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Raina, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Mustang

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About Me

I am looking to really enjoy life, play , laugh , travel , poke fun. I just am really down to earth and appreciate the same!Life is a gift – open it ; )))"It's not enough to be the best at what you do; you must be perceived as the only one who does what you do." Jerry Garcia I strongly believe in chemistry, it is crucial to connect on this level, to start the fire roaring.I am a wee - bit of a prankster, engage laughter.I live my life to the fullest, but yet - in the same breath, I am very relaxed about it.I have created a really serene life, loaded with ADVENTURE /Movement/stillness, and look forward to expanding it.I challenge myself daily to do something outside of my thinking box, to keep LIFE FULL OF ZEST, AND THE FIRE IN MY SOUL OF BEING ALIVE.I love my work it gives me a great deal of flexibility and freedom, I love every second of it ; ) I am extremely creative and have a passion for the arts, with that said I am very much right and left brain. I have a very balanced business side that keeps me sharp and allows my creativity to flourish.Everyone in our lives is a mirror reflecting back the parts we love and dislike about ourselves. If we have the courage to recognize our reflections in each other, we can grow through our partnerships. When we find this kind of partnership, we are more likely to want to keep it, invest in it, and nurture it. Life is a collaborative effort. Much of what we do can be enhanced through partnership. Together we are stronger because our personal power is multiplied by two. Through partnership we experience the joys of working, living, and loving together.I am looking for a man that is driven as I am in all areas of life. A man rich with substance and security in himself.I am a very independent women with a great balance of my right and left side of my brain. I am very artistic and creative and have a huge passion for what it is I do, but I also have a very practical, clever, witty business side that sharpens my edges. It keeps me balanced.With that said couple deal breakers NO MARRIED MEN, MEN WITH CATS, Men that say they are athletic and their really BROKEN, or their idea of athletic is hitting a gym! I am a BIG TIME outdoors girl. I love getting dirty and playing hard outside. I recently moved back form LA and I have recently tried wind surfing (LOVE IT) I would like to learn to sailing (NO surf here) so I am learning to adapt to the different terrain. I also have started to climb; ). I adore it and would love to meet someone that would like to engage in water sports. Last but not least SLEEPY men or just simply a man to have no energy - WE WILL NOT BE A FIT! I am high energy, I love my down time too but I love to play. I am very athletic and would like to spend time with someone that treats their body like a golden temple as well.I am interested in meeting just casual and seeing where it goes, I am in no rush to get involved and would like to really just have a quality relationship.Wishing you well.......Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that,but the really great ones make you feel that you too, can become great.***A great little positive read ;Love yourself, don't seek love. Love yourself first and naturally love seeks you. Forgive yourself. It's in the past. You'll never finish your story if you don't move onto the next chapter of your life. We are all born clean and pure. We are all basically good. Just because you strayed down a dirt road does not mean you can't simply clean yourself. Only those who don't want to be clean, stay dirty; just as those who don't want to be forgiven, stay unforgiven. Nobody can forgive you, but yourself. Disown your thoughts. Thoughts are a lot like opinions, they don't matter. You could be thinking of something really evil or great, but know that thoughts are just a natural process. Like opinions, thoughts in your mind will always try to sway you a certain way. Thoughts should not dictate how you act or feel. Be yourself, your true self. Listen to your heart. Don't let the voice in your head be you. Never feel embarrassed or ashamed of who you are or what you love to do. Feelings of embarrassment and shame only serve to create lies and deception. Lying is taxing mentally and physically. Shed any hesitation of telling the truth. Be honest with yourself. Don't pretend to be happy when you're really sad. Just be. We're all human, we are allowed to feel. Don't close your heart to the world.Fear and anxiety are created in your mind. Don't try to fight it on the platform it was created on. Don't try to think or psyche it out. Stand up straight, chest out to the world, and let your body do the talking. A confident body posture conquers an unconfident mind. Trust yourself. Don't sell yourself short. How can you fly if you keep convincing yourself you don't have wings?Smile. Because why not? You're alive. Take a deep breath right now. Let all the negativity dissolve away. Feels good don't it? Walk prior to run SimpleOr go big

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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