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About Me

Miss having a man in my life who will treat me right and who I can take care of! I believe in a ***relationship! I like to do little things for that special guy in my life-massages, cooking their favorite meal, baking their favorite cookies or surprising them with tickets to a sporting event or concert!Looking for someone who is comfortable being who they are in life! It is o,.k. if they are shy or a little reserved, that does not bother me. Looking for someone who treats their I have a heart of gold though so that is hard to find these days :) I really do not want to just be someone's sexual partner-been there-done that-want to move on to something meaningful with someone :)I don't like to play games and I tell it like it is so if you are not comfortable with that, I am not the chick for you!-some people have told me "I am a trip"! I am very confident in myself and how successful I have been as a teacher, mom, friend, daughter and sister-not looking to get married again right away but it could be in my future again if all the stars align! I am looking to connect with someone on a level that I am comfortable with!I am definitely not the party girl I was in college BUT I do like to go out and enjoy a few drinks and a good meal or go dancing-if you do not drink alcohol I am totally down with not drinking-drinking to me is not a deal breaker! I only have my kids half of the week so on the nights I have free, I am usually up for just about anything...that could include dinner and a movie at home too-enjoy those quiet times just as much as getting out! I have a wood burning fireplace so I am looking forward to winter-yes I said it! I have taught elementary school for the past 13 years-being a teacher ranks as one of my most successful choices in life! I LOVE my job and am thankful that I found my passion in life-I currently teach Kindergarten in a Public School District.I am financially independent so I am very proud of that-I only have 2 years before I reach my top salary step! With that being said, I am not a sugar mama (ha) but I try to be very generous and "pay it forward". I have been blessed with a wonderful supportive family and very good health. I am close with my parents who live 10 minutes away-my dad is one of my best friends. He makes me laugh like no one else can!-they helped shape my personality-as you can tell!My 3 kids mean the world to me-they definitely come first when I have them with me. I have a set schedule with them and their dad so I am able to enjoy some time without them-it is kind of the best of both worlds! They are super charming, funny and the most loving kids you would meet---I would not have it any other way! I do like to keep my personal life (dating life) separate from my kids. It is important to me that there is a clear difference until I feel ready to introduce them to someone (I am thinking it will be at least 3 months for that-if not longer). I I really am open minded and very accepting, it is just my nature. Drop me an *** not have one set "type" of guy I am looking for! I am PASSED any point in my new life where "hooking up" is the thing to do-I am looking to get to know someone and maybe it will lead to something special- I do however enjoy being very sensual and passionate with the right person!...see if there are any sparks....not against a first kiss on a first date....there has to be good chemistry for me to want to go on date #2!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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    I am looking for a man who is most importantly kind, honest and who has a good head on his shoulders. I am interested in a take charge guy who can handle a woman with a bit of spunk, and doesn't live with his mommy. I am a great cook, I love to laugh and find it irresistible when a man has a great sense of humor. I am a hopeless romantic and a true giver. I don't need a three ring circus around me, but definitely enjoy the company of a great guy who will treat me right. So what are you waiting for?

  • Alexa

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    My title is just a reference to my interest in cars and motorcycles mechanics and the fact that people refer to them as a woman, like me. I enjoy different CAR RACES but, prefer motorcycles stunt/racing. NOT a nascar fan. I like the local races. I'm not superficial, don't need a husband, someone to take care of me or have kids with. I just want someone to have fun with that I can trust and talk to. A big turn off is you talking about how much money you make, bragging about possessions or talking about fashion. YOU MUST NOT BE A NON DRINKING CHRISTIAN or other, NOT LIKE ANIMALS OR WANT CHILDREN WITH ME. THESE ARE DEAL BREAKERS. I DO LIKE KIDS and enjoy there company. I worked with them for 4 years in KCMO inner city. I just don't want to be a mom or primary caretaker of them. I am a very good mom to my pets but there is too much pressure being a parent of children nowadays. If you have kids thats ok. I'm not having any tho. I like to ride ROLLER COASTERS, go to WATER PARKS, SWIM, KAYAK, CANOE AND CAMP. I enjoy going to the lake and many summer activities. I also ride my bike when the weather isn't to hot or cold. I am looking for someone that enjoys doing things and not always sitting in front of the TV all weekend. I do watch netflix sometimes. In the winter I will stay inside more where it's warm and play cards, computer games, board games, or WII. I love to read books. I like mystery, suspense and comedy mostly in books. I do like a few non-fiction. Movies- I like Action, suspense, and comedy mostly. I do like some drama and documentary's but not alot. I used to love scary movies in highschool but it seems corny now. I love zombie movies tho. Not a vampire fan. I also have a dog and bring him with me as much as possible so if your not into dogs this wouldn't work. He is a beagle mix and very social. He's almost 2 years old, potty trained, knows basic commands, and rarely barks. He's spoiled but I make him mind.I am open to alot of music but tend to favor 70's Rock, 80's pop, dance and hair bands, and 90's rap. Casual-not into being fancy or a guy trying to impress me with his money or whatever. Looking for someone that I can laugh and have fun with.

  • Lillia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm a single mom of 2 crazy little girls.. They keep life interesting to say the least! Also keep me pretty busy, I guess that's why I'm on here.. I don't get out to meet people too often. When I do get out, I'm usually shooting pool or checkin out some live bands. I'm not picky about what I do with my free time.. I can be just as happy curling up at home to a good movie as I would be out on the town.. Doing absolutely nothing can be great with the right company. Hmmm.. this is always the tough part.. I am honest, laid-back, and open-minded. I love to laugh, and even more so make others laugh.. Though my sense of humor can be a little on the darker side. I truly believe if you take life too seriously, you'll drive yourself mad.. But of course it's also important to keep your head on straight. Some have called me pessimistic.. I'd say I'm just a realist. I may come off as indecisive at times, but really I'm just indifferent. If I do have an opinion on something, I'll express it freely, no worries.. haha. A friend sums me up best in an 'award' he wrote about me on another site. He says 'Just think of having a girl around to do all the cuddling and date-type stuff with while not messing up the dirty jokes and mosh pits on a guys' night out. She's refined, but more of a dude's lady. Laid back with a zest for life, and honest.'My favorite type of music is the slow but heavy stuff, like tool, Type O, Clutch, C of C.. I recently discovered Phosphorescence.. I don't even know what to call that dude, but it's interesting. I get into some death metal, love classic rock and bluesy stuff, very little country, no rap but some r&b.. I guess my taste is kind of all over the place.

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