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Stepanie, 39

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About Me

seriously... any good guys out there? hello.. good looking, nice, non controling, fun, sexy.. anyone..ok my girlfriend says if i take this serously it can work. so here goes..I am on here because the bar scene is old, been there done that.. Im not looking for the local drunk, or the guy who stops by every night for a few before going home.I am looking for someone to spend my time with, do things with, learn and experence things with. I have always been a single mom and I lived and learned and did things with her. she is now grown and its time for both of us to spread our wings and fly.Its not easy letting go since being a mom is all I have ever known.I want someone I am attracted to and vice versa. I want someone who makes me better. I am not perfect in any way, I am just me and that means you like all of me, I have many differnt sides to me and I like to feel free to let me shine.I try not to dwell on the past but look to the future. (right now its a blank wall)I like concerts, going to bars to hang out or dance, I like motor cycles, snowmobiles, vacations, trying new things.basicly Im up for a little fun and new experences. I smoke, I only drink now and then when I have a driver. want to know more you know what to do.Oh yeah, Im a country girl at heart and If your a hunter you will fit in with my family. No I dont hunt but I will sit in a warm blind for the hell of it. meet for hot chocolate/ coffee and see what happens

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Les

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi! Prepare by putting on your big-boy pants before reading! 1ST and foremost, before you continue reading...if you decide you want to contact me, HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!! Please don't waste time w/just "hi" or a ";. 2ND, it's about CONSISTENCY, GENTLEMEN!! A lady wants you to "get her attention", "keep her attention" and "possibly...just maybe wow her at some point in the process"!!!! This lady won't give any chase until GIVEN GOOD REASON TO. And no, I'm not a B-TCH...I'm a mom with A TODDLER and limited, precious free-time!! BTW, humor and wit gets you points!! Make a gal smile and laugh!! Come on...this shouldn't be difficult. It isn't rocket science!! If you think a once-a-week contact gets it for you, then there's the reason why you're still on here. You know what they say, "OUT OF SIGHT" then definitely off my radar!! And, if your children are grown and you're looking to start the next phase of your life with the right lady, then I'm not for you! I started late in life, so compatibility factor goes along better with a man with younger kids or one who is also starting late like me. I've already experienced this recently and attachment/loss to another's kids is heartbreaking. I don't wish to go there again, and I'm even more protective of my son's innocent heart now. If you're still with me thus far, thank you for hanging in there. Go pop yourself some popcorn for the remainder. LOLIf your profile DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF, if you're under 38 or over 45, or if you are well over the normal weight range for you height (say 30+lbs), please don't attempt to message me. Or, if you don't fall into the Caucasian or an American Indian category, please move forward. Not trying to be harsh but don't want to waste your time or mine. (No Patience for liars, players, jerks or fraudulent men -OR- men with Extreme jealously issues or low self-esteem...please don't waste our time) I'm sensitive to smoke, also, so that answers that question. One more tip on me...I'm 5'7", and I like a TALL MAN!! (like legitimate 5'11 to 6'5) It has always been something I'm naturally comfortable with, therefore, my preference. And it's nice to be able to wear heals w/o towering over or feeling like I'm protecting the guy...meaning you don't have a "short-man" complex by listing that you're taller than you actually have measured yourself to be!! If you're not offended yet, please read on....... Where's my Urban Cowboy who puts my plate in his back glass? Where's my Top Gun who Takes My Breath Away? It's high time for my Hope Floats Notebook! Is there anyone else out there who gets this and feels the same way? No, I don't live in a movie theme, but I do believe our hearts yearn for the same romance or love story. I do not believe we were created to be alone. I do believe some of our blueprints may have been smudged, though, along the way. lol I guess I'm just a simple girl in a complicated world...sounds like a song. I've never been a juggler, and I envy those who can. Here's the short/long of it: I've been engaged and divorced (both unrelated) but never really married. Wow, again...sounds like a song! Or, maybe I should write a book. jk Next, I have a 3yr. old son who's the light of my life! With that said, I'm limited on free-time, so patience and understanding go a long way!!! I'm a single mom who works full-time and shares my child's time beyond the time he spends at daycare. I will not rush someone in my son's life, nor will I have my son compete for my attention. If you're not turned off yet, please read on.......I'd like to start dating again. I would like to pursue something more, eventually, but I'm not in a hurry. I can't afford to be. I am stable and secure in my life, so I don't need rescuing, but I appreciate chivalry. I'm a pretty low-key, easy-going kind of girl with what some could call a prissy twist but nothing high-maintenance. I'm not a tomboy, but I love the outdoors! I'm learning to bring fun back into my life, AGAIN, beyond the fun and happiness my son gives me!!! :-P A man with a plan...or an idea or at least some options if nothing else is a great start. Please don't just leave it up to the gal. You really want us to tell you where to spend your dime? And yes, I just said that, but I'm always prepared! If you're not somewhat of an old-fashioned gentleman or mannered cowboy...then please move on! Make your mother or grandmother proud. Can you handle that proposal? I do believe in both romance and simplicity. :-)

  • Phyllida

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Never sure what I want to write here. Looking for someone I am attracted to, compatible with and has a decent sense of humor. I am honest, I don't play games and am loyal. Not looking to get a billion free dinners out of this. That doesn't appeal to me at all. If you ask me out on the first message or even second for that matter it isn't going to happen. I know what I like and I will work for it. I expect the same in return. If you are in a relationship of ANY kind please do not contact me. Inevitably you will end up regretting it! So to all the rest who a seemingly "good catches" if you are interested *** we will go from there. If not good luck in this crazy dating world..lol.

  • Carmina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    A little about me..I am a mom of two kids. I have a good sense of humor, honest and outgoing. I love to joke around and laugh. Spending time with my family, they are important to me. Hanging out with my friends or meeting new people is great too. Have been told that I'm easy to talk with. I like all sorts of music and movies.I have a lot of hobbies and activities that I enjoy.. feel free to ask, it's a good place to start.. Or just say hi first meeting should be somewhere where it's easy to talk.. Maybe coffee, drinks, or whatever

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