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Barrie, 35
United States, Oklahoma, Jenks

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About Me

Hmmm, so this is awkward. Telling perfect strangers -- in a clever, original, confident, and engaging way -- about my sparkling personality, my heart's desires, my hopes, dreams, future plans, and my search for someone smart, funny, compassionate, ambitious, and handsome to complete me. In an attempt to be original, I'll skip the the meaningful quote by a famous thinker, withold my zodiac sign, refuse to sprinkle in foreign words, resist clichés, try not to try so hard, and jump right into the facts.Fact One: Acquaintances describe me as funny, intelligent, caring, and athletic. Fact Two: Good friends describe me as a very funny, very intelligent, very caring athlete. They add -- because they're good friends -- that I'm witty, genuine, generous of spirit, and loyal. Fact Three: I am somewhat of a homebody but I love to travel (and contradict myself.) I go around the country running marathons (and even half-Fact Four: I love my job as a counselor for adolescents and young adults - there's never a dull moment around teenagers. Or around me, for that matter. My work gives me a strong sense of purpose, a sense of societal contribution, and deep meaning, which is very important to me.Fact Five: During downtime, I enjoy exercising regularly, cooking healthy meals (most of the time), reading, and even just relaxing on the couch watching my favorite tv shows after a stressful day at work.Fact Six: The best dates for me include going out to eat, making great conversation, seeing a great movie, laughing with someone that's funny - I'm kind of an old soul. I like romance and enjoy a true gentleman, even though I'm a modern woman. I love when a man opens doors for me, sends me occasional flowers, surprises me with cards "just because." Modern but not.Fact Seven: I don't drink but don't mind a man who drinks socially and responsibly. Most types of music--except for death metal Gospel--are fine with me, but my favorite singer is definitely Stevie Nicks.- emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally - and I'm looking for someone who strives for the same. Exercise, healthy eating, adequate sleep, and overall well-being is important to me. Fact Nine: I'm looking for a man who is intelligent, ambitious, caring, accepting, faithful, and supportive. He must have a good sense of humor, can't take himself too seriously, can laugh at himself and even at me. Actually, not AT me. Maybe with me. Fact Ten: Here's the scary part, which is not for the faint of heart. I picture us traveling together, practicing wellness of mind and body, holding hands, laughing, raising a family, growing old together, taking walks in the rain, kissing often, feeding ducks, and loving with whole hearts. Are you still reading? Are you laughing? At me or WITH me? Either way, feel free to *** for coffee is usually a safe first date. I'm a bit on the old fashioned side so dinner and a movie always sounds nice to me! Fun dates down the road are getting takeout and watching a movie, hiking together, and going to museums. I'm not into the bar/club scene so if that's you're thing we're probably not a good match!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Rock Play Musical Instrument American Portuguese Vietnamese Adult Martial Arts Music War
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  • Robbi from Jenks | Woman | 34 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Lets all face it. Dating sucks. You get all dressed up, super nervous, maybe a couple of anxiety attacks, throw up....and that's all before the door bell rings, and you meet this person face to face for the very first time. It takes exactly 5 seconds to realize that all the drama you put yourself through before that moment was worthless, because you have no plans to ever see this person again. They are not what you wanted or expected, and now you have to deal with going out? The phrase "lets just be friends", is a mood killer for everyone. Its someone's way of letting you off the hook "easily". The problem with online dating, is that the only thing you have to go on are pictures. Nobody is real. Everyone puts their best pics on their profiles, so generally what you see isn't what you get unless you are prepared to give that date twenty minutes alone in the bathroom mirror so they can find the best part of themselves before facing you again.Yet, after countless failed dates, I find myself trying this again. Hoping for a slight moment in time that there is maybe even one person out there for me. Why am I single? Because no one has been good enough? Because Im an ***hole? Who knows. I say what I mean and mean what I say, because I never want someone to accuse me of being someone I am not. I don't like flowers. I don't own jewelry. I don't need "stuff". What I do want however, is to finally finally find my true love. True love you say? Yes!!!!!!!!!!! Why not! I am a single parent of one child. She is almost 4. I am 33, turning 34. My longest relationship has been a year. And I have had 2 of them. Not a lot. You see, I don't need a man. I want a man. But I want a real man. No lies. No bullshit. Just truth. I like clean cut, work hard, play hard type of men. Someone who is romantic, and can actually love. I will love you until my heart explodes. I want that in return. Im not looking for sex. That comes after commitment. Lots of it!!!!! I don't care about age. Yes, I do care about looks...Im human.What do I like to do? Ill show you during football season. Nothing like a little friendly competition.....(its not really friendly, just my attempt at luring you in)If you have made it through my profile, please, send an *** do you have to lose? I mean we are already all online dating....haha. 5 minutes. Meet somewhere near my house, so that I can come straight home and drink a martini after deciding that I don't want to talk to you again...haha.OR after those 5 minutes, go do something fun. I like to laugh until I pee myself. All about the class baby.

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  • Lindsie from Jenks | Woman | 33 years old | Libra
    Lindsie

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I run races every once in awhile, love the water (sailing, beach bumming, swimming), and read when I can. I have my own fantasy football league but I'm doing horrible this year. I hate pressure and don't believe in fairy tales. I know what I'm looking for but you should know I don't initiate contact. (I'm not sure what to do when someone favorites me but doesn't contact me otherwise?) You should also know that I have two kids and your mom and friends told you not to date anyone with kids. ;-).

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  • Yuri from Jenks | Woman | 34 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I cant believe I'm doing this but here it is.... I'm a single Christian woman and have 2 awesome kiddos. I love being single and im not lonely or desperate! Love to laugh and have fun as much as possible. I'm somewhat easygoing and laidback.I am full figured and have curves and cushion... luvin it! Im looking for someone that loves God foremost and is laidback, funny, employed, and a rolemodel of how a real good man is supposed to be.Im shy... it sucks but im working on that so if ya want to get to know more about me ya have to message me first lol. If your looking to get laid move on... im a good girl! More to come later! Thanks

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