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Valrie, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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I think I am a pretty down to earth girl. I enjoy spending time with my friends and family. I prefer to go to quieter bars where I can just hang out and chat with friends over a****ail or beer although on occasion I enjoy going out to the clubs.I love my job. I work as a mortgage underwriter and at times I work lots of hours. Lately we have slowed down and it has left me a lot more free time.Over the last year and a half I have become kind of a work out fanatic. I go to the gym on a regular basis. It was time to make this positive change in my life.I am looking for someone who is kind, compassionate, attractive, intelligent (huge turn on), family orientated and knows what they want out of life (I'm not asking for too much am I?). I want someone who can make me laugh but also knows when to be serious. I am not looking for someone to take care of me monetarily nor am I looking for someone to take care of monetarily but more be there for me on every other level as I would be for them. I love kids and hope to have some of my own someday. I was married and it just didn't work out. I think we just realized we weren't right for each other. So I guess you could say I have had my share of relationships gone wrong but you can't let that hold you back because you never know what is going to come your way. Life surprises you when you least expect it. I would love to someday find that person that is just right for me, my "soulmate" if that exists. I am an extremely giving person and wear my heart on my sleeve. I hate all the games the dating world plays. I feel like if I like you there should be no reason to pretend I don't and I would expect the same respect. That can go the other way too. If I am not interested I don't want to lead anyone on that I am and again would expect the same.All in all I think I am a pretty down to earth girl with a really big heart.If you wanna know anything more just ask. Going somewhere for a drink and just get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Hardcore Greek
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    You know....It's a shame really. Plenty of fish, honestly DOES have as far as I have seen in comparrison too other dates sites out there, the MOST ATTRACTIVE looking men whom SAY they are single and available AND..not tryin too stick a fork up some chicks *&^...and lie about who they say they are and what they want outta being on here etc...HERES MY CONFUSSION...with the men (and Ive talked too hundreds on here I swear) on this site...WHY DONT YOU JUST BE R E A L and honest and UPFRONT and save everyone involved ALOTTA TIME and d r a m a by just sayin it how you REALLY wanna see it go with a broad on here..Im talking too the men WHO JUST WANNA QUICK FIX if ya know what I mean. CALL ME OLD SCHOOL baby...but Im 38, been there done that, had my WILD OATS wore in if you will... use too travel modeling YEARS ago..sang in a blues/soul band and TRAVELED yearsss ago..met THOASANDS of people/men in my life...and trust AM NO ANGEL..but Im also GROWN now, an adult, tired of the bar scene ***!! Oh another thing...too you men that want our "first date" too be at YOUR place? LMAO pick another, cause I aint her, wasnt born yesterday, and dont wanna play "ME TEACHER YOU BAD BAD BOY" either? Its MOMMA'S turn when that times comes with THE RIGHT MAN,, where "I wanna be taught!"Im throwing in the towel gentlemen..I wanna RETIRE..TEACH MEEE!!!!! Okkk?? lol So, if your a man of integrity, walk the walk, and do it with a LITTLE****ness,,,(love that),,littleee,,and hole lotta sex appeal and are a GOOD PARTNER,,affectionate in public, and dont have a bursted ego, where u arent afraid to let it be known from a cross a crowded room,,,,("That ladies with ME").......Get at me please..**OH YAH ALERT TOO ALL "BOYS" WHO WANNA SEND ME MESSAGES on how I shouldnt "catorgorize all you MEN the same...and I sound BRUTAL,,or MEAN...or TOO ROUGH N TOUGH"...(how do I say this NICELY for you..you the "Weak Boys",, Your exactly,,,,who I DONT want wasting my time on here,,,maybe if youd LISTEN TOO WHAT I SAID IN MY PROFILE,,and less time givin your laptops keyboards LOTION TREATMENT,,,youd actually possibly be getting LAID for a change, and realize not ALL women in the world are co-dependent, weak, submissive, and need too be supported and LOVE too play mommy too you!!! An independent, strong, mature, sexy, sensual woman,,who KNOWS how too be a mans EVERYTHING,, if the chemistry is there on each side,,,,is most mens DREAM..as us women just want the same in return....so BACK OFF...walk away...find another too waste messaging...cause I want a REALLL MANNNN BABYYYY lolol Well...I'm quite "simple" to be honest. I don't need a fancy restaurant, or wine with it,,, Kandi's cool with a good burger, and beer!! lol...but what I've NEVER understood, is the "movie first date thing". I'd want to go somewhere where conversation is heard, we can talk, chit chat, get to know if we WANT to spend the next hour together,,,etc lol

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am looking for someone who will have time for me. My job and life require me to be there for others and I need someone that will be there for me when I need them. I have kids at home and a full time job and am hoping to find time to go back to school soon. I enjoy hanging out with friends by a fire, enjoying good friends and weather. I am not good at talking about myself so if there is something you want to know please ask!J

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a 38 year old single mom who works two jobs. I have two beautiful children, 11 and 12. I am a hard worker and take pride in what I do. I am a busy woman, but I do have nights and weekends free to date and spend time with someone. I am a survivor of breast cancer, been in remission since November of ***. I don't have a lot of hobbies, don't have much time for that, but I have got back into reading the last few years. I love all kinds of music, except for the really hard core stuff. My favs are country and classic rock. I do listen to Rap, my favorite will always be Snoop Dogg, or Snoop Lion now. I don't like a lot of drama, I'm not a sh*tstarter, but I do like a little gossip now and then. My goals are to live a simple life with my kids and someone who loves me for me. I have my favorite couples from television, who I would love ending up like when I am old, Phil and Miss Kay from Duck Dynasty and Red and Kitty from the That 70s Show. I want to grow old with someone who will still think I’m sexy and still have the same feelings about me that he had when we first met. I love to play and have fun with whomever I am with. I have strong feelings about being honest and communicating while in a relationship, it will never happen if we don’t have that. I have a tendency to find men who have issues and don't their lives together. I have a good heart and just want to find someone who is laid back and has their sh*ttogether! The first date doesn't have to be fancy. Dinner or coffee just to get to know each other

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