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Layla, 54

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About Me

I've been on this site for a little while now, and although I've met some very nice men I haven't met the guy that makes my heart skip a beat. I'm looking for a professional guy who has a great sense of humor, is hard working, fiscally sound, and values his relationships. I enjoy spending time with intelligent men who are confident but not arrogant.- even at himself! :DI could tell you what a fantastic "catch" I am, but then my profile would sound just like thousands of others - and I'm many things, but not run-of-the-mill. People make assumptions about me when we first meet. I surprise them, even years later. I'm not a thrill seeker, but have the mindset of an adventurer. I enjoy seeking out new places and experiences. I'm curious and intelligent, organzed but not rigid. (An ESTP for those who know about MBTI.)For example, my favorite vacations are pretty free-form. We had a rental car, vouchers for each night we'd be there, and a vague plan of what we wanted to see. Our GPS took us down some interesting roads - we laughed a lot and made so many wonderful memories.I'm looking for a man who is willing to travel with me. Life is short - let's make some memories of our own! For an initial meet-and-greet the standard coffee, drinks after work, lunch, or ice cream work. When it comes to a first date I think it's easier to get to know someone when you have an activity you're both involved in. So maybe....going out for pizza, shooting pool, a trip to an aquarium or zoo, going to a flea market or bookstore, taking a cooking class together, checking out an exhibit at a museum, antiquing (I don't know anything about them but think the history behind things is fascinating), wine tasting, sightseeing or people watching, or finding a place with good music and maybe a little dancing? (Or please, suggest something - I love surprises! ;D )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Evelin

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am excited about life, the beautiful things it has to offer, and look for the positives in everything. I'm not a couch potato. I want to have fun, with fun people, and enjoy everyday! My guy will have to have the same outlook. Be outgoing, respectful, and make me proud to be with him. My world is "drama free" and yours should be also...or it just won't work.The type of man I want will be single/divorced, employed, and capable of handling his own affairs. My goal isn't to raise yet another child. I'm not interested in boys, not interested in professional meetville daters. I'm interested in that rare segment called "a normal man", who has time for me, has similar interests, and willing to start out as friends and let things naturally go where they're supposed to go.As far as looks.. Guys...c'mon now.. As nice and wonderful as overweight, bald, greezy, toothless men are...I just don't prefer to meet one. I personally care about how I look and you will need to care about yourself also. If that sounds crude or rude...unfortunately it needs to be said. It's also fact! Not looking to date "my dad", nor am I about to teach "a boy" the facts of life.. Again... I want a NORMAL man, in my age group, and sadly I must add...takes a shower when needed.. If I can smell you before I see you...it's not happening!If this sounds like you...then we should talk. IN THE ALTERNATIVE...if you are married, separated, engaged or have a girlfriend...then we shouldn't. Move along, hit your back button, exit stage left! Also...my kids are grown and I'm now free to explore life, so I'm not looking to help raise your little ones. I love kids, but... If you're a Creep just looking for a toy to play with or if you're a serial dater...beat it. I'm not the woman for you. Update.... At this point I am looking for a friend first.... I would like to get to know you.... I do not care to have a guy around that all he thinks about is getting you into bed and touching me in a inappropriate manner....I do not need to be analyzed head to toe be yourself please and I will do the same.... Let life flow naturally.... I honestly think the first time we meet it should be a meeting, not a date. If the magic is there...together we'll figure out our first date.

  • Blondell

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Every day is a day to be enjoyed and lived to the fullest. I play softball, run, dragon boat rowing, landscape my yard, have and go to dinner parties...the list of things to enjoy is endless. Drama is a waste of time...wish for someone who feels as I do. Coffee first, then future dates I would love them to be active. Meet for a 5k, biking, going to the beach, visiting a winery...an expierence for both of us.

  • Oralia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm a single Mom, who in the past focused on my daughter and my own personal growth. I am an independent, healthy and fun person, looking to move on to the next phase of my life without a dependent child. I enjoy working around the house and gardening in my free time, basically a homebody. I love animals, and spending time with family & friends. I am diligent in being around people who are responsible, positive, and nice. I really don't care for the drama that so many people, at any age, seem to thrive on. I would appreciate a gentleman whose age has done him well, and whose friends and family consider him to have strong morals, high values, and good character, and they would get the same from me. I love listening to music, especially 50s,60,70s. It brings back great memories, since music was always in my house and still is!! I l don't mind dressing up to go out, but am perfectly comfortable cooking a great meal at home. javascrapt:javascrapt:smilie(' ') ALSO;you must like animals, as I have fur-babies and they are part of my family. If you can't deal with love licks and paws for pets, you won't be comfortable with me!! My picture is current. I thought my parents were old at 50, however, now that that's where I am, I do not look, feel or act old! (of course, neither did they!) I also love to laugh and have a crazy sense of humor-I seriously think laughter is the best medicine!! I have been divorced for a number of years, not dating much, because I am the kind of person that believes that a parents first and foremost obligations with their time and energy is for their (minor) children. My daughter is 19 now, and has recently moved on her own and is independent and self sufficient(so, no drama there!). So if you think you we'd have some things in common and can deal with someone who wasn't/ isn't a serial dater, let me know!! I think a solid and healthy relationship is a wonderful bonus in life, not that you should spend your life with anyone, just so you are not alone. ALSO: If I make you one of my favorites, please feel free to contact me, as I'm kind of shy at first. Thanks for reading!!! My idea for a good first date would be to meet with someone who I felt a connection with after some phone conversation/emailing. Coffee or wine would be fine!! Going somewhere with some good old music would be good as well!javascrapt:smilie(' '). Pretty open to what we both feel comfortable with.

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