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Annika, 54

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About Me

My warmth and friendliness are the first qualities people notice about me. I am a gentle and encouraging listener, and I love to explore ideas and envision possibilities. I tend to nurture others, and I strive to treat others as I would like to be treated. For myself, I prefer getting to know someone on a deeper level rather than day to day chit chat. And sharing comfortable silence with someone is a true balm to my soul. (Can you spell introvert?) The next thing people notice about me is my quick wit and love of laughter. My humour can be corny, edgy, dirty, and intelligent – all delivered with a twinkle in my eye. I cannot appreciate hurtful humour. My online radio station is tuned to blues, or classical music like Mozart, but there is nothing like 70’s rock. **** It is such a thrill to hear those songs, not those pop songs so much, but more the “B sides” that meant so much to me at the time. My dream is to have a man think and feel about me as the 70’s rock balladeers felt about their women – corny right?! “Do ya Do ya want my love…?” I am definitely a homebody. Don’t get me wrong, I love to go out – see a movie, visit friends, go to the St.’s market, visit towns with antique stores, museums and Tim coffees. BUT – I love to return home and let out that contented sigh that means I’m home – that place of welcome, calm, comfort and peace. I love the alchemy of cooking – bringing various ingredients together under different conditions resulting in magic! I‘m in my element when I’m slicing, dicing and blending. Is there any better smell than onions, garlic and peppers softening in the pan? I like making the old fashioned simple foods – savoury, hearty and satisfying. I’ve had marriage proposals for my soups. I have insatiable curiosity about the world. I am a library and second hand book store junky. (BTW wouldn’t that be a great first date? – going to a used book sale together. You would learn just about everything you need to know about a person and reveal yourself as well.) Right now I am enjoying the sweetness of moving into this new stage in my life. I have work that I enjoy, that I excel in. I enjoy and value the opportunity to parent. I derive great pleasure from the simple things in life. I enjoy being a positive and grateful person, and I enjoy others who are like that as well. I have spent my life working hard and striving to become whole. I am comfortable with who I am. And who I am is a “lover”. I am the most me I can be when I am loving. I have many different kinds of love in my life which I enjoy. The love that I ache for is a romantic love. This love is a necessity for me. I want to meet someone who is content with himself, yet looking for that depth of relationship where he can express his inner desires and dreams, and give love to his maximum potential. I am up for that! I am looking for a man who respects and cherishes the people in his life, and a man who can recognize the strengths and vulnerabilities within himself as well as in me. My head wants to build slowly on a solid foundation of friendship and compatibility. My heart wants to be “all in” with a single kiss. My body wants….well let’s keep this from getting R rated. I will go out of my way to reflect back to you that you are powerful, valuable, and cherished. I am a million different flowers tied together in one bouquet. (I stole that from another profile because I LOVE it!!) Care to pull my ribbon? (That last part is all me!) First Date: I’m probably going to be a bit nervous to start, so something like a leisurely walk will help to avoid that “being interrogated” feeling. If the interest to go forward is there, I would love to do something that allows us to talk and laugh. What’s your idea?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Clotilde

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a single independent woman looking to meet a friend and hope it evolves into a long lasting relationship in a natural way. I enjoy the outdoors. Love to go fishing although I hate to take a fish off the hook.. Go figure, Like riding ATVS, muddier the better, Camping, boating, Inside I like to watch action movies, bake, cook. I like all kinds of music but Country and Rock are my favorites.It would be nice to be able to do these things with a special someone. Share that uncontrollable laugh with for good memories.if you're only means of conversation is to text i'm not your girl. I'm not interested in players where they date more than one person at a time. You usually know when you meet that person if you want to get to know them more. If your not really interested then just say so. No hard feelingsDoes everyone live an hour and half away. :( Go out for a drink (coffee, beer, tea) and see if there is a mutual attraction.

  • Chyna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Not your typical woman. I would rather be...camping, swimming, fishing, traveling, boating, setting around a bone fire, monster TRUCKS....than shopping.....I have a great sense of humor .I do like flea markets, rummage stufflo like that. I enjoy dining out. BBQs family TIME,Dancing ,but I do not drink. 0COLTS GAMESEveryone seems to put the same thing on here. Of course we all want the wonderful relationship. & This time around. I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR LESS . GEEZE Can a man love a woman for who she is? No matter what might happen 5 years later.? I want a real true love. Some one that can be closer to me than anyone. So let's see how about NO NAGGING, NO YELLING. That will not fly with me.k Here is a pet peeve of mine... People That treat LOVED ones at home like CRAP. Then go in public and treat strangers so nice.Just thought I would throw that inOK UPDATE....... IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SEX GO TO A SEX SIGHT!!!! IF YOU ONLY DATE YOUNG GIRLS...THEN DO NOT CONTACT ME!!!! I AM 51 IF YOU WANT NUDE PICTURES. THE ANSWER IS NO!!! IF YOU ARE MY AGE I AM EXPECTING RESPECT THAT YOUR MOM TAUGHT YOU....MEANING DO NOT TRY TO COP A FEEL ON A FIRST MEETING. " I would like for the man to plan the first date

  • Jayleen

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to meet new people and learn about their lives. I’ve been accused of knowing someone every place I go. I collect friends,attempt to make people feel at ease and I’m told that I’m easy to talk to. I am a take charge, hard-working professional. I stay busy, am very much a leader and self-confident person. I like to entertain casually but I can throw a formal event if required. I enjoy plays and theater but I can fit any anywhere. In fact, I recently played BINGO with some senior citizens and had a great time. I can have a nice glass of wine, a good bottle of beer, a good cup of coffee or cold glass of water. It doesn’t matter. Road trips are fun but doing things around town are fine too. I don't have to spend money to have fun because I believe happiness comes from within. I have been lots of places but there's lots more to see.My perfect match is someone that enjoys being with me, hanging out with friends and entertaining while sometimes just sitting at home and being alone. That someone should be my best friend, someone that we both provide comfort, laughter, happiness and support to each other. Trust is a must. As well that someone should feel comfortable taking charge while being respectful of my independence and ideas. That someone should also be confident, friendly, easy to talk to, be loyal, reliable and honest. I find being able to laugh "with each other" always helps. I believe the basis a great relationship begins with friendship so we need to have common interests and beliefs. Family should be important because through time we'd extend our time to include our families with each other.Because I do enjoy making friends, I am not opposed to hanging out and I am always open to making new friends. However, ideally what's been missing in my life is my one true love and soul-mate. Call me a hopeless romantic but I do believe that true love exists and there's a difference between good friends and that soul mate. Is that called passion? I'm pretty flexible but it would be a place where we could spend quiet time getting to talk with each other but an activity to break the ice.....walking at a park, picnic, etc is always nice.

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