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Joye, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

Well the nest is empty and it's time for me to get on with my life. So let me start by telling you a little about myself. I am a very independent but far from a feminist. I work part time so I can watch the grandchildren two sometime three day a week. So my daughters can work full time. I am very low maintance, so if you want your woman to wear the lastest fashion, sorry not me. I was born and raised on a farm so I can go out and play in the mud and turn around get dressed up and go out to dinner and a movie. An if you have alot of drama in your life write a book I'll read it later. Don't need no crazy ex of yours driving me crazy, I like my life stress free. Tired of men telling me what they think I want to hear, making and breaking promises, and not ready for a serious relationship. Say what you mean and mean what you say. I don't want to control anyone and won't be controled by anyone (I had a dad). I also won't change for a man and don't want a man to change for me, It won't work, you can't teach a old dog new tricks And yes sarcasm is a spice of life. so bring in on. I like motorcyles, flea markets, truck/tractor pulls, playing pool, going out to eat and love scary movies, I like Steven King and Robin Cook. I would love to travel some,I am going to see the Grand Crayon before I die. It's on my bucket list. Yes i'm old enough to have a bucket list. I am looking for a smart independent family oriented man. Someone who know what he wants, Someone who is ready to enjoy life and not go through it at ***mph. I want someone who is active not a cough potato. I don't look or act my age. If you want to know more just ask. i'm kinda shy til I get to know a person. So best first date is a flea market , fair, football game, ect someplace where u have something else to talk about.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Indonesian Italian Horror Music Sport Boxing Dance Golf Volleyball Outdoor Hobbies Play Sport Games Social Networking
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