyone....well I guess I will just be up front about things which is usually my style. First off, I am still new to this area, from NC so yes I do have the southern accent and manners to go along with it. But don't think that I won't stand up for myself. I don't want anyone taking care of me or babying me which for some reason almost every guy I have dated does and I hate that. I love sports but haven't kept up with them lately..long story lol but am trying to get backinto them. I love to joke around and do that a lot but some people don't get my sense of humor sad to say. But I know when to listen and to be serious. I try to be very honest and straight forward about myself, what I want, how I feel about things, and what the future holds. I have always wore my heart on my sleeve so to speak and that usually get my feelings hurt a lot but I will always believe in true love and hope I find it one day so until then I will keep believing and staying true to myself. I love staying home reading or hanging out and love watching almost every kind of movie. But I also like going out to eat or getting a drink with friends. I am old fashion in some ways...love it when a guy opens a door for me, holds my hand and likes to kiss me in public. I love romance which no one does anymore which is sad. Any other questions ask

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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