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Lynelle, 35

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About Me

Stop!!!! If your married or separated exit out of my profile, I've had to many liars on here, don't say your divorced on meetville and be married on *** knows someone and nothing turns a woman off more than a lying man. Grow up. If your not happy get out but don't cheat your way out. No one will win. I'm open and honest so pay attention :) ,I'm a package deal, I'm a single mom and I work full time. My son and I live with my parents as they are my daily child care. I don't have any baby daddy drama he bailed out before my son was born.Please understand that if you send me a message and I don't respond its my way of saying I'm not interested. Also if you don't have a current picture in the last 3-6months don't bother, to many men have lied about what they really look like more than any woman I know has ever lied about there actual weight. It's absolutely ridiculous.I know what I want and what I don't want. I want to have more kids so if you don't like kids or your not sure if you want kids, we won't be a match. You need to know if you want to be a parent, plain and simple. You have to understand kids come first always no matter what. I'm on here to meet new people as I don't get out as much as I would like to, I am not on here to hook up or have sex. I want a real relationship with a future. my goal is to find someone who wants what I want Love, Happiness, Marriage, a Home and more kids. Someone I'm attracted to, great sense of humor,knows how to speak sarcasm ( as I speak it frequently) someone who understands that just cause I can hang with the boys doesn't mean I'm not a lady and shouldn't be treated with respect. Someone who understands family and has strong values.I love to cook and baking is my true passion, I don't drink wine, I like my beer ice cold, I'm a Jeans and tank top type of girl but I can dress up and knock your socks off just as well. I'm not a fan of the snow or the cold, i love the beach but hate the crowds. * You need to be a man who can be honest with his feelings towards me and In general. * I don't want a man who doesn't know what he wants in life or isn't happy with himself.* You should not be a man that will make an effort to make me yours, then stop or give up trying to keep me. ( I get bored way to fast to put up with this crap)* You should have no past or present issues with drugs, alcohol abuse or addictions.*You should never have been arrested or spent time in jail. Keep it simple but sweet and romantic for a date. First meeting coffee or beers are suitable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jenny

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-52

    Hi! My name is Jenny. I am never married other mixed woman without kids from Wake Forest, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Janee

