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Birdie, 36
United States, Ohio, Xenia

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About Me

As much as I like having more time to myself lately, I do enjoy and miss having someone by my side to do things with. I love that feeling of contentment in a relationship, knowing that I have that one person who loves just being with me. Who I'd do anything for and they'd do the same, just because we care about each other. I was married for 10 year (together for 13), and so I know how amazing it is when you find someone that you "click" with. You compliment each other and there's a sort of spark between you that is undeniable. Whether it's just shopping or going out for dinner and seeing a movie it's much more enjoyable with someone you care about by your side to spend time with. (Those lazy nights snuggling up on the couch are pretty great too!) So, even though I swore that I'd never join one of these "on line dating" sites, I thought I'd give this one a try to see if there is possibly someone else out there for me. ~ S For a first (or any) date, I enjoy the typical dinner out with great conversation, and maybe a movie. After the first date if things go well, I think the next should be something a little more exciting and different. Some sort of outdoor fun. In the summer I'd say a beach day or a day by the pool grilling steaks, a concert, comedy show or going to some type of sporting event. (I love warm summer nights on the beach or out by the pool looking up at the stars). After a couple dates and we know each other a little, I'd probably suggest coming to my place to watch a movie in, maybe light a fire and order take-out. So, I guess I've pretty much got our first 3 dates planned out already. (Just kidding!) I'm usually up for anything. (Well most things). Lol! And, just a little hint...I Love Love Luuuvvv when you guys have it already planned out! Especially at least for the first date! For me, It's very impressive when the guy takes the initiative to plan the first date no matter where it is! It shows that you are actually interested and really want things to go well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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