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Otelia, 35

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**Please read the following disclaimer before continuing-DO NOT message me or contact me if you are looking for any of the following: (f**k buddy/hook-up/friends with benefits/"sexting"/"cybersex"/extra-marital affair/anything similar to any of those listed above)...and I also have absolutely no interest or desire to see naked pictures of you. Some people say this but don't actually mean it-I MEAN IT.**Greetings, gents: I just relocated to the area and would like to meet some locals who can show me around town so I can make some friends and have some good people to just hang out and have some laughs with. I'm not ruling out "dating" by any means, but I'm not exactly "looking" for a relationship at the moment; if there's attraction & chemistry-great...if not, it would still be great to make some new friends and aquaintances. At this moment, I'm basically at a place where I'm starting all over in my life-and I'm determined not to repeat the same mistakes and choices that led me to need to start over in the first place. I consider myself to be a kind, decent, intelligent and honest person-BUT-I expect the same qualities in the people I allow in my life. I've learned & experienced a lot in my 35 years-most of the really important lessons I've learned were learned the hard way-but the key word here is "learned". I've learned that NO ONE is perfect-I'm certainly not-and therefore I'm not looking for perfection in another individual-but I am looking to surround myself with people who are always at least trying to better themselves for the sake of being better people. While I'm not a huge fan of meeting people online, I do know a few things about it-one of which is that when writing an online profile and talking about yourself, you're supposed to keep the tone light and fun and upbeat-talk about your hobbies and your taste in music and what you like to do for fun-those types of things. I am well aware of the fact that I am not your stereotypical woman-probably not in any sense of the word-and I am aware that the tone of this "online description" is somewhat serious and not at all "sun-shiny"...but I like to think that I am down-to-earth and I keep things real-and I would bet that if ***people read this, chances are 98 of them are going to continue on to the next profiles-but that's a good thing because I am interested in getting to know the 2 that didn't...those precious few who actually "get" what I'm saying and have the same or similar views. I'm much more interested in quality vs. quantity...it's the quality people I want in my life-I'm done with the other 98%...then I'd like to hear from you. I am NOT like most people-and I see that as a virtue-not a flaw. In the meantime...I look forward to hearing from you. I haven't been on a real first date in a very long time-so I'm game for just about anything within reason. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-28

    Hi! My name is Kacey. I am never married catholic caucasian woman with kids from Wake Forest, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Tricia

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Hello!I am here to meet new people, and see what happens. Normally I try to stay away from this because I prefer to meet people in person. It's hard to be charming electronically lol...I'm a single mother of 4 kids (sounds like a lot) but it's great. I have 4 amazingly talented and funny babies. Sometimes I can't believe the stuff that comes out of their mouths but then remember they're mine and I'm bound to say anything at any given time. I have a tendency to be a little outspoken ;-). I like to keep busy and make time for me. I recently started playing guitar and I've even played in public a few times. It was terrifying but sooo much fun. I made a point to stay single for a while to take time and remember what I used to like to do. Be me for once... It was the best thing I could have done. I reconnected with old friends, learned a new craft, even played adult soccer over the summer. So I'm not ruling out the possibility of a new relationship because I do want that again someday when it feels right. Never know what you're gonna catch while fishing! :-) First date.... Wine and dine sounds good :)

  • Rosheen

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    What I am looking for....Looking for someone who can carry on a conversation, Someone who wants a real relationship with someone who will never lie or cheat on them, has a good career and is close with his family and or friends, Old fashioned would be nice,who loves kids, has to be caring with a heart of gold, Someone who is passionate about life.Myself-What I would say about myself is I am a straight forward person, I always help others before I help myself. I am honest, faithful and trustworthy. Although going out to have a couple drinks isn't such a bad thing either. I'm very flirtatious, I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I would love to put that spark back in my life. I am coming out of a 10 year marriage, trying to re-enter the dating world. I am a single mom of three amazing kids that are my life and they come first, they keep me very busy with all of their activities. A few of my hobbies.. I love to cook and have bbq with friends and family hanging out. I love four wheelers and live in the country so I do not have any problem getting dirty. Swimming, fishing and going to the beach are all great as well. So is shooting some pool or going bowling which I am not the greatest at either but its still a great time. I enjoy just cuddling up on the couch and watch a great movie or jus lay back and relax talking about how our days were. I am pretty laid back and easy going, and I am willing to try anything at least once.Now, its your turn.. Tell me about yourself.

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