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Rochel, 39
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

Offline, last seen Sat, 14 Feb 2026 14:17:19

About Me

Driven and edgy, fun loving and passionate, serious and intellectual, at home in a five star resort or the biker bar down the street, I'm just a girl who found and accepted myself long ago, stands confidently in my own shoes and believes the magic of life is in the journey. Travel is my greatest passion, followed by (in no particular order), reading, cooking, guitar playing and singing, wine, running, kayaking, hiking, dancing, theatre, the library, the woods.I have learned that if I must have the lows to have the highs, I'll dance as best as I know how through the lows. Without spark, without passion, for me, there is nothing. When I say travel is my greatest passion, I don't mean a 3 hour drive....these are not my bucket list but places I've been. Can you match me?I have a demanding career and three children (one now in college) who I share. I'm not looking for a father. They have one. I live a full life. I am happy. As of this moment, I possess neither the time nor the inclination for a serious relationship, but an occasional dinner with company that is confident, witty and funny would be nice. And if said company can keep me laughing...well who knows. A drink and some live jazz, somewhere we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Reggae Dance Soccer / Football Volleyball
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  • Tawana from McAlester | Woman | 62 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-64

    Hi! My name is Tawana. I am divorced other caucasian woman without kids from McAlester, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Shawnee from McAlester | Woman | 37 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    * I am OFFICIALLY out of the "POND", Happily taken and not looking for a boyfriend, HOWEVER, I am going to keep my profile up as I do have FRIENDS I talk to through here and I don't mind meeting new people... Please do NOT message me and hit on me, and do not message me and think you might get free ink because you won't... MOST of the guys I have met on here are douche bags to say the least and I am PROUD to say that the man I am with is not someone I met on meetville.... I am happily committed to my guy and that is that.... so if you are looking for more than friends... don't bother reading any further and don't bother messaging me.... Hope y'all find what you are looking for *I am fun and caring, compassionate and friendly, I love meeting new people and making others smile. I lack a brain to mouth filter and yes that makes it difficult sometimes because my brain really should learn to tell my mouth to stop sometimes LOL Some of my hobbies include reading, art, tattooing, spending time with my kids and friends, fishing and being outdoors. I love to cook and take pride in what I make. I like all kinds of music but dispise rap. I am a bookworm and a bit of a nerd and damn proud of it. I love horror movies, cuddling and just laughing at inside jokes while snuggled up and enjoying the one I am with. I am not looking for a hook up or a fwb, if that's what you are looking for then don't bother messaging me. I try to live life to the fullest.My friends say that I am a worry wort LOL I guess I am.. when I care about someone I do worry about them and I am always waiting for the ball to drop so I am prepared to pick up the pieces again. I have been hurt way too many times and I am tired of games, if it is a game you want you won't find it here.

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  • Tamsyn from McAlester | Woman | 38 years old | Aquarius
    Tamsyn

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Decided to take the big leap and quit smoking. Wish me luck :o)So I've decided to update my profile and be more specific as to what I'm looking for. The quickest way to do this is by starting with what I'm NOT looking for.A NASCAR fanHunterRedneck I detest MMA. Violence for sport is not becoming. Work boots are for work.Sleeveless t-shirts are for trash cans. Spontaneity is always a plus. I like camping, walking, frisby, and will rock your socks in air hockey. If you are silly and playful you get points. If you can teach me disk golf or ultimate frisby you get double points. Any takers?A little about me: If you look closely you'll probably catch me rocking out in my Volvo on rt 89 or 15. I love dance parties with my 2 boys in my living room. If I'm not telling a joke it's because I'm laughing at one. The one TV show I watch is The Family Guy. I like watching the Redsox and the Pats, but wouldn't watch the entire MLB or NFL play all weekend long. I hope you wouldn't want to either. I'll take a coffee shop over a bar. I enjoy a good yard sale. You will not see 95 triple X on my radio, nor will you hear country come out of my speakers. Chocolate chip pancakes are a comfort food in my house. Singing in the shower is encouraged :o) I would rather not do a typical dinner date. Too much pressure. I like activity dates. That's not to say I want to climb Kilimanjaro on a first date, or ever for that matter. However, DOING something tends to bring out more smiles then just talking about it.

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