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About Me

Goal oriented, outdoorsy, articulate, passionate, perfectionistic, active, inspirational, optimistic, humorous, grateful...I try to live my life intentionally, pursuing my goals and dreams, while still enjoying every moment I am given, and I am looking for a companion who does the same.P.S. Please say something interesting by the second or third message and be prepared to meet by the fifth or sixth because I am not really into the endless messaging or texting...thanks so much! I'm not opposed to going out for dinner, but something that is a little more activity oriented would be great. A casual walk, hike, or bike ride are some good options as they would give us an opportunity to talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I grew up in a small-ish town in the 80's and did all the small town things there were to do. I love my "hair bands" - But I have many other musical tastes - which you could ask me about if you're curious.Did you see my White Sox picture? Yes, I'm a fan. However, I am nice enough to keep you company if you want to watch a Cubs game at home or at a bar, but I don't like going to Wrigley. Feel free to ask me why. I enjoy Bears games and sometimes a good Bulls game too. Do you play euchre or rummy? I do!I do all the usual stuff too. I exercise, eat meat and potatoes and some healthy stuff. I enjoy being in my jeans and being low-key, but equally enjoy getting all dressed up for a night out - dinner, dancing or a classical concert or performance art of some kind. As a midwesterner I make sure to take advantage of the great outdoors during good weather. Who doesn't like a good movie now and then too, especially in the winter? Having some travel plans to look forward to is also a good cure for the the doldrums of routines. I have a lot of interests and am curious about many things, but you'll have to get to know me to find out what they are.I tend to like people who are interested in and involved in the world around them. That means knowing what is going on in the world and wanting to make the world a better place, even if a small way. I believe you don't have to have a degree to be smart. I have one, but only because I decided to become a teacher and the state requires it. I worked for a long time without a degree and was very successful. I also know people who are "degreed" and who can't think there way out of a box.I'm looking for a great man, who has some things in common with me, is intelligent and successful and wants to get to know someone gradually and respectfully. Someone to have great conversations with, smile and laugh and occassionally have a good-spirited debate. Someone to be goofy with me, show me new things, try new things and enjoy the beauty of life. Someone who has goals and wants to eventually share his life with a best friend and partner.Could that be you? For a first date, I would prefer to do an activity like bowling or playing pool or darts which I think is more fun & gets you past the awkward conversation moments. I am rather shy at first, so it's more fun to have something to banter about. First dates are always awkward. I think it takes at least 3 or 4 dates to really see if you like someone. (Unless of course the first date is a really rude experience.)

  • Stevania

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am simply me..outgoing, caring, loving, honest and loyal. I am not into playing games and drama. I am looking for someone who would like to start out a just friends and see where things go. Love is not something that can. be forced but just happens. I am a person a woman not a booty call and if that is what you are just looking for keep looking because that is not me. I don't know if I will find my one and only but you never know. Happy searching and if you wanna know more just ask. first date should be something that both people would enjoy..........lots of conversation to get to know one another and then go from there .

  • Jesica

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a laid back individual and would definitely describe myself as an extrovert. I think I have a great sense of humor, and I am pretty sure most people I know would agree. I enjoy life to its' fullest and can have fun in almost any situation. Life is way too short and too much fun to sit around and let it idly pass me by. I like meeting new people, trying new things and always welcome a new adventure. I enjoy all types of outdoor activities and love to travel, whether it is a planned vacation or an impromptu road trip - I am game. I enjoy live music, kayaking, paddle boarding, hiking, going to the beach ect... I like to go out and have a good time, but don't feel the need to do so every night of the week. Besides, I believe that it is the company one keeps that makes for a good time and I am just as happy staying home, cooking dinner and watching movies. I can't really say that I have a an exact 'type' as everybody brings different attributes to the table which make them special - But am definitely attracted to someone who makes me laugh and can laugh at themselves. Life is way too short to be serious all of the time. I would like to able to learn a few things from my partner as well as teach them a few. I tend to be attracted to open-minded individuals. There are some amazing places on this planet and I would love someone to share my travels with. A sense of humor is a must and a little sarcasm (or a lot) never hurt anybody. If you want to know more, just ask..... Something fun and casual where we can talk and get to know each other. The best first dates are the ones that leave you excited to go on a second date.

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