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Joel, 35
United States, North Carolina, Spring Lake

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I'm a sweet, caring, spunky and positive woman who's just trying to find her One. :) I'm not a serial dater. I'm really looking more long term, in the hopes of finding someone that wishes to have a family or if you already have kids, that's awesome, too. I would really like the opportunity to adopt children, even.I have a dry, slightly sarcastic sense of humor.I'm pretty good at making people feel loved and respected. I very rarely dislike anyone so I truly desire to embrace everyone around me. :) I really enjoy taking care of not only the house, and everything that would entail but also just my man...whenever I finally find him! I'm a family woman...a woman that loves to be around family and I so hope I get a chance to have my own family.I'm hoping my guy is still out there! I want to go slow at first and form a friendship that could possibly lead to more. I'm looking for someone who's a bit...different...maybe not quite nerdy but can seem...unique.I really like smart men but men who are not arrogant about their brains. :) I'm a bit nerdy myself but not your regular kinda nerdy.... I am very familiar about particular subjects -- subjects that have no interest in most people. Meeh..I still like the quirkiness of me and I only hope to find someone else that likes that about me, too. :)Most people have said I have a sweet smile and beautiful dark blue eyes -- or so I've been told. Oh, and the best bear hugs. :D I'm a bit of a cuddle bug -- but I also know when to give space when needed as well.I'm currently reading the Song of Ice and Fire! series; Clash of Kings, specifically, so don't give anything away. Shhh! I love to read more than any other extra-curricular activity. I actually have three books on the go right now. Most books I tend to read are fiction (I prefer science-fiction firstly) but occasionally I'll find something of interest to me in the non-fiction section.) every once and awhile but I'm still learning to enjoy wine or other alcoholic drinks! lol It must be an acquired taste. Give me my cup o' tea, *** have a full- I work hard at my job, but I just LOVE what I do! I feel very blessed to be able to work for a wonderful company. I truly do wake up excited on Monday morning.Furthermore I love animals and would welcome your pets in our lives.Btw, if I didn't say "hi" after viewing your profile, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm not interested. I could just be feeling a bit shy. :) I do blush when I'm feeling shy. lol*You MUST be employed for me to consider you...sorry! I know how hard this economy is but still...* :( Lastly, I DO NOT speak French. English only* I would like the first day to be very casual and low key so there's less pressure. I'm looking for a cup of tea or perhaps a meal where we can just get to know each other. Anything we do, I would like to go dutch on so neither of us feels obligated towards the other.Perhaps afterwards it would be nice to take a stroll, and hold hands, see how that feels and assess whether the chemistry feels right for a second date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Leann from Spring Lake | Woman | 35 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I don't expect anything to come out of this cus I find that no matter whats said its all in the meeting, chemistry etc. ps. whats up with the one picture profiles, looks/sound soo fake!I'm here to pass a little time besides who knows...I am 33, single, a natural redhead with green eyes and about ***pounds. I know excacly what I want in life... I am very goal oriented, confident and a loyal person. I'm sincere, easy to get along with and outspoken. I love to laugh and think that I have a good sense of Humour!I am Witty and quick and I think its one of my best traits. I love being active, sports, dancing, working around the house, gardening, renovations, decorating, boating, and anything fun... I live in the country about 15 min. from the city - I like the tranquility of the whole thing :) and I have the best of both worlds! I do not have kids but would like to have 1 or 2 later on :)My first language is French and I speek it everyday.I STOPPED SMOKING... WOhoo! (Oct.25, ***and counting :) so would be nice to meet a non-smoker... :)Would not mind a man that can make me smile and help compliment my wonderful world :)A man that I would wanna rush home for... What I like/want in a man:Honest And SincereLoyalTall, not skinny or overweight!!A job that he likes A PartnerIntelligent Funny MatureDown to EarthOpen MindedSexy (its an attitude)Thuggs & Pretty boy's are not my styleSerious and sensitive when its time to beA man that I admire :)well established (mentally and financially) Because I amIf he can cook, what a bonus that is :)I like a man to be Handy around the house... Don't wanna feel like the man of the house.And of course, SINGLE....I aint`t a HOME WRECKER, so if you are INVOLVED, dont waste my time and yours...PLEASE ONLY RESPOND IF YOU FIT THE DESCRIPTION!I am really more a dog lover than a cat person, I have an older cat, that still looks like a kitten.. giving it the best life possible, after that, not to be mean but NO MORE CATS!!Dislikes:Hyper peopleLoud People or motor mouthsSomeone that needs to be the center of attention To a certain extent "Pushy men"Dependent & Lazy menWhen a man acts like a big baby (unless he is sick :)If your a city boy, and what I intend to say by that is: if you need a mall next door, and a Burger King to survive don`t waist your time cus that`s not what I`m looking for!Quotes that I believe in and try to live by :)- Be yourself... I dont want to get to know you twice!- Patience & Location are key when fishing!- I will not settle for less nor should you!- Don't work for money let money work for you!- It's better to be in the position of giving then receiving!- Dance like no ones watching!- Live life like there is no tomorrow!- U are what u eat!- Never think of yourself as a Victim!- Spooning leads to forking.... hehehe!- If you can't laugh at yourself, allow me! hehehe!- never make someone a priority when they only make you an option or they dont give the same in return...- The outside beauty of a man could get my attention... but a beautiful soul will keep me!The lesson of the day is:********** People will remember what you did or what you said but they will never forget how you made them FEEL...************Thank you in advance for the great mail! Best of luck to you!***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone ***\\***Who Died ***\***Of ***\\\***Cancer***\\\ ***My mother was just taken by this awful disease..... lol then if everything goes well the second date is THE ONE :) movie or clubs are not a very good idea!

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  • April from Spring Lake | Woman | 35 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    When I'm not *** flooring or deciding on backsplashes, I work full time, self employed, as an acupuncturist. It's a pretty cool job and I'm thrilled with how well I have been doing. I enjoy meeting new people and helping them figure things out and hopefully relieve some pain while we work at it. I am a bit of a musicophile; Basically, I find something in any genre that's worthwhile, except for Jazz. Jazz is horrible. In my past lives I was a waitress and a bartender/manager and a research & development scientist and a Cutco saleslady and a librarian and an office assistant and an herbal dispensary tech... I've walked in many shoes and can relate to many types of people. I like to meet immediately and see if there is any chemistry or spark, physically. I can be perfectly matched with someone on paper, but no spark, no deal. So a low pressure date, meet for a drink, a game of pool, something simple. I'm looking for a real connection, both mentally & physically. They are equally important to stimulate a meaningful relationship.

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  • Rana from Spring Lake | Woman | 32 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a mother of two children and they are my world and will always come first in my life. I am a very caring and compassionate person. I like cooking, being outdoors, riding four wheelers, sports, shopping, going to the movies and most of all spending time with my kids. I like listening to a variety of music, my favorite is country and rock.I grew up on a small farm and I currently live in the city and hope to move back to country again sometime in the near future. I own my house and a SUV. I am not looking for someone to pay my bills, I have stuff together and ready to start the next chapter in my life. Something simple... A drink, walk in the park, or dinner.

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