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Babara, 40

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About Me

Blah blah blah........ I'm a widow, was with the same man for 23 years, he passed away in ***.. I'm not single by choice.. I'm not looking for a HookUp or FWB, if tthat's what your looking for, please move on.. I don't need pics of your**** at this point I HAVE seen more than my share, leave something to the imagination! it really doesn't define a man, size doesn't matter to me.. I'm sorry I don't date out of my race, it's just what I prefer, I'm not racist! So don't sent me nasty *** I don't message you back, plz don't send me a million messages, that won't make me respond! I'm not a ****, I'm just really getting sick of the dating scene at this point!! Somewhere we can talk! I don't meet up right away, I like to get to know the person before meeting!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Christiane

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a Self sufficient mother of two looking to find forever love. I am very much okay being alone and in no way am I looking to settle, Im just hoping to find "The One." Could it be you? Coffee or a quick****ail. I'm sure neither one if us want to waste valuable time if there is no connection.

  • Marquita

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I don't really know what I am looking for I just thought this might be fun. I love to laugh so if u don't like to hear someone laugh u won't like me. I have an interesting past and hope to have an amazing future.

  • Jaymie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems--the ones that make you truly who you are--that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person--someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.I don't want to be your world, that's just too much responsibility. I will not be your one night stand. It really can't be that hard to find someone that you want to spend more than 5 minutes with. Grill out, go out, and spend time getting to know. I'm not sure I believe in forevermore. I'm not here to scratch your itch. I'm a good girl but that goes out the window with the person I'm with. I'm the girl next door with edge. I'm curvy and no drama. I hate conflict, extremely loyal, but will stand and fight for the things I believe in. I have a ditzy naivety about me but extremely intelligent also. I can be extremely sweet and or brash if I need to be. I can be submissive and I can be dominate. If you read this and say that girl might be out of my league then you're right. I like a confident strong man. Now please understand there is a difference between being of strong character and just an ass. If you're the second I will quickly call you out on it. If you are not at least 5'10 I'm probably not going to be interested. If you are really skinny I'm probably not going to be interested. If you show a hard on in your photos I'm not going to be interested. If you are into gaming as one of your hobbies and have your hat on sideways gangstafied, I'm not going to be interested. For ****sakes you're how old?!?!? I can't say for sure what I'm looking for but I surely know what I'm not looking for. I have changed my life over this year. I have closed my business and left corporate world. I have realized my happiness is more important than money. That my easy going nature thrives in the unstuffy world with which I have thrown restraints away. You can say I play with dogs and horses all day now for my career. I will say that I'm not sure how you guys put up with us. As females we are a pain in the ass. But at the end of the day I'm just a girl. I believe, I feel, I hope, and sometimes I don't want to show the brave strong side. Sometimes I will want to crawl into your lap bury my head into your shoulder and draw upon your strength. Have a super sparkly day. :-) First meet.. Simple and easy.. Meet up for a drink.. ect.. Preferably with easy escape windows.

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