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About Me

They never tell you how hard this really is. You watch countless romantic comedies and gain an unrealistic view of what dating and romance will be like. I myself, am addicted to such movies. I guess my question is, am I damaged because of this, or does such life changing, agonizing, 'I can't live without you" love actually exist?First off, I have to say that I have THE WORST luck when it comes to dating lol... I have a talent for only attracting people I have no interest in dating. how does that happen?!?!? lolI am here (yes, still) because I find it hard to meet guys out in the real world... I mean, I am a very social person, don't get me wrong... I just don't know where to look. I enjoy the pubs, but do you really want to try and start a relationship in a bar? Let's face it... We all know how the night will end if that happens ;) Friends of mine tell me that it happened for them when they least expected it, it the most random places. Well, I been been in countless libraries, grocery stores, school hallways, coffee shops and have ridden the bus for 15 years!!! Still...I guess I don't really fit any molds when it comes to cliques of people. I listen to most types of music, but prefer punk/folk/rock/metal/indie/ska. I do listen some rap, and a very very little bit of country. And other genres or sub genres of any of these are usually a go. I like to wear skate shoes, not heels. I like to take pride in my appearance but am by no means high maintenance. I am just as comfortable in a skirt and blazer as I am in a hoodie and jeans. (I will add however, the latter is usually my clothing of choice) I like movies and tv and books. if you want to know more about that just ask.Since this is technically a dating site, I have written this profile to reflect that. But I am also looking for friends as well... I love meeting new people, so even if you think we'd get along and just to be friends, shoot me a message!I have written countless profiles in greater detail about who I am. Always the same outcome. So I thought I'd leave it for now and just let you ask the questions. The way i see it, if you're intrigued, you'll want to know more. And if you're not, well... there are plenty of other fish in the sea... (Sorry, I couldn't help it!!! lol) Anything casual. Somewhere where it's easy to talk and get to know each other. Maybe a pub or coffee or a doobie?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a passionate woman who is passionate about life. I believe in living a healthy lifestyle and taking care of myself. Fitness is my passion. It is a lifestyle and not a fad. I live my life to the fullest and like an easy going man with a sense of humour!I'm looking for that someone who puts a smile on my face even from a simple message. I am a bit of a romantic....I love a man who knows how to show affection and make me feel special (not with gifts).I don't accept drama into my life nor those who try to bring it. Life is too short to take too seriously or be surrounded by negativity. There is so much to someone that you can't learn by reading a profile. If you are interested in learning more, throw me a message!

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Me - I'm a professional, passionate and driven single mother of a 13 year old daughter. I recently got out of a 10 year relationship and I'm looking to take things slow and see where they lead. I have morals, dignity and self respect so If you are looking for a casual friends with benefits situation STOP reading I'm not for you. I'm someone who knows what I want and get after it. I'm a bit of a perfectionist. I like it here so far but feel like a fish out of water sometimes - a city mouse lost in the country. I'm a bit sarcastic but very down to earth. I have no time for liars and tell it like it is. I love to smile and laugh. Ask me if you want to know more, however - if I do not respond after a message or two please know that it means I'm not interested...I've found the "block user" feature, please don't make me use it. My silence is not an invitation to harass me. You - are handsome, genuine and honest. You have a career and do not still live in your parents basement. You can spell without spell check. You do not do drugs, period. You have a great smile. Your photos are clear and RECENT. Muscles make me melt, hopefully you have some lol. You are funny, sarcasm is a plus ;) If you are also from the northeast that's also a plus. You don't mind a girl that is competitive, I WILL try to beat you in everything lol. Did I mention handsome?? I did? Okay just checking...I realize I'm in the south now and there's plenty of "country boys" If you fish, ok - I like to fish but you'll have to do all the baiting of the hook etc. I can change a flat tire in record time if necessary, but I won't touch bait...ick ;). I'm not real big on camping but Im sure It could be fun with the right guy lol...but hunting....um, no. If everything you own is Mossy Oak, chances are you aren't my cup of tea...sorry. I know it may not sound like it but I am a pretty laid back and flexible person when it comes to that special someone. I do like trying new things...but hunting, um...that's still a no lol. I Iike helping others, I'm an animal lover and am a loyal and dependable friend. I say what I mean and do what I say. Being a strong minded gal I might be an acquired taste for some...but like coffee, very addicting! ;)

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I try not to take a moment for granted, cuz your next one is not promised to you. I want someone who will be honest with me and not play head games, I'm getting to old for that. If you want to know any more just ask.

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