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Xiao, 55
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

Hello,Self description is difficult for most of us and my hope is to present an honest view of my personality, desires, and needs.I will begin by saying that I choose to be a friend to myself. I have many good, nurturing friendships and am loved by many as I love them. I am grateful for all these friendships and I hope that I give them a portion of what I receive from them. I know first hand that God does turn bad things into good and many times it is demonstrated through other people. Without my family and friendships, I don't know that I would have weathered my storms as well as I did. I was married for more than 25 years (this is when you should offer BUT YOU DON'T LOOK OLD ENOUGH) and found myself as a single mother to a high school freshman. I had never lived on my own and discovered I could handle it, and handle it well. Here is one of my desires...to be married again but only to a GOOD man. As I said, I can live life single and will over a so so relationship.That high school freshman is now a rising senior at NCSU (go Pack!) and I am proud of the man he has turned out to be. I am a dog lover and any man who does not at least like dogs probably would not want to be in relationship with me. Current canines in residency are a silver lab and labradoodle. Needs....to continue to grow my relationship with God, work toward financial health, emotional health, and physical health. I do work daily on my relationship with God. Financial health in this economy, I must admit, requires diligence. As for emotional health, some days I find I am strong and other days - not as strong. Communicating and confiding with trusted friends and family helps this growth. Physical health requires more of myself than the others. I eat fairly healthy but fall short on fitness. Perhaps I need a partner?I enjoy about any kind of event - sports, music, plays, movies. I am outgoing and talkative and would talk to a wall if no one else is around. I confess, I make up songs about my pups and sing to them. I have an active library card and love to read. I read fiction, non-fiction, religious, spiritual, self-Good luck in your search! A place where we could talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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