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Janett, 33
United States, North Carolina, Spring Lake

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Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Etheldreda from Spring Lake | Woman | 32 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    * *not looking for a texting buddy, I have an 11yo for that **I am a single mom so my kids are first and foremost in my life. I am pretty simple really on my free time from kids and work I enjoy hanging out wit friends and family and during football season I am all about some BAMA ball :) I enjoy anything outdoors and love listening to music of all kinds. I'm just ur simple independent woman that loves to have fun :)Many ask me what I am looking for on here, well its really hard to say, But basically I'm tired of playing with boys..I am looking for someone that has his life together and doesn't expect me to piece it together for him..and a sense of humor is a must! And if u have a life full of drama eh I would rather not I am drama free for the most part. And if ur on here lookin for ur next booty call jus pass me by cause I am too old for those games..OK, I will go ahead and put this out there..if you don't have a J-O-B and your own ride don't even bother contacting me...if you cant do you then you sure as heck can't do me. If I can take care of me plus 2 and you can't take care of you then your not my type lol just saying..oh and if you have kids but don't see or support them, don't message me...deadbeat dads are not my thing..your kids are first! Ok update...I've done the dating thing for awhile now and I am ready for the stability of a relationshipAnd BTW u tat'd up guys are my fav ;) and if u have a pic with a cig hanging out the side of ur mouth or a shirtless pic as ur pro pic do not contact me. The cig is trashy and shirtless jus means ur self absorbed and i dnt have time to sit and pet ur emotions constantly tellin u ur hot.. thx! And pics of ur kids on a dating site? Why?–Stacey just really depends on the person I am with.....just not anything all romantic and mushy .

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  • Emely from Spring Lake | Woman | 33 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am a outgoing and fun woman with a open mind for new things. This is why I am on here!. I am new to online dating, and I would love to meet someone who likes the same things as I do. I enjoy the outdoors, movies or maybe a quiet night in. Followed by almost anything your up for. I have a good job and a great 13 year old who is my world. I would love to tell you more but, you will have to meesage me and tell me a little bit about you first. Hope to chat soon and see where things go!:) Maybe chat and see what we feel up to doing!

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  • Alana from Spring Lake | Woman | 35 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    My family (including my fur babies), friends and job are very important to me; everything else is a bonus. I love to travel... Such great memories. I am looking forward to traveling some more and to hopefuly find some one who would like to join me.....I have a great job and I work hard but in my spare time, I like to walk my dogs (2), go to live rodeos, country fairs and outdoor concerts. Although I like a lot of different music it is country I listen to most often. I have recently starting learning french... mais je prefere l'anglais lol....My favorite sports are bull riding and football, and my favorite seasons are summer and fall. I don't own a bike, but love to ride. I love to swim (as long as the water is weed free, lol), boating, kayaking as well as camping and hiking. This past summer I have taken up paddle boarding and really enjoyed it. I am not afraid to try new things. I am looking for a mature man who has a good heart. Best of luck out there......

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