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Rochel, 39

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About Me

Driven and edgy, fun loving and passionate, serious and intellectual, at home in a five star resort or the biker bar down the street, I'm just a girl who found and accepted myself long ago, stands confidently in my own shoes and believes the magic of life is in the journey. Travel is my greatest passion, followed by (in no particular order), reading, cooking, guitar playing and singing, wine, running, kayaking, hiking, dancing, theatre, the library, the woods.I have learned that if I must have the lows to have the highs, I'll dance as best as I know how through the lows. Without spark, without passion, for me, there is nothing. When I say travel is my greatest passion, I don't mean a 3 hour drive....these are not my bucket list but places I've been. Can you match me?I have a demanding career and three children (one now in college) who I share. I'm not looking for a father. They have one. I live a full life. I am happy. As of this moment, I possess neither the time nor the inclination for a serious relationship, but an occasional dinner with company that is confident, witty and funny would be nice. And if said company can keep me laughing...well who knows. A drink and some live jazz, somewhere we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Reginia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I think I'm extremely funny and most of the time my friends and family would agree. Sometimes you have to listen to a lot of lame jokes, but eventually I say something REALLY funny and it's worth the wait! Unfortunately, even if you don't think I'm funny I'll probably still be giggling to myself because I still do. Most of my friends I have now I've had for at least 20 years, so you can tell I must be likable if they have kept me around THAT long. I'm stubborn and extremely loyal. I'm independent and don't need someone to take care of me, but it would be nice to share my life with someone (but not necessary). I love horror movies, I took 3 years off from relationships, dated a little and I know exactly what I don't want. I don't want to be lied to, cheated on, or played. Just be honest. I can take it. I'm not clingy or needy. I don't need someone to take care of me. I don't like games and I don't like people who waste my time. If you're not interested, that's fine be honest. I don't drink regularly, but I have no problem with an occasional drink at a social gathering. I am a full time student. I spend the majority of my free time with my family. My sister is my very best friend. We live very close and spend a lot of time together. My family is the most important thing in my life. I have chronic migraines which make my life very difficult and makes relationships tough. I don't need anyone to fix me. I seem to be doing a little better these days, but I've had them for over 13 years and they changed my life completely. It's hard to be active when you're in constant pain and my once tiny frame reflects that. I've also been a guinea pig for doctors with medications and treatments for 13 years most of which caused weight gain, but I'm already losing. Thank frog! The last treatment I just had last week and this one should work and get me back to my old self. That's the bad news. Whatever the suggestion is I've most likely already tried it. I know people are just trying to be helpful, but I mentioned it to be honest not looking for suggestions or solutions. Wow. I hope that doesn't sound ****y. Yes, I know True Blood is getting done next summer.There's much more, but if you want to know you'll have to ask me.My new loves are my sister's two Shetland sheepdog puppies! They're so adorable. I love going to the movies, but seriously it's the worst place to take me until you get to know me. Taking me some place I can't talk for several hours in the beginning is just torture. Something low key, in public, with not too much pressure. I know! Going to see one of my friend's bands play! LOL

  • Jeanmarie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm not exactly sure what to write here, it's really hard to write about yourself and try to get someone to even bother reading your profile anyway!!I am a single mother of a 7 year old boy. We do a lot together, Amusement Parks, Arcades and parks.When I'm not with my son, generally I go to the States shopping and stay around the house.I frequent the gym with my friends and I like to go tanning anywhere!! My backyard when it's nice out and a tanning bed in the winter.I am not looking to have anyone move in with me or get married. I'm looking for someone to be in a monogamous relationship.One thing that I must mention, I'm not a big drinker, I don't smoke, nor do I smoke pot. I will not date anyone who does any of these things, sorry! Let's get dressed up and go to a Halloween party this weekend!

  • Harriet

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a woman with standards, morals, values and dreams. I know what i want and wont settle. Long term relationships is all I've known. I just want to be someones everything, Single life sucks and is not for me. Cant wait to meet the one I can dump this site for. I am not looking for sex. Its great and I love it but I'm looking for more, I want the feelings behind it. Make love to me, my mind. Give it to me...make me fall for you. ;) So if u think u can fall in love with me and pursue me and give me the attn i want and u can maintain loyalty and are looking for a hellcat with a halo, like kids and enjoy life please sweep me off my feet. ;)) P.S. I have lots of messages and I can't respond to them all so please stand out and make an impression. Show some effort guys. I'm looking for forever so show me what u got. Surprise Me

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