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    For the record...it is my personality and sense of humor to laugh about rediculous situations. I am not bitter or angry...at the same time...dont write me if...a) you have done or would ever do anything in my updates or b) just want to **** at me for actually having the updates.I am a hard working woman who strives for success! I love what I do! I like the finer things in life, as well as the simplicity of it. I am a single mother and an extremely hard worker. I have been burned in the past and just want something real, easy and fun. Trust is HUGE to me and I always go out of my way for my friends so *** the end of the day I want someone to go out of their way for me. I want to be swept off my feet and treated like a queen...Of course in return I would treat my man like a king. I DO NOT want someone who will be clingy or needs a lot of attention. I want someone to compliment me and my life...someone who has their own career and will let me have mine without trying to "take over". I think that when you care about someone, you should make an effort EVERY DAY to let them know that but dont smother me! I like to stay active and am always up for a challenge!I like to play tennis although I am not amazing at it...I love music because it is so much a part of what I do sooo I like a variety of styles. I am always up for live music! And despite how serious all of this sounds....I can be a complete goofball. But I need someone who knows when that is appropriate. If you absolutely cant be serious for any extended period of time...this wont work. Also, I NEED someone who is musically inclined. I know that is weird but if you cant hold a tune in a bucket or at least play an *** drive me crazy. Sorry..it just does. (maybe I am a little picky...lol)OK...update! I want that someone in my life who I can depend on NO MATTER WHAT! Us against the world! I need someone with ambition and drive. I cant be your motovation...you need to be your own. I want someone who has a career...not just a job (or who is content bagging groceries for the rest of his life). Someone who is not afraid to make things happen to get what he wants/needs. I want a family oriented man who wants that traditional family and understands the bond between a parent and child. I believe that a man should provide for his family when he chooses to have one (but not finance a girlfriend). I HATE CRYING unless it is a death in the family or something serious. How can you be a rock for me if you crumble at every sign of stress? I am a pretty tough chick...I make things happen and work my tail off, but I also have a fragile side and need a strong man beside me. I like to cuddle and am very touchy-feely...BUT when I am ready to go to bed....I dont want anyone touching me! If that is a problem for you sorry..I find the men who NEED to cuddle to sleep tend to have mommy issues...and I am not your momma! ok...thats all for now.ADDITIONAL UPDATE! When I say I dont like to cuddle...that means that I dont want to sleep with someone completely engulfing my body or flopped on top of me. I am very touchy feely and like to touch...I just dont want to be smothered! STOP WITH THE HATE MAIL ABOUT MY CUDDLING PREFERENCE! If you have a problem with what I prefer...DONT WRITE ME! You are the whiny type I am trying to avoid with my above update anyways! Thank you! :)I have to keep updating as I talk to more and more people on here...I do not like the extreme of any stereotype...Like the gangsta wanna be..the hillbilly.....none of them. If you speak ebonics or use sentences like "I aint bout to be over yonder" in serious conversation...please...please...please...pass me by. I am looking for a smart educated NORMAL PERSON. Also, Just because I am on here...does not mean that I am desperate. I wont take whatever I can get. I know what I want and being on here just expands my base to find it. Thank youLATEST UPDATE!!! If you can not survive with out sneaking around and self servicing to porn while you are in a relationship...DO NOT WRITE ME! What you do when you are single is fair game...but I seriously do not understand the addiction when you have a partner who is willing. Grow up!ANNNND...yet another update....(I am soo surprised that I even have to write this one but here goes)...If you CANT tell the truth about ANYTHING to save your life...or if you are extremely selfish...OR if you feel like it is your right to remove protection in the middle without asking (especially when she has clearly stated that she does not want that) DO NOT WRITE ME!!!!! I'm not blind or stupid and that attempt will get you dumped...even if we have been together for a year. uggghhh...idiots.....I AM GROWING TIRED OF THIS....If you have an uncontrolable NEED for sympathy and need to twist stories to make sure you get it...you are looking in the wrong place. I have been through a LOT in my life and have seen the worst of the worst...I WILL NOT feel sorry for you because your not getting everything you want when you want it. And I WONT deal with **** fits...your a grown ass man...act like it. And finally..if we go on a few dates and you come over and fall asleep watching movies...every night...that means you either dont have a home to go back to OR you just want to mooch off of someone. Dont expect to stay at my house...and EXPECT to cover your own expenses. What has this world turned into! I like lunch dates because they are more casual and it limits the "what next" feeling since I have time restraints. If we click..we can schedule a second date.

  • Lupita

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    PLEASE READ BEFORE WRITING ME! I don't want to waste your time or mine.I'm the kind of woman that believes it's about sticking with someone when times get tough not just being around for the easy times. It's about trusting someone to do the right thing when you are not with them. It's about working hard to keep what is important. That's what a relationship is all about, and that's what I'm looking for! I currently have a bachelors in Psychology and am working towards my masters. If you read at top you can see I'm not a skinny girl and if that isn't something you can handle then don't message me. I would prefer a man that likes bigger girls and curves. I'm hard working, honest, kind, blunt, independent, family orientated, big hearted, loyal, and will do anything to make the man I'm with happy. I'm a little shy at first but once you get to know me I tend to open up. I love to laugh and love to make others laugh I'm weird and quirky, but I'm completely okay with that =-ups. I really like to get away and experience new things.When looking for someone I look for someone who is honest, funny, hardworking, and that knows how to treat a woman. I especially like a man who knows what he wants. I believe a sense of humor and a personality is fundamental in a relationship. Looks aren't everything but lets be honest they matter a little, and you have to be attracted to the person you are with not just physically but mentally. I'm not sure what to expect from this site but I'm hoping to meet someone who isn't shallow and conceited, but someone whose personality lights up a room. Also, don't consistently message me one or two word messages I want someone who can hold a conversation not me holding the whole conversation. UPDATE: Please quit asking me to send naked pictures I don't EVER! I'm not looking for a hook-up or anything random I'm looking for the real deal. First dates are hard to determine because depending on the person would depend on the kind of first date we would have. I like to compromise and if we were to do something I liked the next date we would do something you wanted to do (if there is a second date). Ideally it would be somewhere where we can get to know each other better to determine if we even like each other. Worse case scenario is that we both make a new friend.

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