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Stef, 40
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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About Me

I am a true romantic at heart!! I have a great job and love my career, and it does not consume my home life. I love being social, but sometimes need down time to chill and unwind. I I enjoy laughing, going dancing, hanging out with my friends, and enjoy a very active and healthy lifestyle. I don't need any drama, life comes with its own challenges, so extra drama is unwanted. I figured this was another option to find that special someone. Life is about trying new things, so maybe I'll find that someone here, maybe it's you! I am looking to meet somebody that is easy going, but also able to challenge me, grow with me. Humor and intelligence is very important. I would like to meet somebody that has a great career, but is not consumed by their work. Life is about balance. I enjoy everything from dressing up for a night on the town to wearing T-Shirt and jeans, cuddling on the couch, watching a Canucks or Rider game, or throwing on a ball cap and going for a hike. I have a daughter that is the joy of my life! ***years old) she lives with me most of the time. She has a dad, so I'm not looking for that, but I am at a point in my life where I need to focus on my life again and finding someone to share it with. When I'm not busy working or being a mom, I am also a personal trainer, and a figure competitor so I'm at the gym often. I workout about 5 days a week, but I also enjoy doing outdoor activities, such as hiking, biking, kayaking, camping, golfing, pretty much anything ! I have a 10 month old puppy, and she is Awesome! She has been a great addition to my family! I enjoy good coffee, good (red) wine and great times spent with friends. Life is meant to be enjoyed!***Finding someone who is Physically Fit and Active is very important to me ***I am a very confident woman and know what I want and where I am going, just looking for that special someone to join me in the journey. There is so much that I could keep writing, but that is where getting to know someone comes in.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Art Activities American German Korean
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