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Elfreda, 40
United States, Ohio, Xenia

Offline, last seen Sun, 04 Jan 2026 10:22:12

About Me

I'm looking for someone to enjoy my time with - someone I connect with and is fun to be around - someone to go to the movies, out to dinner, hit a beach bar with friends, enjoy a concert, watch a ballgame, or hang out on the couch in front of the TV.- LOVE roller coasters. I do watch sports - not enough to know every player of every team, but definitely enough to get by. A Sunday afternoon surrounded by friends watching football is a great day for me. I've been known to throw a pretty decent Super Bowl Party. I love to laugh and tend to laugh at some of the silliest things. A sense of humor is something I find very attractive. I would describe myself as an optimist. I definitely try to see the best in people, as well as see the best in any situation. I'm someone who will never ask anything of anyone I'm not willing to do myself - which means I will show you respect, compassion and honesty. Basically, I'd like to find someone to laugh with, and see where it leads.Update - I've been told by a few guys that I should change my "separated" status as that scares you guys off. The problem with that is, I believe in complete honesty. The deal is, yes, on paper, I am still married. We have not filed the paperwork to make it official yet. However, the marriage has been over for over a year. We do not live together. We are friends and get along just fine. No drama. We are raising our children together, but that is all.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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