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Bertha, 28

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About Me

Please, please, please don't put pictures of your kids on a public dating website. Its so weird and inappropriate. I enjoy hiking, swimming, running with my awesome boxer/pit mix, going to the movies with my kids, cooking, reading and vegging at home. I consider myself a cross between a tomboy and a girly girl. I love the outdoors, guns and dirt but also thoroughly enjoy pink, pretty dresses and heels. I'm independent and self sufficient, possibly to a fault. I have a wonderful job that I take seriously. June ***will be 5 years. I own my home, and have a newer vehicle. Currently in the process of a promotion...the 3rd in less than 5 years so I think that says a lot of my character and work ethic. In the next 5 years, I hope to have a bigger/nicer house for myself and my children and to, ideally, be in a stable, happy relationship.I have been single for over 3 years (dated a little here and there but no "boyfriends") so please only message me if you are ready and emotionally available for a relationship. I am the most faithful person you'll ever meet, and will not settle for less. Don't worry, I'm not looking to immediately jump into a relationship...but I'm really tired of talking to a guy for weeks only to have him tell me he doesn't want a girlfriend. Such a waste of time... Basic prerequisites: - age range of ***. I can be flexible to a point with age, just please don't be old enough to be my father. -single; not in a relationship already, separated or married. -job, car and not living with parents or family aka self-sufficient. --non smoker; and no drug use. -in equal or better shape than me. Enough "I". Tell me about you and why you're so wonderful... Something low-key like lunch or meeting for coffee is best. I don't enjoy formal dinners with strangers and feel that's possibly the worst way to attempt to get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cristen

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Love the simple life. Have had a lot of "stuff" and have loved being alone. I do not contribute to or resign myself to dwell in chaos. I love to work hard and push myself physically and mentally. I want for nothing in this life other than an equal to share it with some day.I love to create and work with my hands. Sew, bake, cook etc. I love to write and think. I've always been active. Soccer for 9 years, track and field for ***more field than track) Varsity volleyball, Varsity High Jump and Waterpolo MVP. Snow boarding (until it got stolen) :( Surfing... I'd love to try! Kayaking is a great work out expecily in the ocean fishing at the same time! I'm happy all the time and would require that attribute in someone I want to get to know. :) I thought I'd put a disclaimer here. I'm a very thoughtful and nice person. I don't jump into things without a lot of thought. I've had some people on here give me a hard time for not giving out my number or agreeing to meet right away. I AM considering deleting my profile. Please only respond if you are patient loving and kind. Thank you. :) Oh & FYI, if your idea of a good time revolves around consuming Alcohol chances are we wouldn't be a great match. I don't try to Change anyone so I'm looking for someone who's already learned those life lessons. P.s. (profile pics of knocking back some brews,"mad doggi'n in your bathroom mirror with your shirt off" and sexual/ drug insuinating profile headders are not my idea of a strong character). I'm really sorry of anyone is offended by this message I'm just a Very real person who knows quite a bit. :)

  • Meaghan

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I'm a 30 yr old single mother of a almost 3yr old boy. I love my son to death and would do anything for him. He is my everything. I like to hang out with my friends whenever I'm not busy. I looking for that person that can make a difference in my life. I'm not looking for someone who just wants a good time for a short time so keep it moving. You have to love kids and if you have kids thats good because you understand how hard it is. I don't mind going out for drink from time to time but I also don't mind sitting at home and watching a good movie. Im a jeans n tshirt kind of girl but do get dressed up on occassion. Theres so much about me that I could put in this but i'm not writing a book about myself so if you interested send me a msg. Depends of the type of person you are....

  • Carreen

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    How to start off... I would like a few new friends because Idk anyone here in this state... I lived there for 12yrs lol. I'm NOT one for "friends with benefits" (that's disgusting and cheap), I'm NOT going to cuddle with you or hold your hand JUST because we are on a little date. You have to earn that privilege, I'm a mother (I have to think about my child's future) not your hormones. Either respect that or don't bother.My life if filled with a ton of different styles of interests that keep me entertained, for one... I enjoy studing new things that build up my intelligence, I always look forward in life.. even if it feels as if you have no way out, I never like to feel as if I have to settle for less.. I don't believe in that what so ever. People like to call me a "starving artist" and that's okay lol, my talents will blow your mind.. no matter the kind of person you may be. I will impress you with the skills of my creative abilities ;) It's my whole life's passion to be the best within the arts, I have gone to several different colleges/universities/art schools to enhance my capabilities but I feel that I want to fullfill much more. I highly love to stay active as much as possible... even if that means just cleaning up the house or yard maintenance. I never wish to let my health just "let go", that would be boring and sad in my opinion haha especially with how young I still am. My spirit is full of maturity, young loving energy, goofy at times yes :) but I do have a wickedly strong back bone.. even for a small woman such as I. But I do have an extremely tender heart of gold tho! haha :)My personal favorite kind of music is metal, rock, and country. I'm not easy Sorry! So if you want a first date, treat me right and get to know me first off before ever considering jumping ahead of yourself, thanks ;)I'm a very simple woman to be entertained. I enjoy the little things.. Such as walks, conversation over coffee, a movie, dinner (doesn't have to be high priced but NEVER fast food), checking out the sights, or trying something new but I am pregnant (so please don't ask me to do something radical or crazy).

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