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About Me

YES we are all looking for PERFECT….BUT, what is really perfect??? I have discovered over time that what I thought was perfect in my giddy 20's is definitely not defined as perfect to me today. Ultimately, my perfect match would be someone who I could sit beside and do absolutely nothing, yet feel perfectly happy. Life's lessons and experiences as well as maturity sure change that. That ol Cliché' of "If only I knew then what I know now" ever so true. I can now see the forest THROUGH the trees. Be a man of integrity.; I have been single for a good while. With having kids growing up very active in sports through the years, I sort of forgot about me. They are grown now and beginning their adult lives. I have a lot of life to live and have a lot of good years left and hoping to find that special someone to share it with. I am really tired of doing this thing called "life" alone. I have had experiences and have lived enough of my life to know what I want. I am not looking for a relationship just to fill the void. I definitely like affection and give it in return, easy going. I am independent and pretty self-sufficient, but I am definitely NOT the feminist. I'm fairly laid back, patient. I am not pretentious or high maintenance. I am soft spoken but definitely NOT the push over. I can get my nails dirty without having a coronary. I am NOT the Barbie girl; meaning I do not fit into the "slender or athletic and toned category". I am a little fuller-figured; basically….I am Woman…I have 3 boys; 2 who are grown and married and the youngest will graduate high school this school year. He lives with dad. My daughter passed away this past year, just a month shy of her 27th birthday. It was definitely the worst time in my life. I can definilty say that I am not over it...never will be...BUT..life moves forward...one day at a time....I have one grandchild who is absolutely my “little guy”. YES grand parenting is a wonderful thing. If you have kids I am OK with that even if they are still at home. I will respect the relationship you have with your kids and family as well as you with mine. I enjoy the outdoors and have diverse interests. I am a Christian, I enjoy the country, sports, both college and professional, not a golfer but would love to learn and join you or just drive the cart; I really enjoy working in the yard, planting new flowers for the season, enjoy fishing, hunting, camping, motorcycles, water, beach, mountains to theater, music, or just grilling out and being with family and friends, nice quiet night in with some wine or other beverage and just enjoying time together. Something casual, a public venue where we can both be comfortable, chips salsa, a beer, margarita, coffee. Where we can talk and get to know each other without having to shout over the noise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Titty

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am secure in my career and at point in my life that I am ready for a permanent relationship. I am looking for someone to spend time with and get to know. I have been divorced for 5 years and prepared for a commitment. I have a large family that I love spending time with. I'm looking for someone that could eventually fit in with them as well.I'm somewhat of a book worm. Science fiction novels are at the top of my list. Having a large family I've gained awesome cooking skills. My chicken fried steak is to die for if I do say so myself. In the past few years I've gotten more active and try to work out with my daughters a few times a week.All in all I'm just looking for someone I can relate to that will except me for who I am. Go out for dinner to a quiet restaurant so we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Malia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I work at a glass factory i like to go to the beach alot. I like country music. I like to go to the bar every so often tosee my friend and hang out

  • Ula

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am looking for a best friend with compatible interests. I am a vibrant, slim, attractive "real" lady who loves the simple things in life as well as the finer things in life. A walk in the park, cuddling up watching a movie at home, a fancy dinner out, a formal party, slow dancing, an exotic vacation or just a ride up north to see the fall colors. I love all types of music from rock and roll to classical. I don't care for hip-hop or most country music but am always open minded! I have one grown son in college who will always be a big part of my life and I would, and have, protected him with my life. His father is deceased so I'm it, although he has a very close relationship with his grandfather (my father). If you are a person who is still willing to compromise and share and accept new or old interests, we might be an interesting match! One thing I must make clear here is that I am not looking for anyone interested in a casual "hook-up". I'm a confident and independent woman who doesn't play games nor am I looking for casual sexual relationship, but I do like strong minded, independent and sexy men, don't get me wrong! A nice dinner and a drink or two, talking and getting to know each other. Possibly going to a club and listening to some great music, but having time to talk between sets!

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