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Ruthie, 51
United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

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The written word. It can convey so much and yet here, on this profile, it seems entirely inadequate. Yes, the pictures help predict a possible physical connection and lists of interests point out the activities we might share but exactly how does one bring one’s essence to life here in this finite box? Because aren’t we all ultimately looking for the kind of connection that surpasses words? Yet the journey has to start somewhere so a blank page (box?) it is and hopefully, when completed, you will have a sense of whether you would like to get to know me better. :)The predictable me…Loving and supportive mother, silly and fun-oriented, youthful in appearance and mindset, loyal friend, committed work professional, compassionate listener, witty and self-deprecating, financially literate and stable, in touch with my nerdy side, watches a little too much tv (I’m working on it!), loves dogs, Starbucks, long walks, regular exercise and smiling -- even when I’m not entirely feeling that way on the inside. The less predictable me…Going with what feels right rather than what is expected, decisions on staying in or going out, my taste in music, responding to a challenge, interjections of humour, loving or hating online dating, initiating the first kiss.I am, in some ways, a study in contrasts. I work in HR, yet am not a very rule-bound person. Not that I don't believe in rules but I also believe doing the right thing sometimes requires understanding the intended spirit of the rules just as much. I believe we learn through our mistakes yet still hesitate about making new ones. Without blinking, I would give anything of myself to my family and friends but would stretch my own self- I am a very social person but prefer having a few very close friends. I’m intelligent but feel like I still have so much to learn.I don’t have a laundry list of what you need to be because attraction is a wonderfully complex thing. It often starts with physical attraction but there is nothing more attractive than a person who truly understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. And it's easy to tell when you're in the right relationship because when you are, you are each the better person for it. So if something I have said speaks to you, then I hope you take the time to speak to me. :) A test of chemistry but hopefully more fun than a chemistry test!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Electronic Mexican Spanish Adult Fantasy Shooting Sports To Work Out
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  • Liv from Browns Mills | Woman | 53 years old | Gemini
    Liv

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I know I have a lot to give to the right person, I have a warm, kind and generous heart and passionate to those I love and care about. I love Baseball, football or any and All sporting events, especially going to Rays games, I LOVE SPORTS! I so love being with family. I love the beach at sunset and "pool-side" too. I have a 16 year old son that lives with me most of the time and an 20 year old daughter who is going to nursing school and is staying with me until she is done at the end of this year... They have helped me so much recently during a very difficult time for our family and they mean the world to me and I am proud of both of them and surround myself with them when I can... I'm a news junkie and love talking about what's going on and worldly events and my passion is cooking. I am a huge animal lover of all kinds and have cats. If I could I'd be a chef in my house of pets:) If you hunt or think hunting is OK, we would not be a good fit at all.... I am 5’7”, weigh ***lbs and I look exactly like my photos. I am very health conscious, eat smart and work out daily, it's important to me and I know and believe it is the key to health and looking for the same in a companion! I'm a little of a health and fitness nut but not a fanatic. I have just added running at night to my routine and I love it and I'm hooked!! I will be taking any new relationship slowly for many reasons. I am going to be patient, no matter how long it takes, and will find the right one for me. I'm here to find a fun, spirited and loving companion in my life and I'm now a very firm believer that I will know if it's the right person for me and everything else will just fall into place. I'm looking for a meaningful, respectful relationship and when I'm committed, I'm 100% and faithful! I am looking for someone that wants the same things in life and like me, just to be content and happy. Money and materialistic things ARE NOT IMPORTANT! I do believe in physical attraction first and it builds compatibility and companionship which to me is the key to happiness in life, so and either we have it or we don't. I'm NOT on here for sexual encounters OF ANY KIND . "flings" "hook-ups" or speed-dating either, so please don't waste your time or mine if this is all your looking for. ABOUT YOU! No smokers please (although an occasional celebratory cigar with the guys is cool) and being very physically fit and having fitness and diet an important part of your daily life is a positive and says a lot about you. If you don't talk about it in your profile, then it is probably not important to you, and I most likely will not reply...sorry it's a personal preference that's important to me. I am and have beome selective will not just "settle" again.......A man with strong arms is the first thing I notice and a really nice smile! I am also looking for someone close to my age, preferably ***ish) and taller than me, again just personal preference and I'm attracted to the shaved head-body- fit -look, especially at this age....Attraction and chemistry to me are much more important than money and materialism. Please be honest about your HEIGHT, AGE and BODY TYPE! There is no worse turn off when a man lies about himself and if you are sincerely looking for a relationship, why lie? I don't lie and I will not start out that way! .. I like a man that is POSITIVE, HONEST, PATIENT, SUPPORTIVE, witty and passionate about what he wants in his life. His family is a priority to him. If you travel extensively, unless on business, we won't work... I want someone in my life that wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him but allows us both to have our own lives too because I think having that balance and personal space is important in our lives and relationships as well. I have dated from the extreme "aloof" to the "obsessive/ suffocating" type and it would be nice to find someone with that "middle-ground" capability. I want that one person I look forward to seeing again, just can't wait to be around, makes me laugh and feel I am wanted, loved and cared about, won't lie to me and leave me behind and always wondering, and most of all, I just want to feel and be happy, to have peace and enjoy what life is all about!... I've been through a lot and enough is enough, so now.... IT'S TIME! Have to add: If I don't reply, I don't think we would be a good match for whatever reason. (see above!***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE..... a quiet drink somewhere where we can talk and learn a little about each other....maybe dinner and if things go well, a second date may be a game somewhere... A Rays game or sporting event... it doesn't matter as long as it is something we both would like to do... whatever works....

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  • Danna from Browns Mills | Woman | 53 years old | Gemini
    Danna

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi there! I'm a loyal person who loves to laugh and be silly sometimes. I enjoy doing outdoor things, including riding horses. I enjoy nights on the town as well as quiet evenings at home. I'm self-sufficient, but I'd love to share my life with that special someone. I'm open to many options if it were with someone special. On a first date, it's probably best to be in an atmosphere where we could get to know one another. Dinner at a restaurant that isn't too loud would be great. After that, we'd just have to see where it goes!

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  • Sharyn from Browns Mills | Woman | 54 years old | Gemini
    Sharyn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    My passion for life makes me unique. I am driven by humor, integrity and good character. I have many diverse interests and love to read, garden, ski (water and snow) go to movies and enjoy fine dining. I like to ride my motorcycle and take in the sites. I don't enjoy bars or clubs or drinking. Smoking is a deal breaker. When I love, I love deeply. There is such joy in finding the RIGHT ONE. However elusive, I don’t find myself rushing to find him. As a result of being very clear in my own personal truth, only beautiful men will reside in my life. I am my own guardian and am careful who I invite into my life. ~ men who are spiritually, emotionally, physically and financially secure. On a physical level I am attracted to dark haired (or gray haired) men, tall, height and weight proportionate. I don’t care for loud people or booming voices but really enjoy goofy, clean humor! At this age, I’m not looking to raise someone’s child or grandchild. I would prefer no kids at home or one dependent upon you. Education is important; it broadens our scope of life. Manners are important…they make everyone comfortable. I never leave home without them! How about a glass of iced tea in a nice setting... out of the heat !

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