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Janett, 33
United States, North Carolina, Spring Lake

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Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Canadian Greek Portuguese Spanish Animation Music Sci-Fi
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  • Ginette from Spring Lake | Woman | 32 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Great personality with a huge sense of humor, love to laugh and make others laugh as well. I like trying new things but all in all just having a good time. I work a lot and have crazy hours but when I am not working I am interested in spending time with friends and family. I love live music and going to shows, I go as often as I can, unless it's country...I avoid. Like to travel and visit new places I have never been before, goes hand in hand with trying new things. I do like some activities, which are not dependent on my coordination, and I do like some sports...mostly baseball, I love going to games and traveling to go to games. This pretty much sums it up, again what you see is what you get. :)

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  • Bula from Spring Lake | Woman | 35 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am currently going to college and enjoy being mentally challenged and stimulated. My hobbies are FITNESS, I enjoy being active. I run often and bike a lot, but I enjoy almost all sports and activities, some times just as a spectator! I enjoy traveling and can't stand a dirty home. I enjoy a large arrange of things from amusement parks, to fishing, camping, movies, drive-in's.I would like to meet someone I can share some common interest with but yet have some differences, someone who mentally stimulates me, and physically challenges me.

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  • Cecelia from Spring Lake | Woman | 35 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am looking for someone who is honest, caring, loyal, dependable, intelligent and wanting a committed relationship. If you do not have a job or do not have a direction in life please move on. Also, if you enjoy doing drugs of any kind, please keep moving. I am not looking for a one night stand, so if thats what you are all about keep moving too. I am looking for someone who wants to have fun but not out for partying all the time. I am looking for someone who can make me laugh and carry on a conversation. I am looking for a gentleman who is respectful of boundries and space. I do not want games or drama. Okay so if you haven't stopped ready I will tell you about me.I am a single mom of a very energetic four year old who is my main focus and concern. There isn't a moment that I think about how my actions will affect him. I am honest, caring, loyal, hardworking, attentive, intelligent, focused, and detail oriented. I can be quite competitive but its all in good fun and I am not a poor loser or poor winner. I enjoy long walks and good conversation. I like being outside with my son. I really like to sit by the fire and look at the stars. I also enjoy playing cards, bored games, or video games. I generally like any kind of music, some I can only take a lil at a time. I like to read, but I don't get much time to do that. If you would like to know more please ask.

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