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Elina, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

I really do love life, people are a big part of it. I enjoy an active lifestyle but cherish my solitude. Love mountains, sunsets, animals & all of nature. Music, chi-gong,yoga, got art?The Ocean!, kyaking, boating, dancing, biking & the beat goes on.By some strange fluke (there are no coincedences, spell ck), my last profile was delited. So I will take this opportunity to enlighten you who are interested with a bit of bio..... My mom ( my hero) would say "everyone has something good about them, find it & focus on it". She was a classy, strong woman. A pioneer of single working women. Daddy died after her 5th baby (me) after making it home from the war. I grew up in a upper-).Surrounded by people of integrity I quickly learned that nothing worthwhile comes without a price (except salvation, pd. in full). Moved to Fl.Spent some college time in S. Fl. & lived fast & dangerous till my biological clock started ticking and the dreams of the white picket fence and children's laughter.. So I married the closest thing I could find to the "boy next door" just knowing I could change the beer drinking construction worker to the fine fatherly figure in time. So this journey in life as many turning roads, and after 24 years of marrige,Alas, I"ve landed here reborn, pushing 50! LOL. Suddenly I don't sound fun? Well I am. Wanna play? Yes there are benny's to this growing older. Experiance is a great & sometimes painful teacher. It's all in perception. And I am happy. By choice, not default. I am becoming more grounded, and sensual. No regrets.I have been privleged to raise 2 amazing people in this crazy world. My son is a senior this year in HS & I have a beautiful daughter turning 21. Teaching them to hold their heads high, but remembering to keep the nose at the same level as everyone else. We all share the same air.I work well with people. And under deadlines. Need flexability. Through the years, I have learned to adapt to a schedule!Guys say I'm charming & have great leggs. Get to the gym everyday, My friends describe me as positive, generous kind, loyal & loving too. I'm glad they like me! I like a good hearted man who knows how to be a man & treat a lady.I plan to make the most of what;s left each day, until perfect love in eternity. Always searching for balance. Would be nice to share it with someone special. Laughter is good medicine! Intelligence is overrated, and the knowledge of this world can blind truth. My quest is for deeper; WISDOM. Which comes with faith, hope & the greatest of these..... Precious life lessons come with years, although I'd never compromise my values, I have learned acceptance. I believe we are 98% spiritual beings. But there is a need for forgiveness, in that 3% subject to human error. You men that don't want any "baggage" might want to learn to handle a ladies "carry on", we all have some. It's about love.Got a sweet little imagination that can level buildings. Always loved my rose colored glasses;)So entering this new season in my life, past job well done, It is My Time! That was Zen this is tao."Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, today a gift, That is why we call it "present"! Really depends on him too. But I like to get to know someone before I ask him to go skydiving.Maybe a light dinner. A drink at a quiet pub. walk on the beach (weather permitting) or in the park. Some music might be nice, but no loud bands. It's important to talk. I am a hopeless romantic, so ambiance is allot. Better watch that moonlight.................

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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