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Gardenia, 51

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YES we are all looking for PERFECT….BUT, what is really perfect??? I have discovered over time that what I thought was perfect in my giddy 20's is definitely not defined as perfect to me today. Ultimately, my perfect match would be someone who I could sit beside and do absolutely nothing, yet feel perfectly happy. Life's lessons and experiences as well as maturity sure change that. That ol Cliché' of "If only I knew then what I know now" ever so true. I can now see the forest THROUGH the trees. Be a man of integrity.; I have been single for a good while. With having kids growing up very active in sports through the years, I sort of forgot about me. They are grown now and beginning their adult lives. I have a lot of life to live and have a lot of good years left and hoping to find that special someone to share it with. I am really tired of doing this thing called "life" alone. I have had experiences and have lived enough of my life to know what I want. I am not looking for a relationship just to fill the void. I definitely like affection and give it in return, easy going. I am independent and pretty self-sufficient, but I am definitely NOT the feminist. I'm fairly laid back, patient. I am not pretentious or high maintenance. I am soft spoken but definitely NOT the push over. I can get my nails dirty without having a coronary. I am NOT the Barbie girl; meaning I do not fit into the "slender or athletic and toned category". I am a little fuller-figured; basically….I am Woman…I have 3 boys; 2 who are grown and married and the youngest will graduate high school this school year. He lives with dad. My daughter passed away this past year, just a month shy of her 27th birthday. It was definitely the worst time in my life. I can definilty say that I am not over it...never will be...BUT..life moves forward...one day at a time....I have one grandchild who is absolutely my “little guy”. YES grand parenting is a wonderful thing. If you have kids I am OK with that even if they are still at home. I will respect the relationship you have with your kids and family as well as you with mine. I enjoy the outdoors and have diverse interests. I am a Christian, I enjoy the country, sports, both college and professional, not a golfer but would love to learn and join you or just drive the cart; I really enjoy working in the yard, planting new flowers for the season, enjoy fishing, hunting, camping, motorcycles, water, beach, mountains to theater, music, or just grilling out and being with family and friends, nice quiet night in with some wine or other beverage and just enjoying time together. Something casual, a public venue where we can both be comfortable, chips salsa, a beer, margarita, coffee. Where we can talk and get to know each other without having to shout over the noise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adella

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I would like to edit this without alot of aggravation, BOATING is a must in my life if you do not like to boat we will not be compatible.Love boating and fishing , beach and picnicing ,barbecues and having friends and family over for poolside parties,watching sports and just a happy hour get together friday night. I love to cook and have fun with all my friends. I exercise as much as possible and love to walk, bike and swim. I have my own business and don't have far to go to work.My girlfriend describes my personality as " this girl is on fire " I love to laugh and have fun but will not be the party girl ***as I do have serious resposibilties with my business.I am looking for a man that is kind, smart and knows what a portfolio is and has 1 , buys me flowers and loves tickling and massages. I am capable of buying them for myself its the thoughtfulness I like. I didn't get where I am today to go backwards so if I sound a little picky its probably because I am. I was married for a long time and have been widowed for almost 3 years. I am very independent and don't need a man to fulfill my life would love a man to compliment it. I love a man that looks as hot in jeans as he does in a tux and is willing to do both , like to go to black tie events !!!!! If I haven't turned you off yet then send me a pic without being in the bathroom ( guys whats up with that ) go outside ,these bathroom pics are such a turn off..... probably should have left it alone but I am just not interested in bathroom pics anymore !!!!!!!! I really am very sweet and loving with the right person but will not settle for less. Chemistry has to be there and we are all attracted to people in 1 way or the other and then start being a friend. OMG I probably won't get any dates now, but thats o.k. too. YOLO !!!!!!!!!! a quick phone conversation and we will see if we have chemistry from there who knows !!!!!!!!!

  • Karrie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a very independent person. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. I'm looking for someone to share the rest of my life with. Someone that will be my best friend, my lover, my partner in crime. I'm old school in so many ways. I believe in taking care of my man. Trust and respect is earned. I don't do drama. I was called a Social Butterfly because I do things with my friends. If you really get to know me you will find that I'm no where near a SOCIAL BUTTERFLY. I can ride the dirt roads. I like to fish, camping, the beach, college football, sit on my back deck with a fire and a cold beer. I don't date Black men so don't message me cause I will block you. Sorry... If I put a pic up of a friend and I it doesn't mean you get both of us so don't even ask. Maybe coffee or dinner and then go from there.

  • Morgan

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    hey im a 50 year young woman, im easygoing kind, honest, faithful, a little nutty at times, great sence of humour, I like country music and classic rock lol im the girl dancing in the kitchen when i think nobody is looking lol, i like going for walks, holding hands,i love camping sitting by a warm campfire i like spending time with my family, if I sound like the woman u would like to have for your partner im here and im waiting.... till then ... chow smiles. we can decide on meeting

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