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Elida, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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About Me

I am very goal oriented . I am looking to date I am old fashion and believe in taking things slow. I love to go fishing . I like all kinds of music but don't care for hard core rap if I had to pick my favorite I would say old school R&B. I am looking to date and get to know someone slowly and if things go well then we might decide to get into a commitment. I'm not looking to rush into anything. I am old fashion and still believe in the dating process to get to know someone. If you are truly looking to date and see where things go then contact me.I make my own money and do quite well.. I have a good sense of humor and can be a smart ass at times but all in good humor. I work and like to enjoy the time off I do get. I have two grown children that do not live with me. I have my own place, might not be a mansion but its mine. :) and I am happy with it. I am a avid coffee drinker, love my coffee it is a necessity for me. It doesn't take much to make me happy, the simplest things in life are usually the best things in life. I do like to attend church when possible with my work schedule. I am really tired of sleeping on this couch because I have nobody to share my bed with, but it will take someone real special to get me out of single status. Is that person you? I have so much love to give and nobody to give it too. Update: ***Maybe I forgot to mention about honesty. I need a honest man if you can not be honest with who you are then you will not be honest with me. No half truths. I am a very honest upfront person and expect the same from a man. I am looking for someone atleast somewhat established in their life. Also no i am not into married men so please dont ask. I am not a young teenager anymore and Im not looking to just have some fun. This is why I want to take things slow especially on a dating site to many liars out there and I want to know that the man I do decide to make a commitment to is the man he has said he is. I know their are still some real gentlemen out there, are you him? .***Just got back on meetville. Haven't had much luck with it in past but thought I would try it again. I am looking for the old fashion gentlemen type somebody who still believes in the courting (dating) process and getting to know each other. So the first date should be something we can talk and get to know each other their are not to many things I don't like to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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