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Kristian, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

Offline, last seen Mon, 02 Feb 2026 13:54:24

About Me

Working toward the next stage in life. Reveling in the state of possibility.I have an adventure list. Ideas big and small go on it, rather than just being idle topics in fragmented conversations with friends. In ***I started constructing the life I wanted *** wondering why I was unhappy. Soon after I was laid off. Now, my life is completely different. I'm still working on rebuilding, & I just got a promotion. I've tried more new things in the past two years than I did in all of my twenties. I find people fascinating, and differing points of view valuable, or at least interesting. I lived most of my life seeming shy. But it wasn't really me. People saw me completely differently than how I felt on the inside, thought I judged them. I decided to stop hiding, and start smiling more. I talk to strangers now. I still listen just as much as I did before, which is deeply, thoughtfully, and attentively. It surprises clerks in stores - they are so used to seeing the zombie version of shoppers that when I pay attention, and wait for them to really answer "How are you?" they are shocked out of robot-mode. I *love* sincerity and am unimpressed by apathy. I am passionate. I'm not "laid back", but I AM forgiving, patient, flexible, open, caring, playful and strongly empathic. I like many kinds of music, but return again and again to those that make me feel happier. I avoid scary/horror movies. Exercise is like delightful medicine, especially if it involves music and movement. I am both strong and soft.If you don't have a public picture, I won't respond. I'm not looking for anonymous encounters with strangers. I want to meet some people. I have an appreciation for the beauty of the natural world. Butterfly viewing at the Safari Park would be fun, but I'm not going to drag someone to the humidity and impersonal space; 3-hr whale watching cruise would unfairly trap us on a boat. ;) If we hiked together, you'd have to be really patient because I'm probably slower than you (but very determined). I love to dance and move, but might get swept away in it. An initial meeting for coffee would be a better place to start. It's important for me to get a better sense of you face-to-face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Luvinia from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 34 years old | Leo
    Luvinia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm a simple girl. I'm not a fan of drama. I enjoy going out experiencing new places, new things. My interests are not limited to those listed. :) I am a country girl at heart, but I have some rock and roll in me..... So I don't mind getting dirty, going camping being outside. I love the city too, getting dolled up for a night on the town. I enjoy sports both watching and playing. I'm looking to meet someone who has no expectations other than taking it day by day to see where we go from there. I want a companion, someone who enjoys life and all it's experiences. I love to smile,laugh and be goofy. If one takes life to seriously they miss out on the adventure of life!! My kids are my life, my best friends. My son is 11 and daughter is 9. They are just as goofy as their mama. And keep me on my toes. Keep it simple! Let's just grab a drink or dinner. Lets have fun. If we click we can move into the night from there. Don't get me confused with a girl whose just looking to get laid. Sorry I'm not one to just hop in bed with a new found friend! Kinda old fashioned I guess!

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  • Dorcia from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 31 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

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  • Leah from Sneads Ferry | Woman | 32 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Hey, I'm Courtney. This isn't my first go around on here so I'm not setting my expectations too high. I could almost write a book from experiences on here. I'm looking for a great guy who knows how to treat a lady and values family and is career driven. If you're just coasting through life then we probably aren't a match. I'm much more of a sundress and flip flops girl and am very independent (I actually work to spoil myself) and have natural curves. Don't get me wrong I love my collection of heels but not something I want to wear every night. Family is very important to me. My parents have been married for 39 years so I value commitment and longevity. Seems like most guys here want to be lifelong bachelors and just want some fun along the way. Maybe someone can prove me wrong! Any questions, just ask! Something low key...coffee or drinks. I personally don't see the point in paying for a dinner just in case it's not a good match.

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