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Phillida, 37

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About Me

I am 37, I have 3 kids and 3 dogs. I am overweight, I am a size 18 so if you have ANY issues with weight you won't like me. *Please do not message me telling me "You don't look fat" or "What do ya weigh"...Dating is exhausting and it almost takes a miracle to find someone that you can connect with and you both feel the same about each other and you both want the same things. So I don't want to waste your time or mine. I am a very laid back, easy going person. I hate arrogance, so the shirtless mirror pics or the gym pictures are just a major turn off. I am not city or country, I am quite, middle of the road. I hate crowds, don't like bars and I don't like hunting or anything like that. I am not looking for a husband or a father for my kids. But like I said, dating is exhausting, I do want someone who does want a future with someone. If you are hung up on someone or if you are all damaged from a past relationship I am sorry for you. But I am not wanting to repair anyone, we have all been treated bad at one time or another and it sucks, but you have to look forward. So anyway, if you wanna know anything else just ask...:) Anything other than sitting on my couch.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jamya

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    ABOUT ME: I love life! I love the endless possibilities - the opportunities we have to do good and explore and contribute- I truly believe the world is our oyster. On the one hand, I'm responsible, open-minded, I'm meeting my life goals, I don't play relationship games, I enjoy an intellectual discussion or two, and I especially love to engage in witty banter. On the other hand, I don't believe in taking life too seriously, love to have a good time, and definitely have my goofy moments. I don't mind poking fun at myself and love to laugh when I hear something funny out loud, no less! But I'll only type LOL if I'm really "LOL-ing!! I love travel, not just to typical touristy places, but to more 'off the beaten path' places as well (have visited the Amazon the jungle that is, not the site; fished for Piranhas, lived in a tree house for a week). I love learning new things and believe in trying (almost) anything once, that doesn't require signing a waiver...... and even some things that do!! I value companionship and passion, and would love to have a lifetime of it with a wonderful man.ABOUT YOU: As far as what I'm looking for...my "type," if I have one, is someone who is first and foremost: genuine, honest, and grounded. You're demonstrative and affectionate. You have a sense of adventure and also believe in stability. You have dreams you want to follow but you have found yourself and know what you want in life. You care about your appearance but are not consumed by it. You're emotionally mature, yet a kid at heart. You love to travel. Your sense of humor is your sexiest attribute---;Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be with a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that's a real treat.". That's what I'd like-- someone with whom I can sit on a porch after sharing many lovely years together, still enjoying each other's company, and cracking each other up. Best friends with amazing chemistry...Believes in chivalry but also believes in partnership in a relationshipIntellectually curious- open to learning new things.Someone with good grammar and an appreciation for the nuanced use of the English language/word play would pose a distinct attraction for me.Well, that's probably a good Cliff's Notes version.... as for the rest, I think you really need to get to know someone beyond the confines of cyber space to really get a feel for them and see if you click together.... ;-)***The images posted on this profile and likeness cannot be used in any manner without permission

  • Genevie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    More active and into the outdoors and sports than tv and movies, don't mind the odd night on the couch in front of the fireplace. Pretty laid back, easy going, stress free. Have my life together, stable emotionally and financially, expect the same. Enjoy a few drinks and some dubes here and there, everything in moderation. Must be able to maintain a conversation, love the river and being outside rain or shine. must love cuddling and affection. I have been on here before not looking for any amazing results... But still have some hope to meet someone close to normal :) or at least honest... Lying is really a waste of time... Thanks :). Have pics just ask... Public career, lotsa creepers Pretty open , quick meet and greets are nice icebreakers... Maybe a date to follow ? Then anything goes the sky's the limit I like adventures!

  • Mahala

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    hmmm what do i say here ... ihave 3 grandkids who are in my home 50 percent of the time ....i like to go out and have fun ..but l ike to stay home and cuddle and watch movies to .....im bluntly honest ,,,tell it how it is ...yes truth hurts but if u cant handle it then dont waste my time ..... im not heere to get laid ... im looking for a long term best friend lover soul mte .....if you want to know more you will have to asdk ... hve agreat day ...keep smiling makes pple wonder what your up to ..... dont give me fine wine anda fancy resturant ... give me beer and steak... cause im a redneck country girl

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