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Ailie, 55

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About Me

Before you take your time and read all of this, I do not answer if you do not have a photo. Long distance is too far for a meet and great over coffee or dinner and I do not bring strangers to my house, nor do I go far if I do not know you. Sorry My preference. But I do wish you the very best in finding that special person for your life. Also I have met several special men on here and have dated them, and after the second date if I feel this is someone I would like to spend more time with I get off this site. If you are obsessed with this online dating and unable to get off of it for a relationship with someone and you feel I will not find out your still looking for someone better PLEASE pass me by. I am not into games, cheating and threesomes.Often it seems, after talking to a lot of people that have tried the online dating thing, we look for a relationship on here, we tell everyone what we like to do or want for our lives, and they say pretty much the same thing just in different ways.. A walk on the beach at sun set, camping, fishing, tennis, good food, movies, a play. Yet we never seem to find the right one. They either are older then their pictures, fatter, skinner, don't talk much or too much, and then with out ever giving them a chance we move on to the next one, because there are a lot of lonely people out there. So we can. But if I do not take that chance, and if I do not look for that special someone, and just opt for a cup of coffee at Starbucks, or a nice dinner, then maybe that special one will turn up when I am not expecting it. One day there will be that spark that says "wait, I don't want to lose this one."Is that why your here too? Looking for that spark?"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. SeussDr. Seuss knew what he was talking about...lol. Let us be honest with one another, live like there is no tomorrow and love like there is no other...AND if you aren't ready to find love, don't start looking because love is around the corner waiting to be found...About me, well I am pretty normal, I love life and yes I do love the beach and everything on the water. I love hamburgers, and pizza and wine, love sports, and I am a writer, I really do love to sit at the beach and watch the sunset, and I have no problem walking in the rain and love it unless it is a total downpour, and I can fix my car.( I have an old jeep so I will not be pulling up in a fancy new sports car) I do not consider my family as "baggage." and my friends are my friends and I don't have to "bond" and my life is my life not "drama." I do not do," jealous, angry, rude, disrespectful nor cheat," and if you curse out the waitress because your eggs are not right, well then you are not my type. I love to dance, movies, family and friend cookouts, I attend church regularly, I volunteer at a food bank, I enjoy going about anywhere, dinner, flea markets, but I also like a nice evening at home DVD and glass of wine. Most of my free time is in front of the computer working on my third novel. I would like to find someone that feels the same way I do. Life is too short to not enjoy every day of it. .in fact my motto for life is: "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body...but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand - wine in the other, totally worn out and screaming "WOO~HOO - What a Ride!"About what I'm looking for?That spark How about a cup of coffee at Starbucks to see if that spark is there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cherette

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I was born and reared on the east coast (NY), went to college in PA and lived in the south (FL) for 10 years. I have a heritage of Italian and Irish and would like to travel to those countries someday as well as Australia. Culturally I should love to drink wine and whiskey and have a hot temper (hehe), but I am actually pretty even tempered. It takes a lot to get me mad, but I can hold my own in a fight if I have to. I am more of a lover than a fighter, but I do like to drink a little (wine, vodka, tequilla - whiskey not so much). I like to do a variety of things, anywhere from cooking a nice dinner at home to going out and listening to live music and dancing. I like to sing, I sing karaoke, I sing in church and I sing and act in local musicals and plays in my community theatre. I like to be involved in my community. I also raised 45K in 3 years and got a skate park built in my town. I am a huge children's advocate, I love children of all ages and have volunteered with children and youth pretty much all my life in community and church. I love pets too, I have a rescue cat and a teacup yorkie granddog that comes and visits often that I adore. "Must love dogs (and cats)" LOL I love fashion and dressing up for a night on the town, I am somewhat of a fashionista, but I also love sitting out on my back patio in my jammies, sweats or an oversized T-shirt (maybe one of yours). I enjoy discussing all subjects, including the taboo ones like religion and politics, but am respectful of opposing positions. I love all kinds of music, especially my back in the day music. My son has turned me onto country and I also love Christian music. I like music from other cultures as well, not too picky when it comes to music. I am health conscious and fitness oriented and am striving to be the best I can be by eating healthier and getting more exercise. I would love to have someone to work out with and keep me motivated. My goals and aspirations are to have good character and be happy and successful in all aspects of life, work, family, friends, a romantic relationship, etc. (all of those are pretty much covered except the romantic relationship, that is where you come in). I have no strong ties to where I live currently. I work from home which is cool because I can travel with my job so I am perfectly willing to move if I find the right guy, I am ready to close this chapter of my life and move onto the next phase. What makes me unique is my heart. I have a big heart for people and try to encourage people and build them up rather than tear them down. I try to see the best in everyone and not judge. A place where we can talk, not a movie or where there is loud music, maybe a walk in a park or dinner as long as you are comfortable in your own skin, happy and successful in your job, have a good relationship with ex's (no baby mama drama), children and family, nonsmoker, care about health and fitness, have a big heart, have good friendships, a sense of humor, do not take yourself or life too seriously, you maybe do some volunteer or charitable work, you like to go out exploring new things and places, but also like to just stay home and chill, you hold doors for women, you give up your seat for elderly and pregnant women, you believe chivalry is not dead, and you are respectful towards those around you "a man's character is judged by how he treats those who can do nothing for him." If this is you, please say hello.

  • Lara

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm easy going, very creative, thoughtful, mindful and romantic. I'm an artist so I have an artist's personality but I also work for architect's and have learned to pay attention to detail. I work really hard at my job and on my art. Always time for fun though and I'm good at seeking out interesting things to do around the city. I'm also content at home and don't have to have plans every night. I'm past the whole going to bars thing but I can still shoot a great game of pool. First dates should be something simple like coffee or a drink.

  • Dorcia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Thought I try a different aproach to this thing. I'm not into hook ups. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a man who loves me for me! I don't want a man to take care of me. I want some one that wants to be with a one man woman. To walk beside me, complement me. I am very independant, can ya all handle that. Love the outdoors and animals. And of course family and God. If I intetest ya drop me a line. Good luck fishing. :-) Coffee dinner maybe a walk and see where it goes from there. Looking for my best friend

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