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Arletta, 34
United States, North Carolina, Wallace

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Miss having a man in my life who will treat me right and who I can take care of! I believe in a ***relationship! I like to do little things for that special guy in my life-massages, cooking their favorite meal, baking their favorite cookies or surprising them with tickets to a sporting event or concert!Looking for someone who is comfortable being who they are in life! It is o,.k. if they are shy or a little reserved, that does not bother me. Looking for someone who treats their I have a heart of gold though so that is hard to find these days :) I really do not want to just be someone's sexual partner-been there-done that-want to move on to something meaningful with someone :)I don't like to play games and I tell it like it is so if you are not comfortable with that, I am not the chick for you!-some people have told me "I am a trip"! I am very confident in myself and how successful I have been as a teacher, mom, friend, daughter and sister-not looking to get married again right away but it could be in my future again if all the stars align! I am looking to connect with someone on a level that I am comfortable with!I am definitely not the party girl I was in college BUT I do like to go out and enjoy a few drinks and a good meal or go dancing-if you do not drink alcohol I am totally down with not drinking-drinking to me is not a deal breaker! I only have my kids half of the week so on the nights I have free, I am usually up for just about anything...that could include dinner and a movie at home too-enjoy those quiet times just as much as getting out! I have a wood burning fireplace so I am looking forward to winter-yes I said it! I have taught elementary school for the past 13 years-being a teacher ranks as one of my most successful choices in life! I LOVE my job and am thankful that I found my passion in life-I currently teach Kindergarten in a Public School District.I am financially independent so I am very proud of that-I only have 2 years before I reach my top salary step! With that being said, I am not a sugar mama (ha) but I try to be very generous and "pay it forward". I have been blessed with a wonderful supportive family and very good health. I am close with my parents who live 10 minutes away-my dad is one of my best friends. He makes me laugh like no one else can!-they helped shape my personality-as you can tell!My 3 kids mean the world to me-they definitely come first when I have them with me. I have a set schedule with them and their dad so I am able to enjoy some time without them-it is kind of the best of both worlds! They are super charming, funny and the most loving kids you would meet---I would not have it any other way! I do like to keep my personal life (dating life) separate from my kids. It is important to me that there is a clear difference until I feel ready to introduce them to someone (I am thinking it will be at least 3 months for that-if not longer). I I really am open minded and very accepting, it is just my nature. Drop me an *** not have one set "type" of guy I am looking for! I am PASSED any point in my new life where "hooking up" is the thing to do-I am looking to get to know someone and maybe it will lead to something special- I do however enjoy being very sensual and passionate with the right person!...see if there are any sparks....not against a first kiss on a first date....there has to be good chemistry for me to want to go on date #2!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Disco Funk Italian Japanese Turkish Romance Soccer / Football
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