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Voncile, 54
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

Well let see a self summary. I am a 53 year old woman looking for a man who is looking for a mature, fun loving woman who loves life! I am happy and I want someone who is happy too. Everyone has baggage that I understand but I am looking for someone who has the suitcase zipped up and put into storage lol.I take care of myself and I am looking for a man who does the same. Respect your body and mind you know... You have to be able to keep up with me. lol.I love to swim and do as long as the lightening holds out. I really enjoy it at night under the stars.I have just taken up photography and I am surprisingly good at it. Who knew? I also walk, garden, bike rideand I am a hell of a cook. I learned from my little Italian grandmom.I also love the beach and love living so close to it! I enjoy the theater and am a pretty good dancer. In my youth I danced professionally. Yes a little ballerina. But ... now I just dance in my living room with the blinds shut and the door locked. I do love my music... All kinds.Not rap/ Can't consider it music.I do like a gentleman, I am a lady and expect to be treated as such. I am a romantic and am looking for someone who really doesn't believe romance is dead. It really isn't.I will certainly get you a beer out of the fridge for a kiss but you know the next time you get me one. ***.I also am a reader. I can devour books quickly! It's my time and I do enjoy it!I am used to being independent. But to be honest, it is getting a little old. I am looking for love again and I hope I find it.So after all this to put it simply , I am looking for a nice guy. A man who is confident and makes me feel good about myself and I will do the same for him. A man who understand that this is a 2 way street. Well simple enough. Coffee or the park.... A place where you can talk and get to know the person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Salsa Art Activities Caribbean French Indonesian Animation Biography Romance Sci-Fi Motorcycle Racing
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