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Malisa, 53
United States, New Jersey, Buena

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FIRST OFF: I put down that I smoke occasionally BUT I smoke Electronic Cigs. Coffee flavor. I have been smoking these for a little over a year. So NO smell of smoke on my hair, clothes, or when kissing. WHO AM I: First off, all my pictures are only TWO years old except the graduation pic (been a nurse for 25 years but finally returned to school for that BSN degree) which is from ***. I do have a couple ***pictures and one from ***. I am 55 years young. I tried to be a few years younger due to the age brackets on the site but after two weeks you can no longer change your age on here without deleting and doing an entire profile over. I am tall, Blond/Green Psych RN. I also like Dodger games, shooting pool (I have my own cue), antique hunting, or going on cruises, especially with a great guy. I have not played much golf, but would love to learn how to improve my game. I think I can look pretty sexy covered in mud or dressed up to the nines. Am a tomboy at heart, but ALL Woman. Love my pedicures. Love to laugh and have fun. I am a romantic at heart. I enjoy intimacy and special times with ONE very special man. I have a big heart and am willing to share it with the right man. Have grown adult kids and have a very special bond with them. I am an animal lover and have two Lab/Corgi mix dogs. Enjoy gardening and doing things around the house. Enjoy going to Big Bear and staying at my little cabin. Great place to just "get away" and relax. I really enjoy anything that has to do with water. I Love the outdoors. I think about 70% of me has on the halo and the other 30% is sporting horns.:) I am here to find that special guy. Too many on this site keep looking around the corner always thinking someone might be better, when in reality, you just might have someone wonderful staring you in the face. Don't pass her by, grab her. You might be happy that you did. The way I see it: "You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” WHO AM I LOOKING FOR: ONE down to earth positive thinking guy who can make me smile. I am not needing someone to take me for a meal or buy me a drink ( I hear there are many women on this site looking for only that) but, if you took me to dinner and we clicked, the next one might be on me, I would love to fix you up a great home cooked meal. Am looking for a Real Man, who enjoys boating, fishing, camping, harleys (not a deal breaker if you don't have one) weekend getaways, Vegas, BBQ's, and cuddling up at home with ONE special man. Be romantic, caring, affectionate, intelligent, good at communication, honest, have a sparkle in his eye, and be able to make my heart skip a beat when I hear his voice or see him pop in the door. Hope you are comfortable holding hands and putting your arm around me in public while walking down the street. I like that physical connection. Have my back no matter what and I will also have yours. Be rugged but soft. Be able to dress up in a suit, but more comfortable in Levi's. Please be financially secure. I have my act together and am looking for a put together guy. Come capture my heart, Its available for the taking. I am NOT ***friendly.(marijuana smoker). I am a VERY lite drinker. I enjoy a nice glass of wine once in a while and will have a couple of beers while shooting my mean game of pool. If you like to drink every night or every weekend or abuse any drugs please hit that back button. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and if we are not a match, I wish you luck and happiness in whomever you find. I am NOT a serial dater. First Date. Well I think it's more of a meet and see.....Hopefully we would agree on something fun to do. I don't think it's the place that you choose to go but rather the company you are with. But if I HAD to pick a few places or things to do, how about walking around City Walk or meeting up and shooting some pool or if you are more daring, a Dodger game or a ride on YOUR Harley. Maybe a picnic with some wine and munchies? I would like to go somewhere we would be able to talk and find out a little more about each other. To see if we click and hopefully look forward to the real FIRST DATE. No pressure. I would like us to just be comfortable in whatever we have picked to do. I am open to ideas. One final thought, ~Women are Angels....on a broomstick. We are flexible like that~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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